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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is it worth trying again in our relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7066 days ago

28 February 2005 (?) - How do i know if it is worth trying again with my relationship? I am in the process of splitting with my girlfriend of 6 years! In the begining we were amazingly intense and together, over the past year we are really having troubles, since living together we have struggled t... (123 words)

It falls out when we're making love...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6884 days ago

28 February 2005 (?) - My Mark and I have problems making love, as every time he enters me it seems to keep falling out even though he is fully erect. I am not sure if it's because he is so small or is it I'm too big or could it be something entirely different? Regards Rach & Mark ... (56 words)

He doesn't want me the way I am... what do I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

28 February 2005 (?) - I really like this guy but he's not interested in me coz I'm chubby. I'm not fat just not how he wants me to be. I've tried to lose weight but it doesn't work. What can I do ?... (41 words)

She's happy, then distant, and still not interested in sex...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6386 days ago

28 February 2005 (?) - my partner has only had sex with me once in last 3 months. it has been initiated a few times by her but then she stops and says she cannot carry on. Says she has gone off sex and i dont know whether it is off me or off sex?! we have been together 2 years, live together... (118 words)

Not sure I love my boyfriend any more, but don't want to let the married guy go, either!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7084 days ago

28 February 2005 (?) - I have been having an affair with a married man for a few months now, he is 22 years older than me. Problem is I have a boyfriend who is the father of my child and he has recently asked me to get engaged. I don't feel as if I love my boyfriend anymore because of the other man. ... (144 words)

I'm 15, he's 24... and I'm pregnant

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6253 days ago

28 February 2005 (?) - im 15 and my boyfriend is 24 we have been going out for just over a year, and we had sex without any protection. i know it was a stupid thing to do and now ive just found out im pregnant. what do i do?... (45 words)

She hides her angry/sarcastic side until we're alone...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

28 February 2005 (?) - Hi, I am 41 yo male and have been in a relationship for 12 months. My gf is 48 and is divorced. Her ex husband was violent and beat her regularly over the course of an 8 year marriage. Its fair to say I am a quiet person who prefers diplomacy to confrontation. ... (347 words)

I'm either repressed or clingy. Help, please!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7066 days ago

28 February 2005 (?) - I can't let go when someone makes me feel good. My emotions are repressed and when they are let free, My partner leaves. I am so alone. If I let someone in, I cling. I am really afriad of being hurt. Help. ... (45 words)

His daughter tells me everything. Do I have too much information?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7066 days ago

28 February 2005 (?) - I have a boyfriend I'm very much in love with, problem is his 17yr old daughter. She tells me everything...but some things her dad should be aware of... She lives with her mom and her mom don't care what she does and her dad is racist. Should I tell?... (49 words)

The first date seemed wonderful, but now he's gone to ground. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7203 days ago

28 February 2005 (?) - I recently met a guy, we had a wonderful first date. We met up again 2 days later. We wasnt well and so went home early. He told me he was away for the weekend and it would be a mad one. He left, giving me a lovely kiss and planning to meet up 4 days later when he was back. he ... (151 words)

Can I trust him not to cheat again next time we argue?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6183 days ago

28 February 2005 (?) - Hello, I had been seeing my boyfriend for 2 years. He has cheated on me twice. Once when we very first started seeing each other with his ex, and last weekend with some girl he didn't even know and can't remember what she looked like. We had, had an argument and he was out i... (195 words)

Although I love the sex, I never climax...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7197 days ago

28 February 2005 (?) - I have never had an orgasm. My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly a year and he has never been able to get me to orgasm. I love having sex with him and I always enjoy it... what can I do to help increase my chances of having an orgamsm? ... (54 words)

There's three of us now: me, her and God... and things have changed

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6314 days ago

28 February 2005 (?) - I've been in a loving sexual relationship with my girlfriend for about 7 months now and up until a couple of weeks ago everything was perfect. My girlfriend has recently had an "epiphany" where she started to get involved with the church again and has now decided she doesn't ... (186 words)

