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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

If he wants nothing to do with me why won't he just decline and block me on social media? Is he playing games leaving me hanging?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2868 days ago

28 June 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - My question is about a guy who appears to be "leading me on". About 9 months ago we had a terrible falling out. We were supposed to be just friends but I found out he was in love with me. He was very distraught that I discovered how he truly felt about me (he was trying to hide ... (231 words)

How do I fake it and carry on for our baby, when I'm bored and feel we're incompatible?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3827 days ago

28 June 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Looking for advice on how to try and make my relationship work even though I am so bored! Met 4 years ago, at the time I was happily single, living alone and enjoying my own space. We used to meet 3-4 tines per week and were very happy together. He started saying he loved me... (728 words)

I'm 57 and husband left me for another woman, how do I start over at this age?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3824 days ago

28 June 2014 (F)

age - My husband left me and said the reason was he didn't love me anymore,but in my heart I knew he had found someone else even though he said different.Our 11 year old told me she thought it was a woman from a softball team and that he alway's sits with her and watches her kid play ... (219 words)

Why am I so scared of someone loving me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3827 days ago

28 June 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone....I don't know the best way to explain this..I really want to be in a serious relationship with a guy. but whenever I meet someone I get scared and change my about starting something with them. It usually happens after I find out that they are so in love with me ... (245 words)

Lost him before I could express my feelings, what should I do now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3829 days ago

28 June 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - I met this guy off of a hookup site about a year and half ago. We met up countless times over that period of time and i began to catch feelings for him. I kept them quiet because he was on dl and i wasn't sure if he as looking for a relationship. Sooo cut to a week a go. Im ... (210 words)

Does the repair man like me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3829 days ago

28 June 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok I'm going to start of saying am the worst for thinking things over and over. Can't help myself so please put me straight if am over thinking nothing here, I met a man few months ago, he came out to do repairs for me. But seemed to pro-long the job for as long as ... (255 words)

Would this be classified as cheating?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3829 days ago

28 June 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everybody! Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Me and my boyfriend were together for 5 years before the relationship ended. It was mainly my fault, I was writing my university dissertation, revising for exams, working to help my parents fund my university cours... (713 words)

Why couldn't we look away from each other?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3828 days ago

28 June 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - This is just a quick question. What does holding a gaze mean? I don't need an explanation of that but why could i not look away when someone was looking at me and held my gaze for around 8-10 seconds, no words just gazing. I couldn't have looked away even if i wanted to! Why... (169 words)

I thought he was a friend but suddenly he seems to have turned

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3828 days ago

28 June 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I'm seeking advice in regards to a friend of my fiancé's. I've know him for a coupled of years. I'm not trying to lead him on but I don't know if I'm reading his actions right or wrong? He started out being friendly always asking how I am, if I'm ok or giving me advice on ... (444 words)

How do I deal with breaking up with someone this mentally unwell?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3829 days ago

28 June 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some reassurance and general advice. I've been with my fiancée for nearly four years and then last weekend we broke up. It was the next step in what has been a month of hell. Through out our relationship, she has battled with depression. It was the cause of many ... (1268 words)

Just discovered my boyfriend lied about having a child

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3827 days ago

28 June 2014 (?) age 30-35 - I APOLOGIZE THIS IS LONG BUT I'M BEGGING FOR INPUT ON THE SITUATION My boyfriend and I have been together for 8 months and he is an ex army militant. In our early days I noticed he had a tattoo with a female name followed by a date which when I asked, it took a while for... (320 words)

Don't know what to do, why am I still thinking about a guy I haven't seen for 2 years?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3827 days ago

28 June 2014 (F)

age 22-25 - hi. i'm in a little bummer here... ok here goes, i kinda like this guy (since childhood days actually) but we only see each other every 3 years and he's 2 years older than i am and i don't know if he will or does like me, but then i met this other guy at an archery place once ... (203 words)

It's like I don't exist when his child is visiting

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3829 days ago

28 June 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone. I would like to ask for advice on dealing with my boyfriends behaviour. We have been together 3 years, not living together. He is fun and good company, cooks meals and helps clean up, he is attractive and we seem to have had good chemistry. But over time a pattern ... (173 words)

My online boyfriend shouts at me and hangs up, but I am lonely without him

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3827 days ago

28 June 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in a relationship with a guy. We came to know each other through online dating website. It's been 1 year we have still not meet each other. In the initial 2-3 months he was very loving. He made me feel true love. He has been going through financial problems for the last 1 ... (457 words)

My Gf never initiates sex. Makes me feel I'm the only one who wants it. How can I encourage her to initiate sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3829 days ago

28 June 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - For the ladies, Ive been with my babe for 4 going on 5 years and we had sex about 2 months ago and both lost our virginity to each other. Awesome! But the whole time we have been together I always (if not mostly) initiate our intimacy and as her man I don't mind one bit g... (315 words)

What are your opinions on this close friendship my BF has with this long term friend who's a girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3829 days ago

28 June 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear cupid, Ok so am new to this however I will appreciate the advice you guys give me. I am currently with a guy i am in love with. We celebrated our 3yrs anniversary of knowing each other earlier in June. He and I are very happy together now but in the past had issues ... (383 words)

I am primarily attracted to men who don't seem to find me attractive and it hurts. I'm well educated, articulate and curvy. What do I need to consider or do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3826 days ago

28 June 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I'd really value your thoughts and advice on my situation. First I'll give a bit of background to give you a better picture. I'm a 24 year old black girl from London and I am primarily (but not exclusively) attracted to white men (I think this is purely owed... (541 words)

It's seven years since my wife allowed me to touch her breasts. What might help to help her resolve her issues over this?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3828 days ago

28 June 2014 (M)

age 51-59 - How can I get my wife to be comfortable with me touching her breasts? Ever since our daughter was born seven years ago touching her breasts has made her uncomfortable and its distressing me. It makes me feel like I'm doing something wrong and I don't know what to do.... (52 words)

How do I handle this situation? My mother in law and sister in law chose to get my son's hair cut without our permission. Am I over-reacting? It will grow. It's the disrespect that irritates me

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 3827 days ago

28 June 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello Agony aunts, I have a major issue that I need advice on. My husband and I have a 2yr old son. He is currently in our hometown visiting family. My mother n law and sister n law decided to get my son hair cut( this was his 2nd cut) without our permission by someone we d... (142 words)

If we break up will he give up on our daughter too? I am tired of his abuse and his behaviour

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3829 days ago

28 June 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I know he treats me bad but sometimes some people re abusive because they love you too much, this is my baby daddy and he is emotionally abusing me. He left me pregnant and came back when baby was 3 months blaming me for making him leave. We sorted things out fell i... (555 words)

Am I in a hopeless position re my Bf and confused? I very lonely here, my family lives overseas

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3829 days ago

28 June 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Being with this Muslim guy for about 4 months. Is the second time he break up with me saying that he's a bad guy and I am too "drama" for him.. But he changes his mind 10 min after and is like everything is fine.. Then he says he wants to be only my friend and probably see... (231 words)

What's a 32 year old Virgin to do if he feels like a Nerd in his own community - if he wants to get girls?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3829 days ago

28 June 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - Modnote: I allowed 2 of the videos as I feel that they contributed important understanding. I did not allow the Fleshlight video. I watched all 3 videos before I allowed the 2 in. The rest below is from the Original Poster - - - - - --- Well..I need some advice. Before I... (1170 words)