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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Dear Cupid I'm a first year university student in London, and recently went to visit my friend in Manchester for a week (study week). Whilst I was there I met one of her friends and I know it sounds creepy but I can't stop thinking about her. I've never felt anything like it with anyone else, we just seemed to click. Nothing happened between us and I don't even know if she feels the same way, but I just feel like I can't sit around and do nothing. I can't concentrate on anything else, and it's stupid I know, cos I've only known her for a week. So what I want to know is (I can't believe I'm even writing this letter!) what do I do now? Do I tell her how I feel? If so how, without sounding corny or creepy? Is there even a point to even trying because she lives so far away? and if I should just leave it how do I stop feeling like this? Any help at all would be welcome!
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reader, melon +, writes (11 December 2008):
Yeah I agree with other people, I would try and act on it, nothing ventured nothing gained as they say! (easier said than done). Just try and get in contact, good luck I hope everything goes well :-) xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2008): Yeah, don't sit around and do nothing! Start by making contact with her as a friend. Tell your friend in Manchester that you enjoyed yourself and thought her friend was great and ask to pass your email address on. People do it all the time! You'll soon find out whether she feels the same or not, and if the worst happens and you don't think she does, at least you'll have made a nice new friend.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (1 December 2008):
So she is mysterious, unavailable, beautiful, and you got on well.
It's no wonder you can't stop thinking about her but please just consider that this may be an infatuation rather than love and that you have probably been filling in a lot of details about her in your head since you don't know her. It's easy to make anyone into your perfect match in your mind, but she may be nothing like that in real life.
Try adding her on facebook and then chatting to her.
As you say, it may be impossible to have a relationship with her since you live far away from eachother so you may want to treat this as a crush, enjoy the thrill of it but try and find a real girl and see if she fades after a while.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2008): Why would you want to get her out of your mind? If you have had a connection with someone and you really like her i would make some enquiries with your friend to see how she felt about you. I know there is a bit of distance involved and it may be a bit tricky with your studies but many people meet their life partners at university you never just know.
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