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writes:Hi long story short found photos of my ex with his best friends mrs having sex before he meet me anyway have broken but lived together for awhile when I found the photos of the mrs but also found photos of someone else that he didn't tell while we were broken up I'm shattered he has moved out and I made a fake profile on a singles site that he was on and fooled him I sent nude photos and he found out it was me I feel so stupid and foolish and I know he is with someone else but he Denys it I'm having a nervous breakdown he told my adult kids what I did to I am so embarrassed and feel so down all I do is cry all the time
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reader, Caring Aunty A +, writes (10 May 2014):
 Ok so creating a fake profile wasn’t one of your best moves or your finest hour... Yet I’m thinking there’s something else going on here in your mind set to think and do such a thing in the first place. What was the purpose, what did you hope to achieve by doing this – revenge?
Address those issues and heal yourself from doing this again when you find yourself coming undone from a relationship breakup or stressful situation. Seldom do 2 wrongs make a right... In this case it backfired and you’re taking this all too seriously to have a nervous breakdown over. Is there something else going on here?
All in all mistakes are made from time to time and everyone will move on from this, but it depends on how much gravity, importance you wish to put on yourself for this slight error. Learn to lighten up a bit on yourself :)
Ditto; SHYTE HAPPENS
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (9 May 2014):
 Own your mistakes. You might be embarrassed but even a GROWN woman with GROWN kids can make mistakes and do things that are less them stellar.
Own it and stop beating yourself up for doing something stupid. And learn from it. There is a reason you feel like crap, because you did something that was WAY beneath you.
Shit happens. Move along.
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