Are my feelings so strong they could drive him away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7196 days ago

27 February 2005 (?) - Dear Agony Aunt, I have a problem and I need advice. I have been with my boyfriend about 14 mths. I love him so much and want to be with him every day when I am not with him I cry and get nervous. But when I am with him I feel so good and never want to let him go. I am sure ... (258 words)

She dumped me twice, so I broke up the third time...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7205 days ago

27 February 2005 (?) - I've just dumped my girlfriend of 4 months. It's the third time we have been together. The last times she dumped me and broke my heart... twice! I think she is a stunning looking girl and I think about her all the time, but I guess I'm just scared of getting hurt again, a... (102 words)

He was too big... now I'm too embarrassed to try sex again!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7205 days ago

27 February 2005 (?) - The first time I had sex, the guy was too "well-endowed" and couldn't fit inside me. We never saw each other again afterward. Am embarrassed to have sex again, because I am worried I am "too tight" as he put it. I wasn't nervous at the time and was very wet. Am I being stupid?... (55 words)

What about what other people think?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7203 days ago

27 February 2005 (?) - Hey, I really like someone but they are 2 years younger then me and is very young lookin. Should it matter what others think?... (24 words)

We seem great together, but am I "second best"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

27 February 2005 (?) - Hi I have been seeing my girlfriend for just over two months now and it feels like I have known her all my life. I have fallen head over heels in love and I know she loves me too. There is just one small problem. Often my girlfriend talks about her previous relation... (116 words)

I want another child, but he's ambivalent. Will he ever agree?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7084 days ago

27 February 2005 (?) - I am 26 and my partner is 35. We have one child together but 2 from a previous relationship. The thing is I am desperate for another child but he doesnt want any more. I don't know what to do. I really do love him but I don't think I could go on if I didnt have the chance of ... (111 words)

I want to start again with him. How?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7205 days ago

26 February 2005 (?) - I am in college and there is this boy. He went to my comprehensive and we went out for a while in the last year of school for about three months. We broke up but I still love him and he still likes me. What should i say to him?... (50 words)

She broke up with me and says she doesn't want anyone. Can I get her back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7010 days ago

26 February 2005 (?) - My girlfriend just recently finished me on tuesday, and I haven't got over it. Every day everything seems to remind me of her. we are both only only young but I feel so strongly for her but she says that she wants to spend the rest of her life without anyone. What can I do to ... (63 words)

I'm over the age difference, but why is he so possessive?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7205 days ago

26 February 2005 (?) - Hi cupid, Please help me , i am 39 and started seeing a guy who is 26 .Fist of all i had a problem with the age gap ,but now ive accepted it ,and just enjoy what we have .. Afetr a few weeks of seeing each other he then tells me he is in love , with me ..which i was shocked .W... (237 words)

Two virgins... we can't seem to get it right...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7206 days ago

26 February 2005 (?) - Hey I'm nearly twenty and still a virgin. I've been in a relationship with the same guy for almost a year now, and we are in love. Problem is he's also a virgin, and everytime we've tried sex, it hasn't worked. He says this is because I always draw in my breath sharply... (115 words)

I want to chat with him, but afraid to embarrass myself

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7198 days ago

26 February 2005 (?) - There is a boy that I really like and I think he likes me too and I want to ask him out but he's always with his mates. I dont want to embarrass myself in front of them. So could you suggest some ways for me to chat him? ... (50 words)

How do I choose between my longtime boyfriend & the other guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6914 days ago

26 February 2005 (?) - Dear Cupid, I'm 26 and have been with my partner for 8 years but a few years ago i got involved with someone i work with. He is really gorgeous and we kept getting together at nights out and eventually slept togther a few times. This didn't last long as he wanted me to chose ... (285 words)

I want our first sex together to be as good as possible... but how?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7205 days ago

