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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Worried about my boyfriend and his ex, what can we do about the problem?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3826 days ago

30 June 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm sure you guys get these kind of questions a lot, but I'm currently going through this. Basically, when my boyfriend and I first got together a year and a half ago, he was still pretty hurt about his ex cheating on him and the break up they had. He was still communicat... (329 words)

My friends betrayed me when I was vulnerable

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3825 days ago

30 June 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everybody, I'm guessing I'm going to get a lot of opinions on this question, I'm feeling pretty rubbish about it and I understand I was irresponsible. Please don't answer my questions with insults or lectures as I've had that off my parents and I already feel terrible. It ... (618 words)

Job interview coming up soon. Feeling stressed, worried and overwhelmed. How do I deal with this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3826 days ago

30 June 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel that I need some advice re. my stress. I have a job interview in a few hours and I feel overwhelmed with stress and worry, that I'm in tears and feeling nauseous . I don't have time to go and see a doctor at the moment. But I don't know how to calm down. I have had tea ... (222 words)

Why do people do people act like they are in love so easily ? How do I tell him that he's crazy?!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3826 days ago

30 June 2014 (M)

age 22-25 - So my friend and I just got done texting and he has known this girl for like four days and is already saying that she is his dream girl. I've been telling him that he is crazy and that he falls in love way to easy. Why do people do that? How do I tell him that he's crazy?!... (60 words)

My ex boyfriend wants me to drive him to his work.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3826 days ago

30 June 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - so me and my ex have broken up but its only been about 1 month or so... he says in a another relationship already like he has a new girlfriend... now he has been contacting me saying that he loves me even when we talk on the phone its love you... why is that... if he in a new ... (175 words)

She invited me to church but doesn't want to go on dates.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3826 days ago

30 June 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - So I recently meet up with this girl I dated in high school and she invited me to church with her and we went together sometimes! So anyways at first I thought she lost all feelings for me but the first time I went with her to church I could feel that she still had some ... (251 words)

Younger cousins coming for visit. How to keep them occupied and happy for a sleepover? From 4 year old girl, plus three more girls, then the eldest who is an 11 year old boy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3827 days ago

30 June 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay I need some ideas for family activities. This Thursday I'm having a sleepover with my younger cousins. Their dad, my first cousin, passed away a year ago. This is the first time all 5 of his children (all half-siblings) have all been together. We are trying to make ... (144 words)

I don't want to be under his mother's control.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3826 days ago

30 June 2014 (F) age 36-40 - Hi, I live with my husband in holland. He is from kurdistan in iraq, he is going to kurdistan because he cannot stay here any longer he wants me to go there and said we can stay there a few months and then go because I said I dont want to live there. His family seem very ... (241 words)

Why don't I get offended by insults? and why do girls seem to get over-offended?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3827 days ago

30 June 2014 (M)

age 22-25 - I find it unusual that when people (purposely) try to insult me, or tease me, or offend me, it fails. I haven't been offended verbally by anyone I know. Or maybe a different version of offense. I got ticked when someone replied to my post a few days ago, and if that person i... (230 words)

When should you stop thinking about a crush?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3827 days ago

30 June 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - When should a crush subside and you stop thinking about them? I have barely seen this guy, and it's been like 9 weeks! I keep dreaming about him. We never went but i sensed sexual tension. Should I stop or just wait until i see him again and be more flirty? ... (55 words)

My parents are so strict I am getting teased about it!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3822 days ago

30 June 2014 (F)

age 22-25 - OK, so I need some advice. My parents are really, really strict and I've NEVER been on a date before. Even when I hang out with friends, I'm not allowed to do it unless they drive us there and back and they're really strict on the amount of time. If we go to the movies, it ... (247 words)

She has a boyfriend but should I tell her how I feel?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3827 days ago

30 June 2014 (M)

age 22-25 - Every day I can't stop thinking about this girl I like. But she has a boyfriend, she has told me they aren't to serious. Every time I'm alone with her I feel like I should tell her how I feel about her, but at the same time I don't. What should I do?... (53 words)

