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anonymous
writes:I'm slim, my boyfriend tells me I'm sexy and he loves my body often. But I am slim and my breasts are an A to a B cup. I have a nice bum. However my boyfriend always looks at BBW porn. Not very big girls but chubby with big boobs. It's his go to porn and he did tell me this once. However he said he had sex with a big girl once and didn't really enjoy it. So I don't get it? I feel inadequate. I don't mind him watching porn at all, but why the big girls? Most of his exes are slim enough, and he's a personal trainer. He encourages me to eat well and if I lose weight and am happy he's always happy for me! So why does he feel the need to watch chubby porn everyday?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2014): Hi OP here, thanks for all your responses. I'm so relieved that the general consensus is that it's normal! Phew, don't have to feel like I should start eating more cake and saving up for implants! ;-) ;-)
I suppose I just got a bit insecure about it, but I can deal with escapism! Sure I daydream about stuff that I would never do all the time. And I suppose I watch girl on girl porn a fair amount too and I'm straight!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2014): Because chubby women are the only real women in porn. They're not enhanced. Plus it's just a niche like 'teen' or 'interracial'
I prefer them aswell. Although I like any woman really as long as it's home-made and they're real women with their partners.
OP the skinny women in porn are too fake, they have fake boobs, weird looking enhanced bodies that are just not great. It's like watching a guy have sex with a doll.
My wife watches mainly interracial porn with black men in it, guess what colour my skin is, white.
It's like regular movies, OP, you surely have your favourite genre, maybe you like horrors above all else, it doesn't mean you want to be chased by a nutcase with a knife in real life, it's just a preference with no meaning attached other than it's the one you like most.
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reader, Ciar  +, writes (9 May 2014):
 There is a big difference between being horny and romantic/sexual attraction.
The BBW in the porn he watches are tools he uses to achieve orgasm and once he's climaxed he can put those women back on the shelf where he won't think about them again until the next time he wants to get off.
The women he's watching are not his ideal. He doesn't find them attractive. He's not interested in impressing them. It's more of a freak fascination.
I don't know if I'm explaining this effectively.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2014): Would you feel the same if he preferred porn stars of a different race to you? Or only watched girls covered in tattoos?
Porn ALWAYS looks more flawless online than it is when attempted in real life - maybe he tried it and realised it wasn't as great for him as he thought it would be.
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reader, Mark1978 +, writes (9 May 2014):
 Porn is a form of escapism. Men often watch porn featuring women (or men) of a different race, age, size, shape, etc to what they would want in a real life situation.
What men enjoy porn wise, often has little or no bearing on what they would want from a real life partner. A friend of mine got drunk and admitted he watches porn which has very old ladies in it. IE: 80 years old. He also said he would NEVER want sex with someone that age but it just turns him on to watch.
Porn is not real life. I have used porn - young (over 18), older (50-60), threesomes, various things (all legal!) which I would never do in real life in a million years. Its fantasy, escapism.
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reader, mr toyboy  +, writes (9 May 2014):
Am also like that. I find BBW porn quite sexy even though i dont date one myself. I guess if i was single, i ll rather sleep with them but not date them. More boobs more ass just seem so sexy.
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