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Archived questions from: June, 2008 (see latest in Age differences category)

Age differences: Help and advice

Is this too much of an age difference?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5986 days ago

30 June 2008 (?) - Hi everyone... I'm after meeting this guy a few weeks ago and have been out on a few dates and we just get on really well... The thing is the other nite we were talking and I found out he's nearly 24 and I'm 31 next month! I thought he said he...

How do I stop obsessing about someone? He was a teacher at my school.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5988 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - Hey. I need to know if anyone knows how to stop an obsession with someone. Or at least tone it down. I have this friend and we're both either in love with or obsessed with this 26 year old guy. He's cute, funny, good company, smart, and just so ...

I love him and want to spend the rest of my life with him, but my dad doesn't approve.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5987 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - im 15 years old and i have a b/f that is 23 years old. i love him with all my heart. we've only been dating for 4 months and already i love him and wanna spend the rest of my life with him, but my dad dont approve. a lot of people think its weird bu...

Can something that just sort of happens be so wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5988 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - I have been talking to a married guy for months on the internet, it was always general chit chat nothing flirty or sexy until Friday. I don't know how it happened but we got chatting and then flirting and then pictures were swapped, sexy pictures. ...

He sends me random sexual texts and I really want to meet him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5988 days ago

29 June 2008 (?) - right well im not going to give too much detail because that would make my post extremely long but theres a guy, call him *R* and ive liked him now for like 3 years or something! since the day i met him ive fancied the pants off of him, ive not even ...

I get this jealous streak when it comes to my older boyfriend! Is this because I'm inexperienced?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5989 days ago

28 June 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years, and he is 8 years older than me (imonly 18). I find myself feeling jealous when he goes out, as i dont go out hardly ever, and i also get jealous because he talks to quite a few old friends- of ...

Should I keep in touch with this older guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5990 days ago

27 June 2008 (F) - i went on holiday about 4 weeks ago and met a guy there who was on the entertainment team, i really liked him and he was such a nice person, about a week after i had come back off holiday he text me and told me he liked me and that he didn't tell me ...

After 10 years, it's starting to bother me she's the only sexual partner I have had. Is this a mid-life crisis??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5987 days ago

27 June 2008 (M) - My partner is 6 years older than me and we have been together for the last 10 years. She is the only g/f I've ever had but she has had sex with at least 25 boyfriends prior to our relationship. After 10 years, it is only just starting to bother me ...

Does age matter when you're young? I'm worried it does...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5990 days ago

27 June 2008 (F) - In 2 days it'll be my boyfriends and my 3 month anniversary. We've spent almost every single day together since then and all of my friends adore him. He respects me, and he, himself, isn't even thinking about sex, neither am i. Hes perfect in every ...

I want to take it to the next level with this older guy I really get along with!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5991 days ago

26 June 2008 (F) - hi i like this guy... and well are age difference is really big like 28 years apart! i really like him an i think he likes me. he treats me good an we talk alot an we hang out on saturdays. is it wrong that i like him an our age difference???? he ...

Crush on my friend's little sister

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5984 days ago

26 June 2008 (M) - I think I have a crush on my friend's little sister. The problem is she's turning 13 and I'm turning 17. I have a feeling most people will dissaprove because of the age difference. What do I do?...

Why can't I stop thinking about this man I had a thing with??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5992 days ago

25 June 2008 (F) - Hi aunts while i was going through my marriage separation, i met and had sex with a man who i had known for 2 years, i had worked with him, there was always something between us, he declared he love me and we are ment to be together and the...

I love my teacher madly but now she's pregnant! All I can do is cry...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5983 days ago

25 June 2008 (F) - Okay... I am a fifteen year old female student at a secondary school in essex. I've always been academic and decided not to get involved in relationships to focus on my school work. But then in September '07 I fell in love with my new science ...

Should I sleep with this older man?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5993 days ago

25 June 2008 (F) - Hi, i've never done anything like this before so go easy on me lol. OK im 20, soon to be 21 year old female and have been chatting with a 39 year old male via the internet. Our chat often gets explicit and i am more than happy to go along with it ...

I need some advice on age gap relationships

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5993 days ago

25 June 2008 (F) - I recently met a guy whom I click with quite well. The feeling is apparently requited or this post would be moot. He lives about two hours away, which is something I've dealt with in relationships before (I live in the middle of nowhere). However, ...

How do I convince him I will change? How can I get him back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5993 days ago

24 June 2008 (F) - My boyfriend just broke up with me 4 days ago and I really can't let go. We've only been dating 3 months but I felt a huge connection with him. Maybe it was because he was older (i'm 22, he's 34), or maybe its because of something deeper. But the ...

I'm 14, he's 25, does he love me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5993 days ago

24 June 2008 (F) - I am 14 yrs old and have crush on a boy who is 25-26 yrs old. I don't know if he is having a girlriend or not, but he talks with me very nicely as if he also loves me. What to do???...

