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writes: I'm so confused at the moment. I have a great, wonderful boyfriend who I love so much. We have been together four months now but I have trouble understanding why in those four months, we have only made love about 4 times!! It's not him though, it's me, I'm the problem. I want to and I think of all these romantic and sexy things I can do for him but when it comes to it I just can't. He has never said anything and neither have I but it's a problem nonetheless. What can I do? Is it my sex drive or is it that in fact I just see him as a friend?! help!
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reader, Rebecca Batchelor +, writes (26 February 2005):
 I think it is very important that you do talk about this together. Have you found out if your boyfriend is happy with the amount of times that you do it? Are you reassured of his love for you?You say you think of all these romantic and sexy things you want to do for him but when it comes to it, you can't. Is this because you loose confidence in your ability to do it? Do you feel embarrassed? Do you actually fancy him? You need to answer these questions before you can go forward and you both need to work on this together. I don't think it is your sex drive because of the thoughts that you have but why would you see your boyfriend as a friend? You say you love him very much. I wander whether you do really find him sexually attractive.You both need to sit down and work out how you both feel.I hope this helps you.
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