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writes:I have a friend who is leaving soon and I want to know if I should persue him. I can't decide because he gives me mixed signals. For instance...says he cares about me, talks about hot girls, puts his arm around me in public, won't make a move around his friend, has kissed me four times, flirts constantly with me, but won't ask me on a proper date. He is everything I have ever wanted in a guy and I have the time of my life around him. We can talk about lots of deep things but I have never had the guts to ask him if he likes me enough to date me seriously. Please help, Thanks so much!!
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reader, nicole90 +, writes (2 December 2008):
nicole90 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Sorry for lack of info...he is leaving for two years for a mission and will be leaving in about 6 months. And I don't know where he is going yet but wherever he goes I won't be able to see him for two years. Thanks for the advice!!
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reader, katatonik +, writes (1 December 2008):
 It sounds as if there is chemistry between you, but if he is leaving you should probably think twice about getting involved with him. Play a mental "what if" on this one. You two get together. Will he still leave? Probably. Will you be at least somewhat attached to him? Almost certainly. Will you get hurt? Most likely.
You don't say how far away he's going, why he's going, or whether he'll be back. All of this information would be helpful in getting a better picture of your situation, and would affect what your chances may be of having a successful relationship with this guy. Good luck =]
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