I am a 14 y/o dating a 27 y/o and my friends say it is wrong... should I leave him or just ignore what they are saying?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5960 days ago

23 June 2008 (F) - I am 14 years old and i am dating a 27 year old,who was my brothers friend and he watched me grow up.My friends think hes a paedophile and hate him but i do like him and they know im interested in older guys.Also my friends sister has been threating ...

Do I tell my dad I have been seeing this guy who is 7 years older?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5993 days ago

23 June 2008 (F) - Im 16 years old and am in love with this guy who is 23 years old. We are kind of together but he wont let me tell our families he says he affraid he will loose me if my dad finds out. My dad is protective of me and does know the guy quite well, i ...

I have an extravagent crush on my teacher! Is he just playing me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5990 days ago

23 June 2008 (F) - Okay, you must get MANY of these but please just listen and help. I'm 17 and have the most extravagent crush on my teacher ever imaginable. I can't go a day without thinking about him and I genuinely believe this is way past infatuation. ...

Do you think our age difference will interfere in our relationship in the future?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5994 days ago

22 June 2008 (F) - We were engaged two years ago, but we split up. I am almost 28, he is 56. Do you think age difference will interfere in our relationship in the future? HELP PLEASE...

Fallen for a man aged 50...should I trust my judgement and leave it alone...or should I go for it??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5994 days ago

22 June 2008 (F) - I am 27 yrs old - been single for about a year after a serious relationship with someone my own age (this ended amicably) now ive fallen for a man thats a lot older than me (50) althogh he doesnt know how i feel about him. when we are together ...

I like my trainer, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5995 days ago

22 June 2008 (F) - I feel stupid for even saying this... I really like my trainer. I felt a really strong connection with him since I first met him, he really gets me. I'm obviously not going to make a move because it could turn extremely ugly, but there are ...

Can a relationship with a much older guy work?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5996 days ago

21 June 2008 (F) - i have a very deep attraction towards a boy. and i feel he too have an attraction for me. but i am 14 and he may be 24-26.is this relation possible?...

How to suggest rough sex? How to make him propose even though his divorce is not final?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5998 days ago

19 June 2008 (F) - Ok I have posted here before and I got really good answers so Im going to try it again... How do I get my boyfriend to propose or even give me a promise ring even though his divorce isnt final? How do I get my boyfriend to be rough during sex...

She's 21 and wants to party alone before the ring...

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

19 June 2008 (M) - Ok, I was 21 she was 17, everything was happy. Fast foward 4 years and some and now I'm 25 and she's 21 we've been living together for 2 years and she's just perfect for me. I tell her I want to get engaged just a week or two after her 21st bi...

How can I gently break up with my boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5981 days ago

19 June 2008 (F) - me and my older bf (im 16 hes 22) have ben together for nearly a yr and everythings been fantastic but just lately ive started to want to go out more and meet more new ppl and maybe new lads i wann hav fun and go on dates while im young but he wants ...

Is he too young for me do you think?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5967 days ago

19 June 2008 (F) - I wonder if anyone can advise me on a startling new problem that's come up. Im 35 and single, never been married or had kids, and a few years ago got to know a lovely guy through some friends, who was 19. i found him really attractive and ...

Younger man vs. older man, what shall I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5999 days ago

18 June 2008 (F) - I have been dating a man 10 years younger than me. Now a man that is 40, 5 years older than me wants to date me. He is a very reputable and kind person but cannot offer me much, as he is getting out of a divorce now and is very hurt by it. Th...

Is it possible for a 22 y/o 6'3" gorgeous Italian boy to be interested in a 38 y/o cauc. guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5999 days ago

18 June 2008 (M) - I am a bi-sexual guy. I am 38 y/o today. I met a 22 y/o guy several month's ago. He was a student of mine, he no longer is but he has kept in-touch with me. Even more recently, we seem to be spending a fair amount of time together and we are ...

How can I approach this older guy without looking silly?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5997 days ago

18 June 2008 (F) - Hiya there is this guy at work who is older than me he looks about 30 im 18. I really like him. I've never really spoke to him before apart from the odd hi. I was wondering if you have any tips on how to speak to him without me looking stupid...

He broke up with me 'coz of the age thing, said we should should wait. Should we?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5999 days ago

18 June 2008 (F) - I'm almost 16 and i was dating a 22 yr old, and he broke up with me because he didn't want to get in trouble for the age. He wants to wait until i'm 17, but then he said he might not wait for me, and i shouldn't wait for it, but we can still be frie...

I'm 14, should I write to convicted felon?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6001 days ago

17 June 2008 (F) - Hey I am 14 and I have a very close friend of the family that has been convicted of a sex crime about a year ago. The girl on the internet was posing to be a 13 year old girl. The same age I was. Anyway. I look at him as my brother. And I guess ...

I'm 17. He's 25. People say it's "sick" or just "wrong". Is it?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

15 June 2008 (F) - I have been seeing a guy who is 8 years younger then me, (im 25 his 17) We have been going out now for just over 6 months, but during this time we have had alot of people tell us that our relationship is 'sick' or 'wrong'. Is it really that wro...

