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writes: hey aunts , i need some advice.. okay here's the deal, me and my girlfriend really like each other and have been going out for a year..she's 15, im 14.. well any ways we've made out and stuff but have done anything other than that, and we're not planning on doing so for a while...but lately she's been in the mood to explore..she wants to see what's down south ...and i want to see her too, but im afraid of what she'll think of my lil' buddy when she sees me naked...she's not lookin for sex or anything,please dont start with the you're to young stuff im just nervous...i mean she doesnt have to worry about size down there but i do what should i expect her reaction to be like...i have a 5.5 inch hard penis and i dont know if i'll be to small for her... do you think she'll be turned off by it???thnks
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reader, Cupcakes  +, writes (8 March 2009):
To be honest im the same age as ur gf. And never seen one. Ive seen one errected under my ex's bfs pants but thats its. Chances r she will never have seen one! But dont rush things. Just slow down if she wants. Im sure u will bit it really isnt nice wen some one pressuring u into some thing. Gud luck and have fun!!! Xxx
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reader, girlygirl07 +, writes (8 March 2009):
Don't be afraid of ur penis size!!! That is actually big for ur age!!! I have seen a 21 year old that was only 2 inches so be glad ur not him! And I'm not going to tell u ur too young cause I was 15 when I starting fooling around with my long time boyfriend. If you do decide to have sex use protection always!!!! U are definitly to young for kids.And don't be nervous just relax and have fun!!!! Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2009): My boyfriends is about that big to. If she doesn't like it then she needs to move on. And to answer your question as long as you act nervous about it so will she and things will get strange so just relax also I'm tour age to and I'd go for it!!!(=
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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (8 March 2009):
 I agree with Taste of India. If she loves you, and you enjoy being together, she's not going to reject you over something that is perfectly normal. You continue to grow in body until about the age of 18, and the human brain continues to develop until about the age of 25 or 30. Almost everyone feels awkward as a teenager. Girls don't have to worry about size but rest assured most girls have plenty of things that they feel awkward about that boys don't even blink an eye over. Most of us are insecure about something, and whatever that may be, it usually isn't a big deal to others.
You say "please don't start" lecturing you about the fact that you're too young, but a lot of people don't plan on having sex and wind up having sex anyway. There's nothing wrong with kissing, but you are too young to be experimenting sexually. No one your age is ready for the consequences of sex, and this behavior often leads to sex, whether you plan for it to or not.
When you do have sex, make sure you understand about condoms and contraception. Condoms are the only form of contraception that reduces the risk of STDS... the only way to protect yourself 100% is to avoid having sex. It's your decision when and if to have sex, but you have the right to know the facts.
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reader, smdicjerry +, writes (8 March 2009):
i will tell you a storie about the size of a guy thing if it smaller {like mine is under 5in hard }you learn to do other thing really good to make them get there licking is the best way in good it that and rubing but first off you as her if there is somewere she like you to lick her or rub it alot of forplay is what most girls love !! it not putting fingering that hole it take alot more to get off than a guys does im older guys that dont know how many girls i have in my life but only 1 girl bitch about my size ans she was haveing sex with some other guy too he has a 11in dic so if i had a 8in dic she stil bitch about my size .......... there is a old saying about this it not the tool it if you know how to use it !!i have alot more to say about this but not right now
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2009): Honestly, that's not small. I don't think any of the men I've been were bigger. Maybe 6.5 the biggest, but my current boyfriend is about 4, which doesn't bother me at all. The smallest I've seen was less than two inches!
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reader, jessica04 +, writes (8 March 2009):
 If she is turned off by it then she is shallow and you deserve better.
Don't be afraid. If you're confidant then she will more likely not even notice.
Really, length has very little to do with a woman's pleasure during sex. Girth matters more than length for most women. Also, every woman is different. Some women cannot take more than a 6 in. penis before it hits their cervix because her vagina is rather shallow. Some women can handle 9 inches. So I wouldn't worry about your size until you get down to having sex, and then you can feel for yourself what she is like :-)
Just be safe, use condoms when you do have sex.
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (8 March 2009):
 I don't think that she'll be turned off, not in a billion years. You guys really like each other and love being together, and you're certainly measuring up!! Don't stress about it. I think she'll adore your "lil' buddy". Keep in mind, it may be the first she's ever encountered, so if she doesn't gasp in delight, that's why. It's new territory for her!!
Good luck, my darling and keep things SAFE or you'll be sorry!
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