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writes:HeyI really like this guy but when i'm not with him and thinking about him, all I can think about is all of his bad points. So when i am with him i am put off by him.Is there anyway i could stop doing this?! i need help, it is realy effecting my love life! Thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2006): having a bad points is the sign of being imperfect....if you love the person you must accept who he/she is....people a lots of "BUT"....
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reader, Sis6372 +, writes (18 May 2006):
I used to do this to my boyfriend, and it drove me crazy cause I knew I was in love with him. It was like a month or two before I realized that I his bad points didn't bug me anymore and that I never though about them anymore. They'll go away I promise, just stick it out. GGOD LUCK!
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reader, DrPsych +, writes (17 May 2006):
 Maybe your BF has some valid bad points but only you can tell. It is more likely that you are not feeling very good about yourself and sometimes people pick on others as a sign of their own personal discontent. For example, I have a neighbour where I live, and I have only met her once in the six years I have lived in my apartment. But sometimes I hear her in the garden gossiping about me in a really nasty, vindictive way - I don't think 'horrible woman', I actually feel a bit sorry for her because surely it is a sign of something lacking in her own life if she has nothing better to do than be nasty about a complete stranger. I am not suggesting you are like my neighbour, but you should perhaps take a good look at yourself and your personal happiness and aspirations as you may find the source of your critical behaviour lies there.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2006): What sort of bad points are we talking about here?
If someones bad points are putting you off.. perhaps they arn't the right person for you?
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