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writes: Dear Cupid,I'm in my late 20's but still a virgin. After much trying I've now finally got a girlfriend who I've been out with for a month now and we both want to have sex. She's had 2 other partners and so knows what to do and is being very understanding, but I'm so nervous it'll all go wrong because I don't know what to do. I really like her and want our sex to be as good as possible. Have you got any advice?
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Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A reader, lisa ferraro, writes (28 February 2005): Nothing will go wrong. If you think about it you do know what you're doing but you're just self conscious. If she understands then that's great; just ask her how her first time was and see what she says. You need to understand that everyone goes through what you're going through for their first time your not alone not everyone is good on their first try but don't try too hard. That can ruin the night and the passion. Just go with the flow, make it all romantic and a surprise for her so she knows you care (and beat the other guys she slept with that think they were great) Enjoy.
A reader, Bitter Single Guy, writes (27 February 2005): The Bitter Single Guy's advice is to stop trying to put so much pressure on The Act and just have some fun. Nothing affects performance like fear of performance and you're just going to work yourself into a tizzy and it'll be awful. Despite all the hype placed on sex by religion, Republicans and the cast of Friends....it's just supposed to feel good and be fun. Lighten up.
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