Should I try to get close to her by donating to her sister's charity?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6003 days ago

14 June 2008 (M) - Ok, so I really like this girl: younger, still in college (I'm 23, one year out of school). We dated long distance for a couple months before she broke it off before coming home for the summer. I was affected by this more than I thought I would ...

How do I tell whether this older guy like me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6001 days ago

12 June 2008 (F) - Well this is a rather awkward and confusing situation. Basically, i need to know how to tell if a guy likes me. Heres the story: I've recently broken up with boyfriend because it just wasn't working out and to be quite honest, i wasn't particu...

I'm in my 40's he is in his 30's and just not that comfortable about sex. I'm not satisfied... help please!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6005 days ago

12 June 2008 (F) - i'm in my early 40s and my guy who i live with is early 30s. he didn't loose his virginity until 30 and only has had vaginal sex a few times before me. i have been sexually active since teenager years. so i'm trying to get him on board with things ...

I will be unable to see my teacher again as I am leaving school. I'm scared I will relapse into depression!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6005 days ago

12 June 2008 (F) - I developed extremely strong feelings for an attractive male teacher about 18 months ago. His personality is simply 'perfect'. He's such an amazing person! In the course of this time, i've gone through depression (He had a baby boy last year an...

In love with a hall monitor at school! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6005 days ago

12 June 2008 (F) - I'm really confused!!! i know this may sound wrong but i am in love with a hall monitor at my school. i am 16 and he is 25. i actually make it a point everyday to look good for him to see me and to purposley go and walk by the hall he is patrolling. ...

My older BF lately does not satisfy me in bed. I cheated on him once and I feel I may stray again!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6006 days ago

11 June 2008 (F) - Hi Im 29 years old. My partner of 7 years is 45. Our sex was great at the beginning but as we got older it started to stop he wouldn't even do foreplay. I cheated on him once and told him i was pregnant with another man's baby. I only did it becau...

I finally can love again but I'm confused by this guy's mood changed - he's nice to me every now and then but usually acts like he doesn't care!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5978 days ago

11 June 2008 (F) - Okay my ex boyfriend passed away sometime back and after a long time I've found myself actually feeling something for someone else.. This guy is 5 years younger than me.. He's really nice to me every now and then but most often he behaves like he ...

He is younger thus I was reluctant about dating him, suddenly he stopped talking to me, how do I get him interested again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6007 days ago

10 June 2008 (F) - A boy who is a few years younger than me gave me his number at a lacrosse game. We started texting and he asked me right away if i would go out with him. I told him that the age difference was pretty extreme (4 years) but i also said that i would ...

How do I get him to realize that sex can be fun, and exciting!!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6007 days ago

10 June 2008 (F) - My partner of 4 years is 13 years younger than me. He is totally committed to me, or appears to be, but he is very naive sexually and emotionally. He refuses to talk about anything to do with either subjects and is very much a 'lights out, under the ...

Am I having feelings for my teacher because he looks like my ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6006 days ago

10 June 2008 (F) - To start with i'm 16. The thing is I have a student teacher in my math class and i'm guessing hes about 25 at the most. Anyway i broke up with my boyfriend at christmas and my teacher looks the spits of him, like he has the same hair and facial ...

Should I be patient with him?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 6005 days ago

10 June 2008 (F) - QUESTION: Should I be patient with him? I'm a 'single' 30 year old female (with 2 sons ages 8 and 9 - different fathers) and have dated men older than myself (e.g.45yrs) in the past. Been out of a relationship for 2 yrs...was not 'looking' for an...

What is your opinion on a non-sexual relationship between a 14 and a 17 year old?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5994 days ago

10 June 2008 (F) - As a general question - what are people's opinions on a relationship between two teenagers with a three year age gap (not sexual)? e.g a 14 year old and a 17 year old? ...

Can someone give me some ideas on how to tell him I fancy him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6008 days ago

10 June 2008 (F) - Hi everybody. So heres the deal, Im in love with a guy 15 years my senior...yes I know everyone thinks he's too old but I dont and im planning on waiting till Im 18 to make any kind of move, my dad and grandma already know how I feel about him and ...

I'm 16 and attracted to my dad's best friend who is 37!!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5783 days ago

9 June 2008 (F) - i am 16, and ever since i was 14 i have been attracted to my dads best friend. He is 37 years old right now, and i have never persued him, he doesnt know i have feelings for him. sometimes i wish he did so i can be with him. we talk and have ...

Should I break up with him due to his age?!? Or stay with him? He's everything I could ask for!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6007 days ago

9 June 2008 (F) - not to long ago i met a guy and he was everything i wanted,we really understood each other.up until last week i never asked him about his age but i recently did and he told me he was 16 thing is im 20 so i said i needed time to think about us and i ...

I have the perfect boyfriend and an older man wants to seduce me... I'm 15. He keeps messing with my head!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6010 days ago

6 June 2008 (F) - hey, so i can't get over someone... i have like the perfect boyfriend and all and i like him a lot. but this guy.. he's 7 yrs older than me, and im 15. he keeps messign with my head and i really thought i loved him at one point but i know i need to ...