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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Worried about my boyfriend and his ex, what can we do about the problem?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3826 days ago

30 June 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm sure you guys get these kind of questions a lot, but I'm currently going through this. Basically, when my boyfriend and I first got together a year and a half ago, he was still pretty hurt about his ex cheating on him and the break up they had. He was still communicat... (329 words)

My friends betrayed me when I was vulnerable

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3825 days ago

30 June 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everybody, I'm guessing I'm going to get a lot of opinions on this question, I'm feeling pretty rubbish about it and I understand I was irresponsible. Please don't answer my questions with insults or lectures as I've had that off my parents and I already feel terrible. It ... (618 words)

Job interview coming up soon. Feeling stressed, worried and overwhelmed. How do I deal with this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3826 days ago

30 June 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel that I need some advice re. my stress. I have a job interview in a few hours and I feel overwhelmed with stress and worry, that I'm in tears and feeling nauseous . I don't have time to go and see a doctor at the moment. But I don't know how to calm down. I have had tea ... (222 words)

Why do people do people act like they are in love so easily ? How do I tell him that he's crazy?!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3826 days ago

30 June 2014 (M)

age 22-25 - So my friend and I just got done texting and he has known this girl for like four days and is already saying that she is his dream girl. I've been telling him that he is crazy and that he falls in love way to easy. Why do people do that? How do I tell him that he's crazy?!... (60 words)

My ex boyfriend wants me to drive him to his work.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3826 days ago

30 June 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - so me and my ex have broken up but its only been about 1 month or so... he says in a another relationship already like he has a new girlfriend... now he has been contacting me saying that he loves me even when we talk on the phone its love you... why is that... if he in a new ... (175 words)

She invited me to church but doesn't want to go on dates.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3826 days ago

30 June 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - So I recently meet up with this girl I dated in high school and she invited me to church with her and we went together sometimes! So anyways at first I thought she lost all feelings for me but the first time I went with her to church I could feel that she still had some ... (251 words)

Younger cousins coming for visit. How to keep them occupied and happy for a sleepover? From 4 year old girl, plus three more girls, then the eldest who is an 11 year old boy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3827 days ago

30 June 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay I need some ideas for family activities. This Thursday I'm having a sleepover with my younger cousins. Their dad, my first cousin, passed away a year ago. This is the first time all 5 of his children (all half-siblings) have all been together. We are trying to make ... (144 words)

I don't want to be under his mother's control.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3826 days ago

30 June 2014 (F) age 36-40 - Hi, I live with my husband in holland. He is from kurdistan in iraq, he is going to kurdistan because he cannot stay here any longer he wants me to go there and said we can stay there a few months and then go because I said I dont want to live there. His family seem very ... (241 words)

Why don't I get offended by insults? and why do girls seem to get over-offended?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3827 days ago

30 June 2014 (M)

age 22-25 - I find it unusual that when people (purposely) try to insult me, or tease me, or offend me, it fails. I haven't been offended verbally by anyone I know. Or maybe a different version of offense. I got ticked when someone replied to my post a few days ago, and if that person i... (230 words)

When should you stop thinking about a crush?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3827 days ago

30 June 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - When should a crush subside and you stop thinking about them? I have barely seen this guy, and it's been like 9 weeks! I keep dreaming about him. We never went but i sensed sexual tension. Should I stop or just wait until i see him again and be more flirty? ... (55 words)

My parents are so strict I am getting teased about it!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3822 days ago

30 June 2014 (F)

age 22-25 - OK, so I need some advice. My parents are really, really strict and I've NEVER been on a date before. Even when I hang out with friends, I'm not allowed to do it unless they drive us there and back and they're really strict on the amount of time. If we go to the movies, it ... (247 words)

She has a boyfriend but should I tell her how I feel?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3827 days ago

30 June 2014 (M)

age 22-25 - Every day I can't stop thinking about this girl I like. But she has a boyfriend, she has told me they aren't to serious. Every time I'm alone with her I feel like I should tell her how I feel about her, but at the same time I don't. What should I do?... (53 words)

I was wrong, I cheated and how do I turn things around?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3826 days ago

30 June 2014 (M)

age 51-59 - I cheated on my wife with another woman, she's 29, and now the thrill has worn off. She moans about bills and laundry, and once in anger said "Go back to your ex-wife". Well, I'm still legally married to her, but I quit the marriage for this other woman. This other woman's ... (382 words)

Is my boyfriend interested in sex but just not with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3826 days ago

