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writes:Im 6months pregnant but i feel so lonely. Let me start by saying I knew him about 3yrs, we was never a couple just friends with benefits but some how I feel in love with him through out those years. When we was friends with benefits he was with his sons mother and I had a boyfriend. After the 3 yrs we finally decided to make a commitment to each other. With in a month he asked me to have his baby in the middle of sex and I said yes. Everything was good at 1st he was happy. After I turned 4 months he told me he didn't want the baby but I decided to keep it anyways. He was still there playing his role. Now I'm 6 months and it's like his pushing me away. He works 5 days a week and on weekends he only wants to chill with his friends. He knows his wrong but he told me his having fun right now and his not cheating on me. I see him once a week maybe more if I stay over his house but when I do his always tired and only wants sex. Idk what to because I want us to work for my daughter , I don't want to do this by myself. Idk if I should just leave or try to make our family work, please help !!!!!!
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reader, sugarplum786  +, writes (17 June 2014):
 Hi, accept reality that he could not be faithful to his sons mum, you will be treated the same. He wants to enjoy life and not be saddled with another kid. You know his history of being unfaithful and this is history repeating it self. Start accepting that this relationship is over and plan a stable happy life with your child. Unfortunately like the other aunts and uncles have said you were just fun and sex. Cold but true.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2014): "With in a month he asked me to have his baby in the middle of sex and I said yes."What he really meant was that he wanted to fuck you without a condom."He knows his wrong but he told me his having fun right now and his not cheating on me."Just like he told his first baby mama that he wasn't cheating on her with you."I don't want to do this by myself. Idk if I should just leave or try to make our family work, please help !!!!!!"What family? You were his piece on the side, he conned you into letting him get you pregnant, and now that you're knocked up with a kid he never really wanted he's predictably lost interest. You don't have to make the decision to leave him, he'll be making it for you.If you think he's going to be any more of a father to your kid than he is to his son then you are sadly mistaken. You need to prepare for the prospect that you will be raising a child on your own, just like his ex is.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2014): I think you should tell him how you feel and then if he doesn't change or make effort you should leave him. You deserve to be with a man who cares about you and your daughter and a baby should grow up in a happy home you need to do whats best for her. Good luck.
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