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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

What is Appropriate/Inappropriate behavior for a relationship??

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3822 days ago

16 June 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel very confused about my current situation with my long term boyfriend, and am looking for some outside advice... We have been dating for a long time. Several years ago, I found out that that he was chatting with girls online, having cyber sex. In addition to this... (890 words)

Sick and tired of the dating game

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3849 days ago

16 June 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - I have had another disappointment in my "dating life" today and this was the last drop... I met this girl 10 days ago and we seemed to hit it off quite well. I asked for her number and 3 days later we met for lunch. There again, we had a good time, laughed and I had quite ... (884 words)

How do you know when men just want a break and when they want to end things

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3848 days ago

16 June 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - How can you tell if a guy wants to "take a break" in a relationship because he's not sure you can make each other happy? Or if he's just trying to let you down easily and not feel so guilty? Me and the boyfriend of two years have been arguing a lot. Big fights, I'm too ... (330 words)

Is he too forward or am I a prude?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3849 days ago

16 June 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been trying online dating in the past month for the first time. I'm only 19 and have zero experience with anything! The whole never-had-a-boyfriend-cause-no-one-is-decent-enough story... Anyway, a 25 yr old guy from the UK starts chatting with me. I wasn't too interested ... (229 words)

I'm worried I cant keep up with him in conversations!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3849 days ago

16 June 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - I am eighteen and I have been talking to a nineteen year old guy online for about a month. I am fairly intelligent, at least in common sense and decency. However, I do not much follow news or politics, etc. He, on the other hand, is studying psychology at the top UK university. ... (176 words)

I'm 6 months pregnant and my boyfriend is acting distant what should I do ????

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3850 days ago

16 June 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 6months pregnant but i feel so lonely. Let me start by saying I knew him about 3yrs, we was never a couple just friends with benefits but some how I feel in love with him through out those years. When we was friends with benefits he was with his sons mother and I had a ... (236 words)

My best friend is pregnant with a controlling boyfriend. Can I get her away from him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3850 days ago

16 June 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - One of my best friends just told me she is pregnant. She is 28 years old. In any other case I think I would have been happy for her, but I have been dreading this for years. She's in a relationship with a controlling man who has been nagging on her to get pregnant for years ... (960 words)

I need advice on how to break out of my comfort zone!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3764 days ago

16 June 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi people well recently i have been applying for live-in hospitality jobs. I enjoy this type of work and im good at many different things. However the past 6yrs of my life have been robbed from me ss i was in a violent relationship and pretty messed up and he died in january.... (131 words)

Double standard where his adult children are involved

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3849 days ago

16 June 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - I am looking for opinions of others I would like to know if I am wrong? My Husbands daughter invited us to her house For Father's Day weekend. She lives a few hours away. When we got there nothing was planned. She had no food in the house we were never even offered a drink. We ... (296 words)

She lied about being on dating sites, and now she's gone n/c

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3850 days ago

16 June 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Me (F, 20) and my gf (F, 21) are together for nearly 2 years. A while ago, i accidently noticed she was on a dating site. She said she still had it from before we were together, but that she wasnt active on it. I believed her, and just asked her to remove it. A little while la... (433 words)

I'm not sure how I feel about him when he's not around

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3842 days ago

16 June 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I have currently moved countries from Europe to Asia- on my own. While here, I met a man from a different part of Europe. We met up almost every day during the initial stages and I was very happy to have a kind thoughtful and handsome man to share this new experience with. ... (561 words)

Lumps after shaving

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3850 days ago

16 June 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - never had these lums on my vagina at first after shaving 5 month ago i notice the lump on my outside vagina im real stres pls help me. Its not sore either not itchy ... (34 words)

Has anyone else ever felt this way after having an abortion?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3850 days ago

16 June 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm looking for some advice from anyone who might have been in my situation or know someone who has. I've come to understand it's a far more common situation to be in than I had once believed. I had an abortion 3 weeks ago. At first I felt glad, relieved and even grateful th... (357 words)

