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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Depressed and sad and don't know where to turn to get through this time in my life. How do I manage this depression?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3816 days ago

10 June 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I have chosen to ask my question on here as I have nowhere else to turn. On paper I know that I am quite fortunate: I have a good group of friends, been in a stable loving relationship for over a year and I have just finished my first year of my law degree. But emotionally ... (466 words)

I'm depressed after our breakup. What should I do? I feel I need to talk to my ex to feel better

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3816 days ago

10 June 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - my ex broke up with me on thursday and at first i was okay with it. we had been trying and trying and it wasn't working but I still found love. I love him so so much its crazy. I can barely cope with this break up and need help. He broke up with me on thursday but tex... (385 words)

Should I enjoy my Gf's amazing personality and hope that she'll make the decision to lose weight so that she can become more physically appealing?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3815 days ago

10 June 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - So I'm 22 and recently I've started talking to this girl who is 18. When it comes to a personality she's everything I could possibly ask for. But as far as looks she has a really cute face but she's pretty overweight. It sounds pathetic on my part but I care a lot about my h... (156 words)

Why don't I feel close to my boyfriend? I feel distant from him even though we do enjoy intimacy together

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3815 days ago

10 June 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi! So I've been with my boyfriend for about 4 months now, and I really like him and he really likes me. Now the problem is, as much as I like him, I really can't feel close to him. Like, it barely feels like we're in a relationship! It's not as though we're not close really... (292 words)

My 15 year old brother in law has been making odd advances and curious about very personal issues. This is making me so confused. Please help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3813 days ago

10 June 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - A little background: I'm someone who never thought about marriage because my parents went through a 6 year long divorce and I don't really understand what love is. I ended up getting married because I got pregnant and we needed the insurance. I know that I care a lot about my... (753 words)

Should I stay in contact with the guy I have a crush on in case things go wrong with my current partner?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3816 days ago

10 June 2014 (F) - My age is 28 years old. I have a partner; we have been living together for a few years. However we have relationship problems and family tensions; and we have given ourselves a one year deadline to sort out our problem. This has been discussed by a one off counselor advice. ... (387 words)

We've been together for four years but he's still active on the dating site he joined behind my back!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3813 days ago

10 June 2014 (F)

age - My boyfriend and I are in our early fifties and been together for almost four years. Our relationship is mostly see each other on weekends.We had an erratic relationship most of the first three years, and had broken up last year on new year's eve for two months. In February... (188 words)

My wife is leaving me for another man! How best to be a good father to my son during the impending divorce?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3815 days ago

10 June 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - I am 32, and my wife's 29, and have a 5-year-old son. Last night she admitted to me she's leaving me for her co-worker, he's 42, and has three children, aged 12, 14 and 16, he's married but left his wife for her. I feel crushed, heartbroken, my wife really was a lovely wom... (335 words)

What is wrong with this man who 'groomed' me when I was fourteen? Years have passed and he still contacts me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3815 days ago

10 June 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello dear all, Please bear for the long story and please don't mind the language mistakes.. I am a 20 year old female who has met this certain man when I was around 9 or 10 years old because we were both in the same activity. Around the age of 14 I had more contact with... (1451 words)

Would this be an OK gift for his mother?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3815 days ago

10 June 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 8 mos and we moved in together in about 2 mos ago. I have met his family and they seem to like me very much. We get together with them about once a week, and his mother just bought us tickets to go to europe in september. Well we ... (136 words)

I feel like I have had a snapshot of my B/f and his life and want out of the relationship.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3814 days ago

10 June 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend about 5 months now and over the last couple of weeks I have been staying at his while some major repairs are being done to my home. I noticed some 'odd' behaviours in my boyfriend (who is 39) right at the start when I first met him he would stand ... (452 words)

My husband's family are awful - was I wrong for striking back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3816 days ago

10 June 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Just need advice on this one....My husbands family treats me so bad. Everything in their life always ends up to be my fault for some reason. It stems back 10 years now of going round and round. I always have just listened to my husband. He says be the bigger better person and ... (719 words)

My boyfriend sleeps on the couch all the time!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3816 days ago

10 June 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been on and off for 3 years and officially dating for a year and a half. We just moved in together into a house with a few friends. We share a room and he's been sleeping on the couch in the livingroom for nights in a row and not in the bed. A big part ... (247 words)

Did he forget about this CD filled with pictures of his ex? Should I be angry with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3813 days ago

10 June 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi There, When I first got together with my other half , I can;t remember why we were discussing it but he told me he had deleted all inappropriate pictures of his ex-wife. Two years ago I found some pictures on his computer which he told me he didn't know they were ther... (249 words)

We clearly want different things out of life!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3816 days ago

10 June 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I broke up last year after months of arguing about what we wanted from our relationship. I wanted commitment, a family one day, our own home, whereas he wanted to stay living separately and just carry on taking things slowly. We had been together for almost 3 ... (427 words)

She is refusing to face financial facts and is moving back home to her parents

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 3487 days ago

10 June 2014 (M)

- How can me and my fiancée come to an agreement? She's lived with me in a house I own and I knew she had some debts so I sat down with her to help sort them out. Around £20,000 in debt including car payments. She has 3 horses which cost her around £600 per month to keep. Go... (176 words)

Why is he being so tepid in bed?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3814 days ago

10 June 2014 (F)

age - I have been seeing my boyfriend since October. We started having sex often and regularly a month into the relationship. He's not that great in bed. I thought this would change as we got closer, playing and developing a sense of what the other likes. The frequency is once a week ... (164 words)

Has anyone ever been in a relationship with someone who shared a name with them? Was it confusing? Awkward?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3816 days ago

10 June 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I met a guy who I am quite into; it's early on, so it's hard to tell if anything will develop between us. My question, however, is about names ... he has the masculine version of my name (ex. Alexander/Alexandra, Nicholas/Nicole, Christopher/Christina, etc), and we both go by ... (82 words)

Am I wasting my time with this girl?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3816 days ago

10 June 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - So there's this girl that I like and I've taken her out a couple of times now and just when things were looking up, she goes camping with her friends and sleeps with another guy when she was drunk. The next day this guy texts her saying he really likes her and wants to get to ... (124 words)

I’m losing patience with her and feel like she isn’t treating me right

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3816 days ago

10 June 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - There is a girl and she is a friend of mine but I have a crush on her. She is from another country and will go home later in the year, so I’m settled on just being friends. We met online and were really good friends, we spoke often and she was very nice to me. I helped her a ... (805 words)

My lesbian girlfriend of 4 years had unprotected sex with a guy

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3816 days ago

10 June 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I have been together for four years (since she was 17 and I was 18). We have been through a lot together and it's been a rocky relationship to say the least. Her family is extremely religious but they have started to come around, she has always struggled with ... (293 words)