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writes: I've just dumped my girlfriend of 4 months. It's the third time we have been together. The last times she dumped me and broke my heart... twice! I think she is a stunning looking girl and I think about her all the time, but I guess I'm just scared of getting hurt again, and I am not sure if I can trust her, so I decided to end it. But I am now starting to regret my decision! How do I know if I've made the right decision?Could it have been third time lucky?
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reader, Devil's Advocate +, writes (28 February 2005):
 Question why she dumped you the first 2 times...is it likely that she would do it again?If you really want to be with her, dumping her isn't really the way to go about working on a lifelong relationship.Do you only not trust her to break up with you again or is there more to not trust about her?
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reader, Rebecca Batchelor +, writes (28 February 2005):
 You ended it because you were basically frightened she was going to let you down again. But how can you be sure that she would have? Did she give you any inkling that she was about to break up with you or a suspicion that she couldn't be trusted?I think what you need to do is talk to her again and find out exactly what she feels. Why did she dump you before on those occasions? Would there really have been a chance of it happening again?Until you talk to her about how she feels, you can't really know whether you made the right decision so try and talk to her today.Good luck.
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