30 June 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my bf for almost 4 yr our sex hot and heavy in the beginning now its no where to be found the occasional cuddling, peck on the lips. Sex we don't talk about it, I have to ask for it and Im sick of that I am attractive and I feel like if I never asked then we ... (317 words)

I've been friend zoned!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3827 days ago

30 June 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - ive had a crush on a girl for a while now and im to shy to make my move so now ive been friend zoned and now im going to highscool so i might even see her anymore and even lose that. she wants me to go to all her games though but i dont think that will be enough. then to make ... (164 words)

What do you think of this married man who gets attracted to all beautiful woman he finds?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3825 days ago

30 June 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - At my workplace, there is a handsome man but he is married. He is of the cheating type. He is a player. At one moment he would be attracted to a particular woman and then when he sees another more appealing woman, he will be attracted to this woman. If yet another beautiful ... (130 words)

My ex had facial surgery and I'm scared of my reaction when I see her

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3826 days ago

30 June 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - My ex and I have been broken up for months now. I still do have feelings for her and we have remained close friends over the time. We communicate often and go out. We're not back together because we were just incompatible and realized a relationship was out of the question. I ... (331 words)

How do I shake this guy and stop this cycle?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3826 days ago

30 June 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - So I met this guy at a party and I flirted with him a lot, talked to him most of the night but I didn't make out with him or anything. I think I mostly played with his hair and may have rubbed his leg a few times but I mostly kept my distance. I tried to get up a few times ... (738 words)

Should I get away from her? I'm having trouble keeping my emotions at bay

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3827 days ago

30 June 2014 (M) age 30-35 - We've known each other for about a year now. In the beginning, I always thought she was pretty but never felt any real attraction to her, mainly because I was seeing someone else. She also said that she thought I was cute but she too was with someone. a month later, I ended up ... (575 words)

Am I wasting my time? Is he using me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3827 days ago

30 June 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so in march I started speaking to this guy, he's really nice and stuff. Anyhow we finally met in April at a house party and one thug led to another and well - we had what you would call a 'one night stand' however afterward due to him being in the army he flew out O Canada ... (172 words)

When ever I have sex with my husband I feel dirty!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3826 days ago

30 June 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I love my husband and I am attracted to him, but every time we have sex I feel dirty and cheap afterwards. We only have sex about once a month and it's lights out him on top. I still feel dirty and horrible afterwards. It's affecting our marriage, he is 26 and I'm 33, we have ... (137 words)

How can I best cope with my insomnia? Is it that my kindle addictive?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3827 days ago

30 June 2014 (M)

age 22-25 - Basic problem. Im staying up late, until about 1:00 am on my kindle. It's ruining my sleep schedule. Why can't I get off of this device and go to sleep? Help? Such a small issue, and I'm too tired to figure it out on my own. I know it's just "put it down and go to bed... (143 words)

My boyfriend wont take responsibility for his actions!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3827 days ago

30 June 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all. When my boyfriend has had too much to drink he can be very argumentative, he misunderstands things I say. Last week he asked a stupid question and I gave a stupid answer, he got angry, when I tried to explain he said he never said that. Then he hung up phone, sent a ... (122 words)

I lied about my age by one year. Now we're getting really serious. What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3797 days ago

30 June 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - HELP, I met this guy online and he was really awesome. No we are not dating but I lied about my age when we met. And I'm scared he will be mad if I tell him but It will be weird if he finds out later on. We have a three year age difference he thinks we have a two year age dif... (79 words)

Why would my father suggest he could accompany this girl and I to the movies? Her reply confused me too

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3827 days ago

30 June 2014 (M)

age 22-25 - i have two questions to ask.so i like this girl right and one day i had no one to go to the movies with and my dad suggested that i ask her to go with me. what i don't get is that she freaked out. so my dad says that he could come if it wasn't too weird. then she said exac... (103 words)

How can I overcome my jealousy and my fears that he might cheat and my insecurities?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3809 days ago

30 June 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Please help guys. I need to stop being so insecure all the time with my boyfriend, I'm so scared im going push him away. I just get so scared he's going to cheat on me or whatever do something. He hasn't really given me a reason to doubt him he treats me really well. What is ... (209 words)

I think I'm falling out of love. What can be done to improve the situation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3790 days ago

30 June 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - my boyfriend and i have been dating for almost a year now but it doesn't feel like we're dating anymore. we dont go out much, we never really did, but we would always go to each others houses and hang out have sex and chill. i keep urging him to do things with me but he ... (170 words)