I was wrong, I cheated and how do I turn things around?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3826 days ago

30 June 2014 (M)

age 51-59 - I cheated on my wife with another woman, she's 29, and now the thrill has worn off. She moans about bills and laundry, and once in anger said "Go back to your ex-wife". Well, I'm still legally married to her, but I quit the marriage for this other woman. This other woman's ... (382 words)

Is my boyfriend interested in sex but just not with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3826 days ago

30 June 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my bf for almost 4 yr our sex hot and heavy in the beginning now its no where to be found the occasional cuddling, peck on the lips. Sex we don't talk about it, I have to ask for it and Im sick of that I am attractive and I feel like if I never asked then we ... (317 words)

I've been friend zoned!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3827 days ago

30 June 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - ive had a crush on a girl for a while now and im to shy to make my move so now ive been friend zoned and now im going to highscool so i might even see her anymore and even lose that. she wants me to go to all her games though but i dont think that will be enough. then to make ... (164 words)

What do you think of this married man who gets attracted to all beautiful woman he finds?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3825 days ago

30 June 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - At my workplace, there is a handsome man but he is married. He is of the cheating type. He is a player. At one moment he would be attracted to a particular woman and then when he sees another more appealing woman, he will be attracted to this woman. If yet another beautiful ... (130 words)

My ex had facial surgery and I'm scared of my reaction when I see her

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3826 days ago

30 June 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - My ex and I have been broken up for months now. I still do have feelings for her and we have remained close friends over the time. We communicate often and go out. We're not back together because we were just incompatible and realized a relationship was out of the question. I ... (331 words)

How do I shake this guy and stop this cycle?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3826 days ago

30 June 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - So I met this guy at a party and I flirted with him a lot, talked to him most of the night but I didn't make out with him or anything. I think I mostly played with his hair and may have rubbed his leg a few times but I mostly kept my distance. I tried to get up a few times ... (738 words)

Should I get away from her? I'm having trouble keeping my emotions at bay

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3827 days ago

30 June 2014 (M) age 30-35 - We've known each other for about a year now. In the beginning, I always thought she was pretty but never felt any real attraction to her, mainly because I was seeing someone else. She also said that she thought I was cute but she too was with someone. a month later, I ended up ... (575 words)

Am I wasting my time? Is he using me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3827 days ago

30 June 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so in march I started speaking to this guy, he's really nice and stuff. Anyhow we finally met in April at a house party and one thug led to another and well - we had what you would call a 'one night stand' however afterward due to him being in the army he flew out O Canada ... (172 words)

When ever I have sex with my husband I feel dirty!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3826 days ago

30 June 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I love my husband and I am attracted to him, but every time we have sex I feel dirty and cheap afterwards. We only have sex about once a month and it's lights out him on top. I still feel dirty and horrible afterwards. It's affecting our marriage, he is 26 and I'm 33, we have ... (137 words)

How can I best cope with my insomnia? Is it that my kindle addictive?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3827 days ago

30 June 2014 (M)

age 22-25 - Basic problem. Im staying up late, until about 1:00 am on my kindle. It's ruining my sleep schedule. Why can't I get off of this device and go to sleep? Help? Such a small issue, and I'm too tired to figure it out on my own. I know it's just "put it down and go to bed... (143 words)

My boyfriend wont take responsibility for his actions!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3827 days ago

30 June 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all. When my boyfriend has had too much to drink he can be very argumentative, he misunderstands things I say. Last week he asked a stupid question and I gave a stupid answer, he got angry, when I tried to explain he said he never said that. Then he hung up phone, sent a ... (122 words)

I lied about my age by one year. Now we're getting really serious. What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3797 days ago

30 June 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - HELP, I met this guy online and he was really awesome. No we are not dating but I lied about my age when we met. And I'm scared he will be mad if I tell him but It will be weird if he finds out later on. We have a three year age difference he thinks we have a two year age dif... (79 words)

Why would my father suggest he could accompany this girl and I to the movies? Her reply confused me too

