I don't know if its lust or I am in love with her?

A male age 30-35, anonymous writes:

So I feel as I am in a dilemma , I recently ended a relationship about a month ago because I wasn't feeling it . I told myself that it didn't want to date anyone just because I didn't feel ready for any commitment nor to lead any girl on because I myself sometimes don't understand my feelings . I recently came into contact with an old friend that I've known in my H.S years but she is older than me . I always thought she was cute and wanted to date her but she was always in a relationship . We hung out last week went out and had a good time , I don't know if she was friendly or flirty she would laugh and put her head on my should and touch my back walk close to me . I usually don't have a Problem with girls and flirting back ; heck I livw to flirt . Here's the problem ... I literally freak out and because nervous when I think about flirting with her , I think she's funny kind and attractive . Why can't I flirt back even though I want too ! I feel like she's my kryptonite or some thing I just can't seem to figure out what's going on here . I don't want to let her know how I feel because well I don't want to make things awkward or I myself don't know if it's lust or if I am interested in her . I think what intimidates me is that she is older than be by 2 years . What do I do should I dirt should I continue to hang out as a friend and see if I really do like her ? BTW she agreed to be my date for my sisters weeding . So the real question is should I wait or should I flirt and see where it takes me . And if someone can help me understand what in the world is going on with me being such a coward and not flirting back . It's driving me nuts !

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