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Why could I barely feel this man during sex?

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Question - (4 January 2015) 3 Answers - (Newest, 5 January 2015)
A female Mauritius age 41-50, *illy bilou writes:

Hello. When i had sex, man on top, i could barely feel his penis. I am not loose down there as when i insert a finger inside my vagina, i can orgasm and feel my vaginal walls. I never had this pblm with my other partners. I also need deep and fast penetration. He said that he was very satisfied but maybe this position was not ideal for me. I am wondering whether his has happened because he did not have a full erection, he did ejaculate however or the angle was not right to stimulate my g spot. Or i need a bigger penis?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2015):

I don't need a bigger penis to orgazm. I think you are one of those rare women who orgazm from intercourse. I can't really have an opinion on a size then.

But is his penis at least average size or super small?if its super small than of course you won't feel it as much. Also when a woman gets very wet she is not going to feel penis as much. I am very small downthere, and once I had a partner with really large penis. There was so much foreplay that when it came to intercourse I was totally fine with his size, though ussualy I hurt a bit even with average size.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (4 January 2015):

Honeypie agony auntIf you were VERY wet and he wasn't fully erect, then yes you would feel a LOT less.

I'd suggest you two use condoms though. It can help create more friction for you.

Also, if you are NOT getting ANYTHING out of that position, then change position. There are PLENTY to pick from.

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A male reader, CMMP United States +, writes (4 January 2015):

If a guy isn't very hard it can be difficult to feel him even if the size is okay. I've experienced this from a male point of view. If I'm not stiff (even if it looks like it's erect) the woman feels it less because it kind of bends softly around corners as opposed to creating a lot of friction.

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