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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I work with this young married woman. As part of our job we deliver certain things around our place of work to different departments.Usually she walks behind me when we do this and she keeps slapping my bum. I once asked her what her husband would say if I did that to her. Her answer didn't make sense to me and I am wondering if anyone can make head or tail of it or if I'm reading too much into this. She said "not I, not my husband nor anyone else would care if you did it or anything else to me"
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reader, sugarplum786  +, writes (17 June 2014):
 Hi, firstly what she is doing tantamount to sexual harassment and you are within your right to report her. She is basically inviting you into an affair and later you can risk losing your job because when SH** hits the fan she ducks for cover and will throw you to the wolves including reporting you as harassing her and you will lose your job. Think before you venture any further.
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reader, BrownWolf  +, writes (16 June 2014):
Do you want to be on the platform or on the train tracks when this hurt train comes at you??
"The lips of another man's wife may be as sweet as honey and her kisses as smooth as olive oil, but when it is all over, she leaves you nothing but bitterness and pain."
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reader, N91 +, writes (16 June 2014):
 She's flirting.
She's saying she doesn't care if you did it, her husband or no one else would care.
Maybe she's having problems with her husband at home and she's looking elsewhere for fulfillment.
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reader, oldbag +, writes (16 June 2014):
 She's married and flirting, plus a colleague
Don't go there you risk way too much.
Just have a laugh and leave it at that
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2014): She's definitely flirting with you but her remark sounds so cryptic (especially now it's written down) that it's impossible to tell exactly what she means.
She could be hinting that "this all just a bit of harmless fun, my relationship with my husband is solid and he trusts me so don't get your hopes up".
It could also be an attempt to get you involved in an affair.
Either way - she's married AND a work colleague so don't go there.
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reader, Ciar +, writes (16 June 2014):
 She's either joking or hinting that she's attracted to you and wouldn't mind you putting your hands on her and that her husband doesn't care enough about her or their marriage to mind you putting your hands on her either.
Do not take this any further. Assume it's a joke and do NOT even go there.
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