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writes:Hello I'll try to make this short. Im in a long distance relationship and its been almost a year since we seen each other.we talk or Skype everyday and he helps me out financially, not that I need him to he just offers, I have never asked for anything. He says he loves me and he's in love with me but sometimes I wonder if its true. He can be a little mean and direspectful Sometimes. I really love him and he has asked to marry me but im so confused. The other night he hung up on me because he didn't like the way I said something, he said it sounded like I was talking to someone else. He was mad and refused to talk. We didn't speak until the next evening he said he was only doing that to teach me a lesson. Im hurt and confused I feel like I really want this relationship and its crumbling. I wonder if he really loves me? Should I continue or just give up? Sometimes I feel so hurt I cant function. We have future plans to be together because he's moving where I am. I love him and I wonder if his love for me is real. Ease help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2014): When you say long distance are you referring to another country? Is there a reason you haven't seen eachother in almost a year? And what do you mean by future plans to marry and him move to be where you are? Has he taken any action to actually do so?
Long distance relationships can be difficult for the simple fact that two people in love can't be together as much as they would like. However, if he believes you're talking to someone else and needs to teach you a lesson it sounds like there are some underlying trust issues. How long have you two been together?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2014): If it were me I wouldn't continue the relationship. He sounds weird and nasty. He hung up on you because he thought you were talking to someone else? It sounds like he has mental problems too. Pay close attention to these early behaviors because that is most likely what you will end up with x 100 if you marry him. Good luck.
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