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writes: My ex bf and I broke up about 5 months ago becuz he had 2 move back home and leave our uni. We both still really cared about eachother but we figured it would be best 2 end it becuz of the distance. We still k.i.t. with instant messages and the other day he told me that he missed me and still cared for me, that he thought about me a lot and was still sorry that it had 2 end the way it did. I felt exactly the same way, i think about him all the time. But it would make no sense to get back together now seeing as we live so far apart. He's supposed to be going back 2 school and is going 2 apply 2 a school a little closer to me or possibly return to our old uni (he's very indecisive with school)and he said he hopes we see eachother again. I feel so confused. I still love him and I'd love to see him again and possibly reunite with him if he lived closer but I don't know what to do. I'm afraid that he won't end up going to school anywhere near here and we won't have a chance to see eachother again. I feel sort of dumb for still caring about him and I feel even more dumb becuz I feel like I'm waiting for him. I know he doesn't have some1 else and neither do i, but i'm afraid that he will find some1 else. What should I do? Any advice would be appreciated. =)
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reader, Ainley +, writes (17 May 2006):
well long distance relationships are hard but if you two really liked eachother you could give it a go? my brothers girlfriend has gone to uni but theyre still together, its about trust and really wanting it to work, so all you can do is think long and hard do you want it to work? if so tell him, at least you'll know so you can move on.
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