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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

We get on amazingly and we're fun together but sometimes I just feel a bit down about the relationship. Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3820 days ago

5 June 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I need some help. Ive been seeing my boyfriend since august and officially been together since november. Hes 8 years older than me. We spend alot of time together but usually spend approx 2 evenings per week apart. We get along brilliantly! And its going really well. But theres ... (359 words)

My past relationships have made me extremely insecure and I keep thinking that my B/f is going to cheat on me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3817 days ago

5 June 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a lovely boyfriend who i have been with for about 16 months. Hes a good man, he treats me well and does do his best. I couldnt not ask for anyone better. I do feel lucky. From past boyfriends i feel i have been extremely traumatised and i am sooo scared he will cheat ... (262 words)

Am I mad to take on a guy with these issues???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3820 days ago

5 June 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - Ok, for the last 5 months I've befriended a gorgeous guy who has quite a few issues! Firstly, he is a recovering alcoholic, off the alcohol for 21 years, secondly, he has been self medicating for the last year and is currently in hospital trying to stop this habit, and to ... (324 words)

How wrong was I? Was she wrong? And is it healthy for someone to move on that fast?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3816 days ago

5 June 2014 (M)

age 26-29 - So this girl I dated for 2 years her and I broke up like 3 weeks ago. Before we broke up I was a real jerk to her for example when she would ask me a question I would answer it like I didn't care. I didn't do anything that bad I would never cheat on a girl or hit a girl but ... (235 words)

Living together 3 years and it looks like he has no plans for marriage!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3820 days ago

5 June 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been going out with a man for 3 years now. We live together and He has a son whom lives with him from a previous relationship. Me and the son get on great :) and there is not issues with the boys mother. My thing is after 3 years together there is no sign of him want... (120 words)

I love him and I believe he loves me but I'm lost. Do I take him at his word or what?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3817 days ago

5 June 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I am a 25 year old mother of two from a previous relationship. I am with an amazing 21 year old who acts much older than his age. We've been together for almost a year, he tears my kids as they are his own. Now here is the problem, he's been looking for jobs left and right ... (208 words)

Any ideas of what could be going through her mind? Why did she act so weird?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3816 days ago

5 June 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Maybe this problem will resolve itself sooner than I'll hear from y'all, but I'm stuck at work for the next hour with nothing to do and this on my mind, so here goes: Met this girl through a friend 3ish weeks ago. Immediately hit it off really well. We’ve gone out twice s... (692 words)

Should I give this woman more support even though I know we will never be together?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3820 days ago

5 June 2014 (M)

age - I'm wondering what I should do here. I am middle aged man who has been divorced for around 1.5 years after a long term marriage. I still care about my ex-wife though who basically decided she wanted to move to Florida and not be married any longer after the kids were grown. ... (968 words)

Neighbor asked my daughter to be bridesmaid then cancelled the big wedding and now I'm stuck with a dress and shoes!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3820 days ago

5 June 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - My Nextdoor neighbour was due to get married in August and asked my 7 year old daughter to be bridesmaid. My daughter was thrilled as she'd never been a bridesmaid before and it was probably her only chance (before shes an adult)as all our relatives and family friends are ... (392 words)

Why can't this reserved guy tell me sober what he told me when he was drunk?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3814 days ago

5 June 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - So here’s the thing, I started working as a bar tender a wile back at this pub and I met this guy there, who is a totally gorgeous stud with brains to match. To only problem is that he’s really reserved. Everyone at work know that we have a thing and sometimes it feels as thoug... (801 words)

After 7 years together how much does the average couple have sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3820 days ago

5 June 2014 (F) age 36-40 - Hi there I am just about to move in with my boyfriend of 7 years. I just wonder really how often on average couples who have been together this long have sex? We hardly do anymore. Maybe once or twice a month at the moment. Half the time I can't be bothered, this may be... (117 words)

Boyfriend of 8 years and I just moved in together but now all we do is fight!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3817 days ago

