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writes: Hi. I have posted about this before but thought I'd give an update and would like some more opinions as I'm so confused! To recap, There's a girl who lives near me who knows I like her cos I sent her a card, she was always nice and smiley towards me if I passed her in the street but would never say more than "hiya". Well after this happening for a while, I bumped into her and her parents in a shop, but this time, she was really chatty, telling me all about herself and asking about me, she then introduced me to her parents and told them all where i worked. Thinking I had made some kind of breakthrough, I came away pleased, but the next time I saw her in the street on her own, she was exactly the same as before, very friendly and smiley but just said hi and I couldn't get her to stop and talk. The same night, I saw her with her mum again, in the distance and they both smiled and waved when they could have easily pretended not to notice me. In short, she seems fine and interested when shes with her parents but so shy when she's on her own. I can't see she's just been polite because of the long convo we had and how she spoke to me and the fact she always waves to me. She is very shy though and I never see her with friends so I think she's a bit of a loner. She always seems pleased to see me, I just cant hold a chat with her when shes on her own! We're both early 20s btw. How can I make a move forward? I posted about this previously http://www.DearCupid.ORG/question/girls-opinions-needed--is-this-chick-interested.html Thanks
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reader, Ainley +, writes (17 May 2006):
 ahh well as someone who also works for my parents its really hard to tell whether shes polite or likes you, urm the best thing i can give you is to just walk in there and give her your number say if you want to go out give me a ring then walk out, thats what my bloke did because he was just as confused as you are, but bare in mind it took me a month or two to pluck up the courage, but it worked so give it a go because this way you dont have to stand around listerning to her make excuses. best of luck!
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reader, Phoebe Halliwell  +, writes (17 May 2006):
 Dear Reader,
so glad you've found that someone special. Why don't you just talk to her and say you just need her to listen for a second. Tell her everything and then say, "but if you're not interested just say .. " this garantees' a response as if she doesn't like you, she'll say and if she does, she wont want you to walk away and she'll have to say, "but I ..." etc. HEY PRESTO!
Good Luck, All The Best and
Blessed Be!
Phoebe
xxx
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