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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I feel like we're just having sex for him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3839 days ago

18 June 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello! I feel really awkward about this, but I need answers before I go insane. I started dating my best friend, we've been together 8 months, before I started dating him I had a craaazy sex drive, always have had. By anyones standards, the sex is great, y'know, he's .... (178 words)

Why would he say, "in another life, we would have been inseparable"?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3838 days ago

18 June 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Can someone help me understand? I'm just getting to know this guy and our relationship is growing by the day. But he said something really odd and I couldn't reply except say "oh ok" because I didn't really understand. He said "I think in another lifetime we would be inseper... (91 words)

My boyfriend is insisting I go meet his parents and sister this weekend even though his mam said not to!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3838 days ago

18 June 2014 (F) age 41-50 - Ive been seeing my boyfriend since august. Been official since december. I live in the north of england as does he, but is from the midlands. I know we havent been together too long but its going really well and i really think its guna last and i think were on the same page. ... (201 words)

Is she over me? Does she have someone else? Do I opt out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3839 days ago

18 June 2014 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been with my girl for five years now. We lived together for four, under the same roof. She lied to me on a few occasions and I caught her a few times, always forgave her...now I had to travel out of the country...I am working on getting her to me...she says she cant wait ... (123 words)

How do I tell her without offending her about her wiping issue?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3827 days ago

18 June 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi I just started dating a new girl . The sex is great and we both oral fixated me giving and her getting . There is one problem she wants her anus licked which I usually enjoy doing but there is a problem with this she has a wiping problem back there. I keep given excuses but ... (98 words)

Am I being a petty girlfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3839 days ago

18 June 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - So I'm in a relationship with another woman and we both have our own places. When I stay over at her place I bring my own towels but not toiletries. If I see she's out I go buy her some. Newayz I noticed she uses the same towel for days at her own place. She recently begin ... (147 words)

Why don't people put their relationship status on facebook?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3838 days ago

18 June 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - What is the reason people don't put their relationship status on facebook? I've noticed some people don't when it's obvious they have a girlfriend because of their pics and statuses. ... (31 words)

I've only ever been in casual relationships so I don't know if he likes me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3839 days ago

18 June 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a gay male who has a question that sounds just stupid. You would think at age 24 and as someone who isn't shy--I wouldn't be asking this, but how can I tell if this guy really likes me? I have done a lot of casual dating but never anything serious. So maybe this is the ... (421 words)

I like him so much but he isn't treating me right

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3835 days ago

18 June 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys, this might be long. I met this guy at a charity football match I played with work. He was the referee and after a bit of flirting he asked for my number which I gave him. I probably shouldn't have as I had been seeing a football coach who always works at the same place ... (526 words)

Boyfriend is hurtful and neglectful and I'm feeling really down about the relationship

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3839 days ago

18 June 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years. He just doesn't care about me anymore. He just told me 2 nights ago he loves me, and I believe in some weird way he does but he doesn't show it anymore. He hardly texts, hardly calls and hardly wants to spend any time with me. When we do ... (555 words)

I'm worried by his taste in porn

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3816 days ago

18 June 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, well I been with my boyfriend for 8/9 yrs we have 2 kids and very active in this relationship as far as intimacy and time together. I'm 31 he's 33 I'm white he's black. Well here it is, he watches nothing i mean nothing but ebony granny porn. We have watched different ... (230 words)

Have you ever run into your significant others ex-girlfriends and you actually like them

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3839 days ago

18 June 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I don't know if this is normal or not. I run in the same social circles as my significant other's ex-girlfriends that he has been intimate with before he met me. It's next to impossible not to run into them at some point, some even on a daily basis, let's say they take... (279 words)

LDR boyfriend called me names and hasn't called in a week. Is it over?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3838 days ago

18 June 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid I am with my current bf for 4 years, for past 3 months we are in LDR as he has to work overseas. We had our ups and downs, nowadays we have more downs than ups. He is always calling me names or belittling me whenever possible, calling me stupid, fool, bitch..... (148 words)

I turn down other guys for him but he doesn't ask me out!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3839 days ago