5 June 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - HI Ying Yang I would really appreciate if you could help me with this mess. Where do I even begin to cut a long story short.Well I've been with my boyfriend for 8 years he means the world to me I truly love him don't think he even knows how much I even do. We have been through ... (212 words)

My boyfriend of 5 months ignores me and doesn't talk anymore

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3821 days ago

5 June 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - i've been dating my boyfriend for 5mnths now and i love him.he has changed a lot he hardly talks to me and ignores me.when i ask hm whats wrong he doesn't talk.how do i make things work between us?... (39 words)

Help my crush is being taken away from me!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3804 days ago

5 June 2014 (F)

age 22-25 - Hiya I need all the possible help needed and as soon as possible please!! So I like this boy and he likes me back but were not going out as we don't want to ruin our friendship. But I want more I am thinking of asking him out tomorrow but then something happened today..... (141 words)

I need help to process this. My husband had oral sex with the daughter of his ex:

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3817 days ago

5 June 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for 3 years and have been having this issue his his ex girlfriend and her daughter. When we got together he was living with her and her daughter and they have been together for 16 years. They had an open relationship to a certain point and he helped rais... (360 words)

Crush issues, should I pursue learning more about him or just forget all about it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3821 days ago

5 June 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - So I caught this waiter's eye and he started conversing with me and my friend and welcoming us to town and giving us extreme details about this and that. He also asked me a couple of personal questions of what I do and where am I from...He kept eye contact and spent over half ... (335 words)

I'm too scared to move on.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3821 days ago

5 June 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey aunts and uncles I've recently come out of a four year relationship. I had been planning the break up for some time as he was abusive (mentally and emotionally). He would use emotional blackmail to get me to do things for him and if we argued over something HE had don... (338 words)

Is he treating his friend unfairly now that we are back together?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3821 days ago

5 June 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everybody, I'm not sure If I have a question or whether I would just value your views on this matter. Me and my boyfriend got together at 18 and have been together just under 5 years. Back last October our circumstances changed drastically, neither of us handled it very ... (695 words)

I know I should just suck it up, but I am JEALOUS!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3821 days ago

5 June 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there, I have come here to get feedback on what really is just me being silly, but I can't seem to help it. I'm 21 years old and my boyfriend is 22. We're both postgraduate university students. We've been together for two years and during that time, we've had a few boundary ... (297 words)

I am looking for the outsider's view.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3821 days ago

5 June 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a friend who initially started out as someone I had a flirtation with. It was very intense and we became emotionally involved with each other. For various reasons her and I being together is not possible. The flirting and telling each other how much we wanted each other ... (261 words)

Will my wife ever get over me leaving her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3821 days ago

5 June 2014 (M)

age - I left my wife of 20 years about a year and a half ago. We had been arguing for most of our marriage about everything possible (money, how to bring up the children etc.) and had no common interests, and I just had enough so I found a flat and left. I didn't leave for anyone ... (199 words)

I feel I am already in the friend zone ...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3821 days ago

5 June 2014 (M)

age 26-29 - So what makes a girl contact you relentlessly for a week (she initiates almost every conversation), invite you to her grad party, and ask you to go to the movies with her (which I did on Monday) after almost 8 months of no contact? I had a great time, and she said she did too, ... (151 words)

I don't want to tell my boyfriend how insecure I feel ....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3822 days ago

5 June 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a lovely boyfriend who i had been with for about 14 months, he hasnt done one thing to make me not trust him apart from on thing i seen a text on his phone about having video sex with a sex and cos i was so upset i couldnt remember the date and he started crying when he ... (313 words)

I wasn't the one who messed up so why am I the one hurting?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3820 days ago

5 June 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex and I had been together almost 4 years. He moved from England to Canada with me 3 years ago in August. We definitely had our rough patches, mainly to do with him speaking inappropriately to other girls. Anyway, on Sunday morning I checked his phone for messages (I had ... (299 words)