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male
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:I just went on a three day trip with all the youth in my church. We were broken up into groups and I was in a group with a girl I thought was cute. Over the three days, we became friends and I fell for her. Hard. I didn't get her number since we weren't allowed our cell phones and she lives about 30 minutes away. I can message her on facebook, but I don't want it to be an awkward message. I know there is a party coming up and I want to know if she is coming. I like her and I think she is really cool, but how do I ask her if shes going in a facebook message without sounding creepy?
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (16 June 2014):
 Creepy ? Why would it have to sound creepy ?...
I know next to nothing about FB etiquette, but you KNOW the girl, you took a trip together, you talked , you became friends .
So there would be nothing strange or improper in writing her : Hey ( name ) that's X, from the church trip. I had a great time hanging out with you, so I wonder if you are coming at Y's party coming up on ( date ) . I hope you do, - but in case you can't make it why don't we stay in touch so we can hang out some more one of these days ".
Nice, friendly and uncreepy.
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reader, CMMP +, writes (16 June 2014):
Guys your age are too concerned with sounding "creepy". ARE you creepy? Are you messaging her just to feel her boobs? Did she seem to like you? If you answered no, no, yes, then you're a normal human and probably capable of sending a message without sounding creepy.
"Hey (name), it was really fun hanging out with you the other day. There's a party coming up at (name's) house and I was wondering if you were going. If not, you should come with me."
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