A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hi!!!There is a senior guy at workplace who initially tried a lot to impress me and tried talking to me a lot.I got a secret crush on him but he did not knew.So he tried hard.Now when i talk to him he talks to me normally but my intution and his actions made me believe that he feels I'm impressed but it's not the case.I want him to be my good friend because i know he is a good at heart.I hope he does not consider me a bad girl or something.Should i talk to him from my own side or give him a chance to start up the conversation?I just want him to be clear that I am only interested in friendship.He is a married guy.He is a Scorpio and I am a libra scorpio cusp too.Suggestions please
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2014): Not judging you, ok? You have a crush on him and it bothers you he is not talking to you a lot like he used to, and you want that attention again. He is a married man he should talk to you, as you say, "normally."
No need to seek out a senior married coworker for a friendship because you know he has a good heart. I'm sure there are women and single men at work who you could form a friendship with. They have good hearts, too.
Wishing you well at work, and please don't waste your precious time trying to make this man your good friend.
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