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writes:So Aunts and Uncles.. I had sex with a guy laat night. He's my sisters friend and I like to consider it a "booty call" and thought we were on the same page. Well we stopped by Walmart afterward and he kept holding my hand and kissing me in public. After I left his place he texted me right away saying he had an amazing day and he'd text me when he woke up. Started saying all this romantic stuff he was gonna do when we hung out again. Today he texted me and told me I'm his babygirl, etc. Does it around like he doesn't know it was a booty call? I mean, I like the guy I just didn't think he would be sending me this type of stuff or be interested I guess. Opinions? Is this just talk for sex or does he seem interested?
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reader, llifton +, writes (5 May 2014):
 Sounds interested to me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2014): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell, he flat out told me I'm his. I told him we could be good friends but not fwb (because ongoing sex leads to feelings eventually) and he said he doesn't want fwb. That any man is lucky to have me and texted me all the things he loves about me. He vents to me, and converses with me all day. I'm open to try and go further with him over time. I guess I just figured a guy who looks as great as him would go for a chubby girl like me lol. I'm not big but not skinny either and he has a great body with a face to match. He also says he's not talking to other women bc he has his eyes set on me. So I guess I have my answer. :)
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reader, wise-guy  +, writes (2 May 2014):
As a guy I can say, we become very attached to a girl after sex, I mean it's a pretty close and intimate thing to do!
Sounds to me like this guy has fallen for you. If you like him too why not see where it goes?? I mean we don't want to be having meaningless sex all the time right?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2014): It could be one of two things
1) He wants more than a booty call and thinks that because you slept together that you are on the way to building a relationship
2)He thinks YOU want a relationship and is telling you what he THINKS you want to hear so he can have sex with you again.
If he's being romantic (rather than sexual) in his texts, then I think it's more likely he's hoping for a relationship.
But you'll never know unless you ask him. Or at least make it clear to him that it was just a booty call and you don't want anything more. It's not fair to lead him on so do this soon. Just because it was obvious to you that this was just a booty call, you can't assume that it was obvious to him.
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (2 May 2014):
 Be careful. I think it's a setup for future "booty calls" After all, Wich of us men would turn down great on-the-side lovin..If we knew it was safe and discrete?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2014): Booty calls don't act like this. He is obviously interested and actually well mannered too
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