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anonymous
writes:My boyfriend has a few good looking female friends. He has ample opportunity to cheat but I don't think he would. I was just wondering, if you keep your partner very sexually satisfied does that make them less likely to look at other girls or fantasise about them? Reply to this Question
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (9 August 2014):
 WE guys are interesting creatures. We might have a delightful partner (such as YOU are, apparently)... but we STILL are willing to risk that (the partnership with you) because we believe that there really IS some greener grass on somebody else's lawn......
You can do your best to keep B/F by your side.... BUT... if he's a dog (as so many guys are)... there isn't much you can do to keep him faithful. You simply have to find a real gentleman, who understands how great it is to have a delightful partner such as you are....
Good luck..
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reader, Anonymous 123  +, writes (9 August 2014):
 Yes anon male, I know you're not doing anything wrong, that's what I've told the OP as well. Looking is not wrong; how can it be? In fact, I'll even go so far as to say that if there's a guy who DOESN'T look at other girls but just fixates on his girlfriend, that, is not normal. I somehow cant deal with the "I only have eyes for you" creepy behavior. Lets accept the obvious. Everyone looks and fantasizes. Women might not like the thought of their partners doing this but its something that has to be accepted.
However, as I said, this is only acceptable as long as they don't cheat on their partners or indulge in any kind of behavior that is hurtful to their partners.
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reader, xTheAlmightyDuckx +, writes (9 August 2014):
 Sometimes cheating is in peoples personality's. I find that a lot of men and women who tend to cheat are normaly selfish and greedy when it comes to every day life, but of course anyone can cheat, whether they have the best sex life or not.
However I do think it helps to keep your partner sexually satisfied, as with some people if they aren't getting it at home, they will go and get it somewhere else, but that still doesn't mean they won't cheat, there is no certainty that someone won't cheat and there isn't much you can do about it, but if you trust him and he hasn't done anything yet then don't worry about it.
However if you are still interested in learning some more sex tips, then there are plenty of sex guru's online, youtube included, and there are different books you can buy off amazon with fun ways to spice up your sex life. :)
Good Luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2014): Dionee and Anon123,you are both absolutely right, but keep in mind we look at you too if we come across you in the street. so we are not doing anything bad.
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reader, Anonymous 123 +, writes (9 August 2014):
You can try everything you possibly can but if a man has to look at other girls, he will. Why do you think married men /men in committed relationships look at porn? Why do they look at other women? Because its part of their genetic code and any man who says that he doesn't, is lying.
You know what they say, 97% of all men masturbate and the other 3% lie about it. Well I'll tell you what, the same figures apply for men looking at other women/thinking about other women. Show me one single man who hasnt/doesnt and you know he's lying. And forget looking at pretty girls, they'll even look at the ones who look like trash and you wonder what they see in them!
That being said, I must add that you cant stop someone from looking at other girls or from thinking about them maybe in a fleeting, sexual manner. I say its something that one has to accept as long as they NEVER cross that line into cheating.
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reader, Dionee'  +, writes (9 August 2014):
 The truth is that even though you may keep your partner sexually satisfied, it may or may not keep their eyes from wondering, even their minds. That is just the way it seems to be. You have, in all seriousness, no control over what/who your partner chooses to look at or fantasize about.
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