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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

LDR girlfriend says oral sex doesn't turn her on. Is she bored or seeing someone else?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3817 days ago

6 June 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, Am 27 years old, am in a 7 months relationship , distance deny us sometimes but we talk over the phone . Most times when we see each other, we do have sex and also perform oral sex together. Recently she told me she doesn't really get aroused again anytime i get down... (87 words)

My boyfriend slept with my friend before we got together as a couple and it bothers me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3819 days ago

6 June 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been seeing this guy since November time, at first we just slept together and then in January we started seeing eachother. We made it official in April. Before me he was casually sleeping with my friend but had no feelings for her, on Boxing Day he got drunk and they had ... (232 words)

He's a friend and nothing more. He's asked me on a date, but what should I do? Be honest or what ??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3819 days ago

6 June 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - I hope you can help me. Im kinda in a tough position. Im doing my Leaving Cert at the mo (Irish GCSES) and right before a big exam a guy friend asked me on a date. I had to say yes not only is he a good friend, he needed to do well in that exam. To make matters worse I agre... (123 words)

My boyfriend got drunk and his friends called his ex to come get him, not me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3820 days ago

6 June 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm so angry right now that I feel like I could burst! My boyfriend of 10 months spent the night at his ex wife's house after a drunken night out with pals, and even though I believe him when he says nothing happened, mainly because when he is THAT drunk he can't do anything ... (269 words)

My boyfriend is asking me to go to lunch with him to see his ex perfect girlfriend and I am freaking out!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3820 days ago

6 June 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of 1 year is going for lunch with one of his exs. I know 2 of his ex-girlfriends, as they are part of our social cicle. One of them is just an acquaintance, the other is actual a good friend os us both, and we go out several times. None of them was ever a threa... (461 words)

I'm tired of the double standards! Whats up with her?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3817 days ago

6 June 2014 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been dating for about 9 months now and it is not a casual thing and does look like things will progress more eventually. After saying this, I am at a loss over a certain trait. She can be rather jealous and unduly curious about what I do, and where I am, when I`m not ... (190 words)

Should we just take things slow and see what happens?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3819 days ago

6 June 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay, sorry if this becomes long but I think I need to get it all out so you folks can better judge the situation So, I’m 24 and the girl in question is 23 still at university (I graduated before her) – I have known this girl for 2 years or more and we have always had a mor... (1427 words)

What do I do? All they do is complain about his ex-wife

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3817 days ago

6 June 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - My fiancé's mother and father are hard edged and bitter towards their last daughter in law. My fiancé is divorced. They were only allowed to see the grandchildren on a limited basis. He has two grown children. The connection is broken with the grandchildren and my fiancé's ... (434 words)

I fell in love with her, but she won't talk to me now.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3816 days ago

6 June 2014 (M)

age 26-29 - I fell in love with her, but she won't talk to me now. I have trust issues, insecurities, and low-self esteem. But all of it suddenly disappeared when I met this girl. This girl (Let's call her Jessica) and I are in high school where I'm a junior and she's a freshman. We hav... (969 words)

He didn't call when he said he would and his phone was off ...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3819 days ago

6 June 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Soo my boyfriend is on Holliday with his friends. We have a really good relationship and hasnt done anything in the past to make me doubt him at all, its my own insecurities. I have ben abused with past boyfriends and cheated on a lot. He does is best to reasure me but i do ... (253 words)

Is he really testing the waters? Might he be bisexual?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3819 days ago

6 June 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Well hello everyone. There is a situation that I am into and I would like for you to suggest a way to proceed. It is a bit long so please read carefully. When I am referring to feminise gay guys, there is no offence intended, cause I am fine with them. I am just doing it to... (516 words)

Why are so few of my friends my age?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3819 days ago

6 June 2014 (F)

age 22-25 - Im 14. i have alot of older friends, (mainly ages 18-26) also, i have a couple friends that aren't even 10 yet! why can i barely get along with a few people my age? i only have 4 friends close to my age... (51 words)

