A
female
age
30-35,
*bbi
writes:How do i stand out against the rest?I really like this guy josh who me and him i found just clicked as soon as we met. But the problem is is that me and my friend both like him and it obviously has caused a problem because he likes us too but he also has a few other girls who like him too and he is feeling overwhelmed with the whole thing and he doesnt knwo what to do as he tells girls what they want to hear so he doesnt hurt anyone and he tells me he thinks that he should call things off relationship wise cus its hurting him at the same time as some of the girls arent interested in how he feels, which i do understand but i don't know where i stand with him as i have been down to see him cus he lives in nottingham and im in lincoln which is also a problem , and we have gotten upto stuff and the things he says to me makes me think that he really does like me but the others seem to come into it which is why i would like himt o make a decison and make him notice that im good for him and im not going to hurt him, making me be more special than the others but i dont know how and he doesnt do anything like that with anyone but me which makes me wonder, he told me twice he wants to back off but both times he doesnt and he carried on normally with me as nothing has been said and its starting to hurt cus im falling for him which i really dont want to do cus im afraid of getting more and more hurt and i dont no how to resolve it Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2008): I think the best thing you can do if you want to be different then the other girls wanting his attention, is to "back off", be distant. Let him come after you; give him the opportunity to be the hunter and do the "chasing".
All these girls are chasing him and trying to get his attention. Be different, let him notice that you are friendly but keep a distance. A little mystery can do wonders and can be the "magic" he needs.
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