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writes: do all guys hate/dont mind sleeping with a girl when she has her period?im always extra horny at this time and although i try to not let anything happen i cant resist my boyfriends roaming hands at this time, i even forget its that time off the month and dont tell him, i just run to the bathroom to remove my tampon before sex.don think he notices when its my time of the month as i take out the tampon just before and put one back in straight away after.i know some girls hate the thought of sex at this time so im wondering what is the general opinion from men???also,i have been told that anal sex can damage your insides, is this true? if its not id like to offer it to my bf but if its true then i wont.
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reader, AbiiBabes  +, writes (6 October 2008):
 Hiii there darlingg x
I've had sex whilst on my period a number of timess. Imalwaysss reallyy horny at this time of month, but like you i cannot resist my boyfriend. Obviously, there will e the males that dont like this but most of them that i know like it, because its wetter so he can do his 'thing' easier. For me, i find it a bit embarrassing, bt my bf dont mind so i go with it x
During the sex, you just forget about it. Btw, i think you should let your boyfriend know. if he dont like it then dont tell him no more, but if he does just say x
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2007): I've had sex with my girl on her period many a times. It's not usually the number one thing on my mind, especially if she is real havy at the time however if I'm worked up enough then I'll do it. I find this as a good time to practice communication while in the bedroom beacuse the woman can still do lots of things to the man. There's always anal sex if you can talk your partner into it too, I've yet to.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 September 2007): As a man I’m not turned off by sex at this supposedly awkward time, but from my experiences everybody is different. Personally if you both don't mind and can cope with the fact that "THERE MIGHT BE BLOOD, YUK!" you could find it a welcome plus side to your period. Many women I know find themselves extra horny at this time and enjoy intercourse greatly, but just as many women find it a great experience an equal amount find it a complete horror.
I think period sex is a very bi-polar affair.
One final thing... "God never created our anus for sexual gratification" ... er, I'm sure God never created MY anus; surely it could have only been the devils work! However, anal intercourse is devilishly good, I thoroughly enjoy giving and receiving... but yes go easy on your botties folks, and they are a precious stopper in fight against brown trousers!
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reader, lisa_01  +, writes (19 May 2006):
 i must admit iv only had sex once or twice on my period due to the fact sex during that time of month is very painful for me and i actually pass out, but my man is not totally into anyway and it jiat creats a yukky mess. in terms of anal sex, well i have given anal sex to my man before and he loved it and he is still health and alive, so if you want and if he wants you should go ahead and try it, if you dont like it just stop,simple.mind you anal is great for finding the male G spot, once you find it he will love you for it.
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reader, Little Blondie +, writes (18 May 2006):
Well when I am on my time of month (tom) I feel very very horney, my boyfriend doesn't mind it, but I always make sure that he is aware what time of the month it is, it doesn't stop him though.
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reader, DrPsych +, writes (17 May 2006):
 Periods from a female perspective...I just feel like death warmed up personally but if it floats your boat and your boyfriend doesn't mind then it is your personal choice. People are sometimes revolted because it goes back to a time when menstruation was treated with disgust, and great secrecy. One way to deal with the messy problem of sex at that time is to get yourself a cap as they fit over the cervix and stop leakage. As for anal sex, well that is your decision as it is your body. The medical risks of anal sex are two-fold, possible three-fold. The one side effect of repeated anal sex is sphincter (thats the muscles at the exit) stretching which can cause incontinence in the long run (not in everyone but just some people). I worked on a research project looking at how people manage incontinence this year, and counselling them and I can tell you it is not a very nice condition! Secondly, there are all sorts of bacteria in your bottom that are healthy there but not healthy when transferred to the vagina. Therefore if you do engage in anal sex then you should take care not to transfer bacteria front-wards. Some people use condoms for anal sex and then remove them prior to vaginal sex for instance. Thirdly, regular anal sex can promote haemorrhoids (piles) which is a very itchy problem! Part of the prevention would be to use LOTS and LOTS of KY Jelly if you want to experiment.
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reader, tux  +, writes (17 May 2006):
 Personally, I have no problem with it. But it does really depend on yourself and your boyfriend. and he should be on the same page as you are in knowing that you are on your period so he has the choice. My girlfriend typically doesnt like being touched at all on her period except for a few occassions she gets in the mood.
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reader, bonym +, writes (17 May 2006):
 I am not a male, but in my opinion sex when its that time of the month is stomach churning, I mean there is a flow of blood coming out of you and the thought of a man inside me at that time makes my skin crawl. I dont advocate anal sex either, I am old fashioned, sex should be one way, God never created our anus for sexual gratification in my opinion, it has one purpose and we all know what that is. My dear, if you like that sort of thing, thats your opinion. xXx
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reader, Yos  +, writes (17 May 2006):
 Every guy probably has his own boundaries when it comes to sex and periods. But if he's not up for intercourse then some kind of masturbation, either with fingers or a vibrator, might be a decent compromise.
Anal sex does not damage you if you do it right. There's lots of good sources of information online about this, I recommend www.puckerup.com as one of the best.
I can guess why you are asking this. I'll tell you personally that my girlfriend likes anal sex and that comes in particularly convenient during her period...
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reader, Angel ron +, writes (17 May 2006):
 revolting
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2006): I don't like it personally. I guess I'm one of the 2 out of 5 that the doc was talking about.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2006): I read in one of my flatmates girly magazines that 3 out of 5 men don't mind having sex whilst their partner is on a period.
I'm surprised that you don't know him well enough to tell him when you're on a period though?
I don't really mind having sex with my girlfriend whilst she's on her period, as long as it isn't too heavy :]. She used to feel really dirty whilst she was on her period but I've managed to change her views!
As for anal sex, if you make sure you use plenty of lubrication you will be fine. Make sure he takes it easy, and uses a finger or something first to relax the muscle.
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