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writes:I am 14 yrs old and have crush on a boy who is 25-26 yrs old. I don't know if he is having a girlriend or not, but he talks with me very nicely as if he also loves me. What to do???
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reader, lexilou  +, writes (24 June 2008):
 He is way too old for you and just because he is being nice does not mean he loves you. He may just be a nice person. Or not. Who knows?
But you shouldnt even contemplate starting up a relationship with him, I doubt he will be interested anyway as to most men of that age you are just a child x
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2008): At this stage you are still to young to be dating somebody his age; it is a NO NO; you should really stay clear from this guy; go out with firends closer to your own age; dating this guy can only cause you lots of heartache and even worse it can mean problems with the LAW; as you are under age; surely you would not want that;
You seem like a very wise girl; do what is best for you; avoid getting closer to this guy or dating him.
Have fun with the younger guys!
GOOD Luck!
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reader, Jovial  +, writes (24 June 2008):
 You are to do nothing. At 14 a 25years old is way over your league. Just enjoy the crush and it will soon be over in no time, remember a crush is a normal reaction to show that your hormones are in order no big deal, I mean if u have reached puberty and nature doesnt make a call we do get a bit worried that something maybe wrong with you.
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reader, Honeygirl +, writes (24 June 2008):
 Sweetie, this man if far too old for you. You need to look for friendship with boys who are in your age group. I dont think that a relationship between the two of you would be a very healthy one...
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