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writes: I love a girl and she loves me too, but the problem is her parents are not agreeing for our engagement. She had an engagement before but was broken by her. Please assist me how to win her parents' hearts so I can get her. I love her a lot and can't live without her. Reply to this Question
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reader, Rebecca Batchelor +, writes (26 February 2005):
 I think you need to find out why it is that your girlfriend's parents dont want you both to be engaged. Perhaps they are concerned their daughter is going to get hurt. If this is the case you need to build up their trust in you which takes time. The longer you are with your girlfriend, the more they are likely to respect you.Perhaps you are hurrying into this engagement? You don't have to be engaged to be in love and happy together. You certainly don't have to win her parent's hearts to 'get' her as you can never own another person.Perhaps you should ease off on the idea of the engagement for a while, not to make her parents happy necessarily, but to make absolutely certain it is really what you both want. Think it through carefully as should your girlfriend.Good luck.
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