Boyfriend is making me feel like a last priority

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3817 days ago

6 June 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello , so my boyfriend works a lot. He usually works 5-6 days a week and they are usually 9-12 hour shifts. I don't get to see him a lot. Only on his 1 or 2 days off. We live an hour away from each other. I work too but at a more flexible job schedule because I'm still in ... (276 words)

I don't understand what this teacher is doing

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3819 days ago

6 June 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - hey, so i have never really told any one this , atleast not all the details and i really need some advice , honest advise so all this started last year around this time, my tutor commented on one of my pictures which i set, i was half asleep when i replied to this comment ... (335 words)

Why wont my boyfriend give me oral sex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3820 days ago

6 June 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - why wont my boyfriend give me oral sex..... i have been with my partner for almost 3 years we have a 9 month old little boy together and im 2 months pregnant with our 2nd baby our sex life is great but i started to notice recently that my partner has only tried giving me oral ... (95 words)

How to deal with a suspected Borderline Personality Disorder son-in-law

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3743 days ago

6 June 2014 (M)

age - How to deal with a suspected Borderline Personality Disorder son-in-law Our daughter lives in Ireland with her Irish boyfriend who for the past 6 years has been very hostile with us. He has now cut off relationships with us. The last tantrum was about his insistence... (235 words)

My gf has constant mood swings, especially around that time of the month and completely takes it all out on me but the moment I have ONE bad day myself, it's the end of the world. Why is that? How is that fair?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3820 days ago

6 June 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - I need some advice. Maybe from the guys who have experienced this, personally, but also from the girls who can possibly explain this phenomenon. I always feel like my gf has constant mood swings, especially around that time of the month, and completely takes it all out on me... (924 words)

How can I make my mother understand that my cousin is like a best friend to me?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3819 days ago

6 June 2014 (F)

age 22-25 - my cousin recently got out of prison. he was there 3 years for sexual abuse. he is like a best friend to me. he is 26, and im 14. everytime i even sit near him my mom practicley yells at me! she thinks he would do something to me but i believe he won't! how do i get my mom to ... (70 words)

My long distance girlfriend make me feel anxious and insecure.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3817 days ago

6 June 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - My long distance girlfriend make me feel anxious, insecure. Yesterday was our second anniversary. I sent her flowers and she texted me until almost 10 pm. I know she forgot it and pretended it wasnt. I know her family and friends and they are kind to me. When i asked her if s... (221 words)

My girlfriend who works as a stripper, gets drunk at work and has things done to her, is jealous of my female friends on Facebook and insists that I un-friend them.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3819 days ago

6 June 2014 (?) age 41-50 - Hi, my girlfriend of about a year broke up for a couple of months ...got back together 2 months ago. During that time I made made friends on facebook with a girl from work. There was a brief flirty exchange when she accepted my friend request but since then no correspondence. ... (501 words)

How can I avoid rejection in the future?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3797 days ago

6 June 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupid,i suffer dissappointment in love when i was in university.although it is about 1year ago now i still suffer from it!i just really don't want to"are guys really like bad girls?my story is there is a boy in my class.he is very clever(always at the top of the ... (372 words)

My cheater ex-boyfriend will do anything to have me back!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3820 days ago

6 June 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a dilemma! My cheater ex boyfriend wants me back! Here's some background information on my sad little life... He was my first EVERYTHING. We we're together for 3 years and we we're mainly happy. There were times when I doubted his love for me because he rarely showed a... (781 words)

Guys: Would you date a girl if you knew she had done nude modeling? Would that change your outlook towards her? And would you be able to see her as being more than a sex object?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3818 days ago

6 June 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been modeling for an online swimwear site. I was approached by a porn site for nude modeling... The money they offered was amazing! I told them I would NEVER do photos with a man or another woman... Guys: Would you date a girl if you knew she had done nude modeling... (78 words)