I've developed an attraction for my friend's husband

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3850 days ago

16 June 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there, I really hope this doesn't make me sound like a total bitch. I have become really good friends with the husband of one of my oldest friends. We all get along really well together but we are also friends in our own right. We text back and forth very regularly and pr... (222 words)

Before I visit a doctor does anyone have any idea what this could be?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3848 days ago

16 June 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - About two months ago I had sex and the lips of my vagina swoll up really bad. It was unfortable and it burned to pee. I haven't had sex since then. Then a little while after that I woke up and one side was swolen (I think I might have been playing with myself I'm my sleep idk) ... (183 words)

Should I follow up with him or move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3850 days ago

16 June 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - So I visited the place where my crush who runs this place for the fourth time now, without much but casual conversation. The thing is, the fourth time I walked in the busy busy place, he did not even stop to say hello and he was on the phone and then he disappeared. Then as ... (281 words)

Should I be worried about my boyfriends female friend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3850 days ago

16 June 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - So about two months ago my boyfriend (and his brother) met this girl in his degree. I know he tried to set her up with his brother, but it never came to anything. Anyway I guess they see each other around, they're Facebook friends and she has his number and stuff. I've seen ... (184 words)

Should I tell her I've had a crush on her for the past three years?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3849 days ago

16 June 2014 (M)

age 22-25 - so to begin with I have had a crush on this girl in my class for three years and now I am 15. she was our school topper and she is beautiful. I think she is single and doesn't talk much with boys. we occasionally had conversations like about one or two times week and of cours... (97 words)

Men, how much do you notice and/or care about saggy breasts?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3850 days ago

16 June 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm very close to moving to the next stage of a relationships and getting physical with a man who I have been seeing. I am quite worried though about my breasts which are quite saggy after having fed four children. So honestly men, how much do you notice and/or care about sa... (100 words)

I don't think my husband understands what having a baby really entails! He seems to think its all fun and games

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3850 days ago

16 June 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my husband are planning to try for a baby after our honeymoon in 7 months time but I worry my husband isn't prepared for what it entails. Whenever we talk about it he seems blase like yeah it'll work itself out! I am a child of ten in my family so have seen baby rai... (242 words)

He'd rather text me than call

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3850 days ago

16 June 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Why do guys take so much pain from their ex and treat the one good girlfriend badly. Don't get me wrong i love my bf but he's changed. We see eachother every other weekend. All we do is text and I've asked him to atleast call me a few times a week (2-3) or answer the phone when ... (225 words)

I don't want my F/B message to her to seem creepy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3851 days ago

16 June 2014 (M)

age 26-29 - I just went on a three day trip with all the youth in my church. We were broken up into groups and I was in a group with a girl I thought was cute. Over the three days, we became friends and I fell for her. Hard. I didn't get her number since we weren't allowed our cell phones ... (125 words)

Gambler lies about gambling, what else is he lying about?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3849 days ago

16 June 2014 (F)

age - My husband travels and has a gambling issue. I've already took out a 70000 second mortgage to pay off his credit cars before we were married. After we were married he continued to gamble several thousands dollars of our money. He said he was grieving his fathers death. He ... (162 words)

I'm worried I can't compete with her ex who just bought her a car

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3850 days ago

16 June 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - This is probably gonna be a long story, but here goes: I recently graduated from college and moved back to my hometown. Between having a full-time job and not having many friends that still live here anymore, I decided to make an effort to date using an online dating si... (358 words)

I can't seem to develop any kind of romantic feelings for anyone

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3850 days ago

16 June 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello all, I have an issue which I feel is pretty odd at the moment.. I feel as though I cannot seem to develop any kind of romantic feelings for people. I used to be really shy when it came to talking to girls but over the past 2 years or so I've come a pretty long way a... (439 words)

What does this comment mean?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3850 days ago

16 June 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - I work with this young married woman. As part of our job we deliver certain things around our place of work to different departments. Usually she walks behind me when we do this and she keeps slapping my bum. I once asked her what her husband would say if I did that to her.... (106 words)