I need your opinions so I can move on quickly.

A male age 36-40, *ullmetal writes:

hello everyone, i'll try to make it short, but it may get longer ,so i apologise in advance. please do read till the end. the story goes like this: i met this girl 5 years ago in a social network. after 2 years, we became friends in facebook. i started liking her, and i told her how i feel,she also told me that she admire and liked me. she gave me her number, and we talked for a few times. and then she avoided me, i mean she stop picking up my phone., and blocked me. after few months,she added me again and we chatted for a while and she blocked me again. last year,she added me again and we started chatting again, i asked her she gave me no., and we started talking again, when i asked to meet me, she said no. I lost contact with her, i was moving on, until few months back she called me out of the blue. she told me she is going to another far away province for study purpose next day. so, i could not met her that time. we continued chatting in facebook. but she often avoid reading my massage and didn't reply. and she didn't like me to comment on her photo,saying she feel shy. so stop contacting her again. on the new year,i wished her , and told her that i always love her,and will always love her.,and that i want nothing more than to kiss her. than she told me to stop wasting my feelings on her. she once loved me,but she is changed now,she is no longer that innocent girl i used to know. and that she still love me,if that's what i wanted to hear. and that her life got fucked up beyond repaired, so she don't deserved me. when i asked in what way she is changed, she told me that she slept with someone else,i.e. her ex bf. and that she didn't blocked me,it was her ex bf who happen to have access to her account. when i told her that it doesn't change anything, and i still like her. for a while, she acted like she was happy,. and after some time, she told me directly that i was annoying, and that if i keep asking her question her question, she'll get angry. when i confront her why she was acting like she loved and want me,and chat with me nicely for some time, and the next moment she acted different, like she doesn't care at all. then she told me that it is the way she is, and she will do it again.so i thought i have had enough, and that she is just playing with me,i unfriend her. I do not know if I did the right thing. and what she was thinking acting like she love and want me for a while,and then push me away again. please give me your valuable opinions so that I can move on sooner. thank you everyone.

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