26 February 2005 (?) - Dear Cupid, I'm in my late 20's but still a virgin. After much trying I've now finally got a girlfriend who I've been out with for a month now and we both want to have sex. She's had 2 other partners and so knows what to do and is being very understanding, but I'm so nervo... (91 words)

He dumped me because I questioned his drinking... what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7205 days ago

26 February 2005 (?) - hi i have been with my boyfriend for 2 years. he is 53 i am 47 am. I'm in love with him but have found out he is an alcoholic and a drug user. He hid it so well, but 4 mths ago he got hepetitus and went yellow he stopped drinking but i really think he has started again. ... (199 words)

I lied and told him he was my first - now I want to tell the truth. Should I?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6254 days ago

26 February 2005 (?) - I lied and told my boyfriend that i never had sex when i really did. I didnt tell him the truth when we first met because i didnt want him to be with me just for sex. This was when i was 15 now iam 18. We are still together but he still thinks he was my first. i been with 2 g... (98 words)

Her problem is my problem: she can't stop spending my money.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7208 days ago

25 February 2005 (?) - Dear Cupid, I have recently split from being engaged after finding out she had someone else who, by the way, was 10 years older than her. We remained friends, but her then new boyfriend dumped her after sleeping with her and giving her the difference in ag... (139 words)

Do I say yes to the OK-looking boy, or hope for the gorgeous one?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7208 days ago

25 February 2005 (?) - There is a boy in my class at school and he recently asked me out and he is still waiting on my answer... but I really like, possibly even love, this boy Steven in my class. The boy who asked me out I was talking to and he said that he really likes this girl in my class. S... (143 words)

My boyfriend is too tired and moody for me to tell him how alone I feel...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6521 days ago

25 February 2005 (?) - Dear Agony Aunt, I have a problem with being able to be alone! I have no job but am continuously looking for work but I don't have the best qualifications because I left school before I should have done due to bullying. I'm studying now for computer studies! My dad left me ... (330 words)

Sex 4 times in 4 months. Why can't I do it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7207 days ago

25 February 2005 (?) - I'm so confused at the moment. I have a great, wonderful boyfriend who I love so much. We have been together four months now but I have trouble understanding why in those four months, we have only made love about 4 times!! It's not him though, it's me, I'm the problem.... (119 words)

Is there a way to win over her parents, so we can get married?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7207 days ago

25 February 2005 (?) - I love a girl and she loves me too, but the problem is her parents are not agreeing for our engagement. She had an engagement before but was broken by her. Please assist me how to win her parents' hearts so I can get her. I love her a lot and can't live without her.... (57 words)

The sex is wonderful, but I know I shouldn't be this sore!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7207 days ago

25 February 2005 (?) - Hello, Me and my boyfriend have great sex all the time but afterwards I feel sore and I sometimes bleed. I have the injection every 3 months so we never use condoms but just recently I have started to feel really sore and bleed. We have started to use condoms again and this ... (77 words)

He broke up with me, when all I wanted was a break.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6913 days ago

25 February 2005 (?) - Hey, Iv'e been w/my BF for almost 2 years now. The first 3 months we had a lot of love and affection until a cop caught us making out at a nearby park in our car, Matt - my bf - stopped making out with me since then, and I moved to Florida for a couple months where Matt cam... (342 words)

The guy she's with isn't a nice person, but she can't seem to see that...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7207 days ago

24 February 2005 (?) - I love a girl I was sleeping with a year ago. We have always been good friends & I hear from the grapevine that she still has feelings for me, but she has hooked up with a guy that I know is not a nice person, & is using her. She has had a bit of a stormy upbringing, & is qui... (219 words)

How do I move on from the hurt my old boyfriends caused?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7205 days ago

24 February 2005 (?) - Hi I could really do with some advice, im 37 have 2 children, whose dad i split with 3 years ago. While i was with him i put on some weight after having our second child, and very often he would call me names or refuse to sleep with me cuz he reckoned i was too fat. About 14 ... (396 words)

