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female
age
22-25,
*atup
writes:Okay, so my bf was perfect, he blew off his friends for me in class he found excuses to sit next to me and every chance he got he spoke to me. but now he's in anouther world and we hardly speak... and he wont let me tell my bff we're dating because he wants this a 'secret' so there wont be any rumors or jokes about it, he likes me and i really like him. what do i do now, if i ask why is he ignoring me, he will get mad and if i assume that i did something wrong he will think i dont think we are ok yet i dont want to go to my knees after i learnt from my other bff, girls are in control and i dont want him to think any other way! Reply to this Question
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (27 August 2014):
 oh dear.. Girls are not in control.... you never CONTROL another person, not even your own children.
It seems to me that he does not want to be your boyfriend anymore and is not mature enough to tell you this so he'd rather just ignore you and hope you go away.
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reader, olderthandirt +, writes (26 August 2014):
 Oh, I don't know, maybe he figured out that being totally controlled wasn't what he wanted and wised up to your controlling nature. You go boy!
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