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3827 days ago

30 June 2014 (M)

age 22-25 - i have two questions to ask.so i like this girl right and one day i had no one to go to the movies with and my dad suggested that i ask her to go with me. what i don't get is that she freaked out. so my dad says that he could come if it wasn't too weird. then she said exac... (103 words)

How can I overcome my jealousy and my fears that he might cheat and my insecurities?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3809 days ago

30 June 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Please help guys. I need to stop being so insecure all the time with my boyfriend, I'm so scared im going push him away. I just get so scared he's going to cheat on me or whatever do something. He hasn't really given me a reason to doubt him he treats me really well. What is ... (209 words)

I think I'm falling out of love. What can be done to improve the situation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3790 days ago

30 June 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - my boyfriend and i have been dating for almost a year now but it doesn't feel like we're dating anymore. we dont go out much, we never really did, but we would always go to each others houses and hang out have sex and chill. i keep urging him to do things with me but he ... (170 words)

Why won't she speak to me anymore?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3828 days ago

29 June 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, Basically one of my close female friends has suddenly stopped talking to me. We've been friends for 7 years, but the past 3 i've been away at university and have come back for a few weeks in the holidays. Everything was normal (we never messaged each other that m... (303 words)

Is this a sign he could be bi?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3826 days ago

29 June 2014 (F) age 41-50 - Dear Cupid i have had other questions about mu husbands sexuality before. But now i need to ask other people. He loves sex with me but it has gotton strange. I wants my to finger his ass. He likes to yell things like " #### my ass harder". We have been together for over eig... (78 words)

Is it a coincidence that I see him there on my day off?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3828 days ago

29 June 2014 (F) - A question for men or women. I am in my 40s and know of a guy that goes to our local coffee shop every day at the same time in the morning (my friend and myself have noticed when we do school drop off). However there is one day that he goes into the coffee shop later and t... (165 words)

Did I make a mistake in getting with him again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3828 days ago

29 June 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel I made a mistake in getting back together Hi guys, It's early morning and I really need a place to vent. I've recently got back together with my ex. It's been a week since we've been together. I broke up with him last time because I felt I deserved a li... (620 words)

Would a fleshlight help a 32 male virgin gain some practice?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3544 days ago

29 June 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - Just a question. i posted earlier about being a 32 year old virgin. And poster Abella gave encouraging advice about it. i know and understand that a fleshlight with a mounting device that helps simulate doggy and missionary - and a mouth mold component meant to create ... (239 words)

Why does he want pictures of me if he isn't going to save them?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3826 days ago

29 June 2014 (?) age 30-35 - My friend and i started out as just co-workers and then started talking more and eventually things led to where we started talking about him taking my virginity and he would ask me for private or "personal" pictures and I was hesitant at first because well I knew he had/still ... (263 words)

He didn't check up on me when I was in the hospital

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3827 days ago

29 June 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey everyone... I'm really going through a lot right now and it's hurting me. So me and my boyfriend been going out for a while now but he broke up with me because he said we have different personality, but we started talking again and tried to work things out. I did everythi... (259 words)

LDR issues. Do I confront her over her Ex issues ? Do I insist on seeing her to work things out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3825 days ago

29 June 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - LDR issues.Do I confront the issues? Do I insist on seeing her next weekend? To try to work things out with her? For years I ignored the feeling in the back of my mind that I may be gay. However about 3 months ago a friend signed me up to a gay dating site. I met a wonderfu... (797 words)

Four months of dating and he's giving me mixed signals

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3827 days ago

29 June 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello uncle and auntie's, I have posted a concern before regarding my four-month relationship with this guy. This guy and I have been together for four months and everything was going well it's just that he has and ask me to be his girlfriend. For the past four months I h... (749 words)

My boyfriend hides couples photos of us on facebook but the ones with his ex girlfriend are there for all to see!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3828 days ago

29 June 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there, nothing major. just a quick question. My boyfriend keeps hiding photos of us together from his facebook timeline thing. This is going to sound very petty, but I'm just a bit worried that he's embarrassed about me or something?! I'm 21, and We've been together... (248 words)

Am I crazy to want a partner who desires me and finds me attractive?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3828 days ago