Do girls care whether I'm circumcised?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

24 February 2005 (?) - Do girls care if a man has been circumcised because i have and i am scared to get it out. help... (21 words)

She says she loves me so she "wants me to go"..?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7204 days ago

24 February 2005 (?) - My family are moving to australia, so me and my fiancee decided to go look at flats etc and found one. But to cut a long story short,we were arguing a lot for nothing and she developed this sudden attitude change and felt the need to go out all the time. It doesn't bother me ... (157 words)

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

24 February 2005 (?) - I fancy this girl but i cant, pluck up the courage to ask her out because everyone (nearly) is after her. From Doug ... (29 words)

I feel like I'm running out of ways to "be sexy". Any tips?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7208 days ago

24 February 2005 (?) - Dear Cupid, I have been going out with my boyfriend for two months and I really love him. My problem is that I have used up all my tricks to be sexy for him, eg wear stockings and please my self in front of him. I am worried he will get bored of me and I love him so much, ... (83 words)

We're due to be married...so why does he avoid me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7066 days ago

24 February 2005 (?) - Hi I am due to be married in 8 weeks time. We have been together for 7 years, but for the last two months he doesnt seem to want any physical contact with me. I work full time and he is unemployed! I know we have had so many arguments about it. He is out all day whilst I... (137 words)

Why doesn't she enjoy sex any more? Is she shy? Is she straight?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7091 days ago

24 February 2005 (?) - i'm in a lesbian and am in a relationship...well rather we have married. Before our wedding, my wife used to enjoy sex, in the sense that she'll let me kiss her all over but was still shy of me going down.but now she doesn't like to kiss and hardly ever lets me caress her, for... (143 words)

I love him, but he comes with a disapproving mum and sister...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6913 days ago

24 February 2005 (?) - I have been with my partner for just over 18 months and we were good friends for 6 years before we got together so I guess you could say we know each other pretty well! Because we were such good friends and didn’t want to ruin the friendship we already had we made a bit of a ... (705 words)

So much pressure & stress in our lives that there's no energy for sex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7067 days ago

24 February 2005 (?) - i am working long hours and my wife as just started back at college. we are both under a lot of pressure, plus we have 2 young chilldren. our sex life is zero and when we are together we argue a lot. we also are in a lot of debt but we have got help with that. i feel things a... (66 words)

She gets angry and seems so dismissive of me... what's up with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7208 days ago

24 February 2005 (?) - I just dont know what to do. I've been with my fiancee for 1 1/2 years and something feels wrong. Recently shes been acting strange around me. She wont let me kiss her anywhere except on her cheek and its like she refuses to be intimate with me. She has these moments where sh... (184 words)

Is he just stuck in the past, or could we have something good together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7209 days ago

24 February 2005 (?) - Hi guys, Some advice please girls and boys!! I have been seeing my boyfriend for 6 months now after meeting him in the pub where I work. He went out with someone for 13 years before this and there was only a 2 month gap between her breaking up with her and getting... (340 words)

Orgies? Other men with her? Other girls with me??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7210 days ago

24 February 2005 (?) - I need to know if it is weird to think about your girlfriend with other guys. And to also know, if orgies are a good idea and what does it mean if i want my girlfriend to have sexual relations with other men ?... (45 words)

My boyfriend wants a break, but will he get together with the other girl?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5887 days ago

24 February 2005 (?) - my boyfriend and i have been together for almost 2 years and were very happy up until new year. I was never a jealous sort of person until i met him and about 8months into our relaionship found evidence of him flirting with other girls from his uni and online. we got past... (489 words)

When I came back, I thought things would be different, but they're just as bad now.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5979 days ago

23 February 2005 (?) - How do I know if I made the right desision? I have been in a 7 yr relationship. We both had a child each when we met and have since had 2 together. I recently left him for almost 3 months, taking my belongings and all that I owned, along with the 3 children that live with us. I... (128 words)