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writes: The first time I had sex, the guy was too "well-endowed" and couldn't fit inside me. We never saw each other again afterward. Am embarrassed to have sex again, because I am worried I am "too tight" as he put it. I wasn't nervous at the time and was very wet. Am I being stupid? Reply to this Question
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Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A reader, kara, writes (28 February 2005): You're not being stupid. It's totally normal for this to happen. Just relax and your next time will be fine.
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reader, Rebecca Batchelor +, writes (28 February 2005):
 Well, you could say that you both experienced every woman and every man's fantasy! Many women (despite what they say about size not mattering) like a man who is well endowed and many men like a woman who is tight! Joking aside, obviously the experience for you (and possibly for him) wasn't exactly a fantasy come true.Most of the time, a woman can accommodate any size penis in the sense that any size fits all, but there can occasionally be exceptions to this rule. Some men are extra large and some women are tighter than others which would then make the process somewhat more difficult. Not necessarily impossible though. You say you were moist enough so arousal wasn't an issue.You aren't being stupid but you are worrying unnnecessarily. I believe that chap was simply frustrated at not being able to fulfil his goal and you need to just put it down to experience. You don't appear to suffer from a condition which causes the vagina muscles to resist a penis as you were relaxed and aroused. Don't worry, as I said, a vagina can accommodate most penis' despite how 'tight' they may be. With your next partner, providing he is understanding and gentle, you will soon discover that you have no problems at all.
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