29 June 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married 16 years and have been bothered by something that may seem trivial to some people. I am aware that all people will notice other attractive people but my husband seems to have a real issue with this and I have talked to him about this before . He did become ... (272 words)

My Dad trusts me abroad so why doesn't he extend my curfew at home?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3828 days ago

29 June 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 21 and I live with my parents in a big expensive city in the U.S. I have a ton of loans from school that I have to start paying off in 6 months (I just graduated) so moving out of my parents place would not be a smart thing to do. I work part time during the school year but ... (402 words)

She's the coolest girl I know, but its been a long time! will it still be worth it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3829 days ago

29 June 2014 (M)

age 22-25 - Hello everybody! I have a dying question to ask, and it burns my insides for an answer. Ok, so there's a girl I know, we have been best friends since literally kindergarten, and its 10th grade now, but in 8th grade, she switched schools. I know where she lives, as she doe... (253 words)

I worry I might be too desperate!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3828 days ago

29 June 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - So a few months ago I met this girl on an online dating website and we hit it off so quickly. Everything was perfect and we had so much fun. About a month ago, we decided to start dating exclusively and thing went ok for a while. But recently we've gotten so distant and it ... (191 words)

Should I let this go and think it was an accident?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3829 days ago

29 June 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I guess this may sound kind of silly but I have always had low self esteem in general so this kind of bothers me. I was with my friend today and we were chitchatting while walking in a building that is usually busy but was empty for some reason. These... (188 words)

Why don't I feel anything when bad events occur? is it a mental issue, or am I just scarred?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3828 days ago

29 June 2014 (M)

age 22-25 - Hello everybody! Just before I start this too much, I'd like to say that I don't really appreciate mean replies and answers, but if you feel like you absolutely HAVE to tell me, then go ahead. So, I can't seem to understand why, but my emotions have disappeared. Som... (449 words)

Need opinions on situation with boyfriend and other women

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3829 days ago

29 June 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Boyfriend (now ex) is mad at me for reading a facebook message a girl sent me outlining her relationship with him. This girl has been stalking me online for over a year. My boyfriend is incredibly funny, family oriented, loves his mom, nice attractive, 6'5 in height, and a... (567 words)

If he wants nothing to do with me why won't he just decline and block me on social media? Is he playing games leaving me hanging?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2868 days ago

28 June 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - My question is about a guy who appears to be "leading me on". About 9 months ago we had a terrible falling out. We were supposed to be just friends but I found out he was in love with me. He was very distraught that I discovered how he truly felt about me (he was trying to hide ... (231 words)

How do I fake it and carry on for our baby, when I'm bored and feel we're incompatible?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3827 days ago

28 June 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Looking for advice on how to try and make my relationship work even though I am so bored! Met 4 years ago, at the time I was happily single, living alone and enjoying my own space. We used to meet 3-4 tines per week and were very happy together. He started saying he loved me... (728 words)

I'm 57 and husband left me for another woman, how do I start over at this age?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3824 days ago

28 June 2014 (F)

age - My husband left me and said the reason was he didn't love me anymore,but in my heart I knew he had found someone else even though he said different.Our 11 year old told me she thought it was a woman from a softball team and that he alway's sits with her and watches her kid play ... (219 words)

Why am I so scared of someone loving me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3827 days ago

28 June 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone....I don't know the best way to explain this..I really want to be in a serious relationship with a guy. but whenever I meet someone I get scared and change my about starting something with them. It usually happens after I find out that they are so in love with me ... (245 words)

Lost him before I could express my feelings, what should I do now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3829 days ago

28 June 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - I met this guy off of a hookup site about a year and half ago. We met up countless times over that period of time and i began to catch feelings for him. I kept them quiet because he was on dl and i wasn't sure if he as looking for a relationship. Sooo cut to a week a go. Im ... (210 words)

Does the repair man like me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3829 days ago

28 June 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok I'm going to start of saying am the worst for thinking things over and over. Can't help myself so please put me straight if am over thinking nothing here, I met a man few months ago, he came out to do repairs for me. But seemed to pro-long the job for as long as ... (255 words)