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writes:Hi I'm a boy 13 and yesterday me and my gf went to the movies and she wanted to see the movie but her ex got in a fight with me becouse I axedantly numbed in to him becouse some litle kid pushed me and so he said "I am going to kill you if I ever see you again" then he punched me in the gut so I was like he is just trying to get a rise out of me becouse he is now the school buly so back to the deal I said if you try to even insult or punch me again I am going to tell the mall cop and so he still likes her what do I do
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2015): Hitting another person is NEVER OK. EVER.This guy definitely sounds like the school bully and you should be upset about it.This goes past your relationship though. You should tell an adult you can trust - a teacher, your parents, and so on. I'm sure you're worried about your girl too, nobody wants to see someone they care about being hurt by someone else. Do you know her family, and ever talk to them? If so, maybe you want to tell them what happened too? Let them know you're on her side and that you worry about her?Also as was already said, try your best to stay away from this guy. You did the right thing by not hitting back and by telling him you will tell someone. Don't ever let someone tease you for "tattling" if you're being bullied. You can, and should always, tell someone if you get bullied.As for your girl, just let things happen and don't worry about the ex-bully. As long as she still wants to spend time with you, keep doing it! Show her how much better you can be than a bully! And if she does need to talk about it, then listen and be there for her! :-)As people grow up relationships can come and go, but that is no reason for you not to enjoy what you have for now!Hey, man, keep up the good work! Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2015): Hi! ^-^ , OK here's the deal: I'm almost 16, never had a bf, had friends that abused our friendship, I'm home schooled, no brothers or sisters, currently have a friend that's a girl which is 6 years younger than me, she's nice but can get REALLY IRRITATING, have a crush but too scared to "tell" him (long story).(lengthy, I know)
If you like the girl, then you must fight for her,(not like fight fight if it's not necessary), yeah, easy for me to say, but the way I see it is that the bully knows you like her and he's afraid to "lose" her, afraid to lose to someone younger or maybe even smaller than him or something like that. He's too "obsessed" with her,(no offence to anyone), if he tries to use violence against you and you're defenseless then you should tell someone like you almost told the mall cop, that's a good thing. Ask your parents to, I'm always shy about stuff if I have to ask them but when it's done it's done. Think about something clever to say that you can use against him, not rude stuff though, 'cause I know that wont bring you very far. Hope this helps. Wish you luck ^-^
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