18 June 2014 (F) age 22-25 - I'm 15 and there's a boy in my year who I really like and have done for about two years. I've never felt the same about anyone ever before - I look at him, even think about him, and I get butterflies; the first thing I do when I walk into a room is to see if he's in there and I ... (453 words)

Making Out With Different Guys, in Different Situations?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3836 days ago

18 June 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Does anyone here have any experience with making out with guys they've just met...? Or like a ONS, but only going so far as to makeout? Or, have you even gone back to their apartments, and still only went as far as making out? Did the guys get angry at all that you didn't go ... (82 words)

Will she accept me knowing that I was in a relationship with someone else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3838 days ago

18 June 2014 (?) age 30-35 - After the advice from the members of dearcupid members,i decided to break away from my first love. Now i like a girl(same age and a my college mate).i used to have friendly contact with her in facebook,and she too also know about my first love. Recently,i had even deleted my ... (117 words)

My boyfriend has a facebook page that says he's in a relationship with someone that isn't me???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3839 days ago

18 June 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently found a new fb page for my bf who in fact says he doesnt use fb so wasn't going to add me, ths only way I found it was via my mates bf who told me, anyway this new fb page says hes in a relationship with somebody and its not me :( Ive looked at it a few times be... (168 words)

Was the choice I made cowardly or sensible?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3838 days ago

18 June 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - A few nights ago, I took my girlfriend out to eat. It was about 1:30 in the morning when we left home, and yes there are restaurants open at that time. I've never personally been to the place but my friend recommend it with high praise. We were on our way to it when the ... (497 words)

We've broken up but she still calls and messages. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3838 days ago

18 June 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - I don't know what is it but I promised my gf that I will be back after making my career. At the time we broke up before some days, but we broke up clearly and promised each other we won't contact each other through emails, sms or calls, but she agreed that if we meet some... (124 words)

Girls, what qualities do you want boys to have?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3836 days ago

18 June 2014 (M)

age 26-29 - Girls, do you like a confident guy, or someone who can't help in front of you???....Or are good looks all that matter?... (22 words)

I feel like I need to move on, but I'm not sure how! Help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3839 days ago

18 June 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I've got a question and I don't want to be judged I just want some light shed on the situation Basically I was with my ex partner for 5 years we had a son together had a relatively happy relationship. He did after our first year together cheat on me. I only found out after ... (568 words)

Shouldn't he be focusing on the time she has left, instea of planning her funeral?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3839 days ago

18 June 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - My mum has terminal cancer and is under palliative care. Recently she's gone downhill and my dad is preparing for her death. He's organising the order of service, timings, list of people to tell, music, food etc ringing people up and having lengthy discussions about the finer ... (166 words)

Is my boyfriend bisexual and living a double life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3839 days ago

18 June 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello I'm really confused and I think my boyfriend might be bisexual or gay. My boyfriend has grown up in an abusive and dysfunctional home. He says he has a lot of family problems with his dad but that's as far as it goes. He gets angry when I press on about it. He is the type ... (284 words)

I want to be his friend but I wonder if my attachment is somehow unhealthy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3836 days ago

18 June 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - So, I have known this guy for almost a year now and we have become great friends. He seems like a really good person and I like being friends with him. I secretly hope that we will become Bff's for real. He seems to understand me and his level of patience is what makes me feel ... (339 words)

I'm nervous about seeing my ex again. Should I not go?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3496 days ago

18 June 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - At the beginning of the year, I broke up with my gf of 3.5 years because we weren't compatible for marriage. I haven't seen or spoken with her since. Unfortunately, I'm still very much in love her and I haven't been able to get her off my mind. Hence the no contact. I'm nervo... (160 words)

My ex and I broke up should I still ask her to go on a trip we had planned?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 3837 days ago

18 June 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - My ex and I broke up a month ago (I'm trying to convince her to take me back) we had plans to travel and visit my sister next week. It's an 8 hour drive and we were going to spend a week there. Should I ask her to still come with me since it would mean alot to my sister and ... (85 words)