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writes: Stayed friends with my ex, everything is going really well, but there's just one problem...Everythime I ask her to do something or go out to a movie, just to be friends, she always says no...I dont know if its because she scared or something but it seems like she's scared that something might happen, like I'm the only ex who she broke up with who satyed friends with her, and their is also something else strange whenever we get closer together and become friends again she always ends up having a new boyfriend ?? whats happening :):) :S:S
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reader, I Dont Lie +, writes (17 May 2006):
You guys are friends who were once in a relationship together, thats something very hard to move on from. Give her some time and things will be alright sooner than you think.
Ask yourself sincerely, why are you so bothered about her not talking to you? If anything, its only natural after a breakup. It seems to me that you're sort of expecting someone to tell you that she might still be in love with you and that the reason shes avoiding you is because she still cant get over you enough to be friends. Well, you know wot, it might be that but then again, it might not. Only she knows. But let me tell you something, if you keep analysing her every move, it'll eventually drive you crazy, so save yourself some sanity and try to move on. Its about time seeing as shes trying her utmost to do so!
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