He makes me me out to be this bad girlfriend.
Q. I do not feel my boyfriend is proud of me. He is lovely to me when it is just us, or in front of MY friends. He DOES hold my hand and cuddle me in public. But it's around HIS friends that i feel this. I know facebook isn't that important, but he ...
A. 10 November 2010: The fact that after two years he refuses to put you on FB and you haven't been introduced to all his friends is a big red flag to me. It makes me wonder if he isn't a player or has another girlfriend somewhere? I hate to put ideas in your head ... (read in full...)
Holidays bring the family together, right?
Q. Well.... I hope that this mess is communicated clearly enough..... In the past four years, I've lost a Brother to cancer and my Dad to multiple strokes. I've also gotten a hip replacement, bought and sold three homes and moved countries once; an...
A. 10 November 2010: At 25, my family is totally nutso too. I call my dad, and get a facebook message as a response. My stepmom got angry because we bought gifts two years ago and last Thanksgiving my sister and her husband brought THEIR girlfriend who was 20 years ... (read in full...)
I can't get past him having unprotected sex with his ex.
Q. I would like to thank you in advance for reading this and thinking of any type of advice for me. Here goes ... our history: derek and i dated in high school for 2 years, we were each other's first love and first time. i was absolutely infat...
A. 10 November 2010: I wasn't cheated on, but someone I truly care about, went back to his ex just two weeks after I was with. I thought I would never be able to be with him again, however, as time has moved on, I realize how much I love HIM. People do stupid things ... (read in full...)
Erection problem... Is it all in my head?
Q. Straight to the point I can't keep it up during sex with my girlfriend. I think it started when I found out her ex was massive and it put sooo much pressure on me I nearly ended it. I then fell in love with her she's smart and sexy and loves me more ...
A. 10 November 2010: Size doesn't matter! I've seen it all, done it all, and I've had good sex with all types/sizes. Don't worry about it because it will cause problems in bed, as you know. And honestly, massive penises can hurt. Most women I've known who have slept ... (read in full...)
I'm average so why talk about it?
Q. I have an average size penis ok, I used to be realy confident in myself UNTIL my girlfriend kind of let me know how large her ex was. I was like oh no and look at me. Iv turned so insecure now. Only yesterday her friend slept with a lad and I asked ...
A. 10 November 2010: Well, I got really offended when one of my friends asked me how big someone I was sleeping with was. Personally it was none of her business but a lot of girls do talk.
However, I'm here to say, don't worry. Size doesn't matter. I've slept wi... (read in full...)
Is my Fiancée lying when he tells me 'he doesn't need Porn because he's got me??
Q. Do you think my Fiance is lieing to me when he tells me 'he dont need Porn because he's got me??...
A. 9 November 2010: I don't think so. I have encountered one guy in my life who wasn't into porn. I find it weird but he insists it's easier for him to masturbate when he's thinking about someone he likes who likes him back. That's coming from a 28 year old man.... (read in full...)
How do I move on when I have to see him daily at work? It hurts!
Q. I've been dating him for four months, problem is his ex is always around, they do things together that sometimes i feel left out. He told me not to worry abt it coz she s just a friend, i get so jealous, so angry and i cry so hard..its like im not ...
A. 9 November 2010: I am stuck loving a man that I work with who sends mixed signals. It is horribly difficult. Some weeks I am good for several weeks, others I can barely control my tears. What you have to remember though, is that men don't handle emotion very ... (read in full...)
Am I killing the spark?
Q. Ok so Im going out w/ this guy "Josh". Josh seems cool and nice but im not rlly attractied to him...I rlly wanted a bf so i kinda jumped on the chance when he asked me out but the thing is Im just not rlly feeling it. Like the spark! Or even like a ...
A. 9 November 2010: You are really young, and love is fickle. Dating someone just because you want a boyfriend is no reason to date anyone at all. That enters into the territory of really possibly hurting someone. Rejection can really live with a person for a long ... (read in full...)
He says he loves me but is still engaged
Q. Hey guys I need advice so desperately!I met this guy in may!he is from germany I am from uk.he had lived in america for 5 years...we started off really casual,but then things got more serious!I found out he had a girlfriend because I read his ...
A. 8 November 2010: I don't think I'd trust him. What he's done to her, he'll do to you. I've seen this one way too many times.... (read in full...)
He makes fun of me, hurts me and then says he loves me?
Q. I stopped at my boyfriends this weekend and he got drunk one night, I was lying on the sofa and he turned to me and said "wheres this come from?" and pointed at my stomach he then said "you've got a right little stomach on you" meaning he thinks ive ...
A. 8 November 2010: His drinking is out of control, and his behavior will only get worse. Please use caution around this man.... (read in full...)
I want to show that I'm interested, but not a creepy stalker
Q. Hi guys. Just need some advice about something that is slightly confused me. Last weekend I met this really sexy lady at a club where I work as a bouncer. The story was that This woman was outside the club with her friend (woman.) looking to grab ...
A. 8 November 2010: Don't text her anymore. Let her get back to you if she wants. One or two texts with no reply is good enough. It will start looking demanding and creepy after that.... (read in full...)
Is his twin stopping him from pursuing me?
Q. I've heard many times over that if a man likes a woman, nothing will stop him. However, I am wondering if in the case of twins this might be different? Things have been rocky with this guy I speak of on and off, but he gives me the feeling that...
A. 8 November 2010: Well, we have had some history, but any time we had problems, it was because his twin started them. He knows how I feel, and I told him again today via text, but he sends mixed signals all the time and only when his twin isn't around.... (read in full...)
I HATE my body... Help!
Q. I hate my body, it's horrible and one sight of myself can make me deppressed. I have a boyfriend and i'm scared to sleep with him because i don't want him to see my body. I weigh 10 stone and my stomach is much bigger where as my legs are thin. I ...
A. 8 November 2010: My word, girl, at only 10 stone (140 pounds to all you Americans like me) how short are you to call yourself fat and large? I am 209 pounds (which is roughly 14 stone) and love my body!
At your age, I was very scared about my shape and thought ... (read in full...)
Is he giving me a hidden message/hint or is what he's saying legitimate?
Q. Been seeing a married man for the past 10 mths. He has broken up with me three times (he rekindles us each time after a few weeks). He’s stuck on the theory that it’s unfair and selfish of him to expect me to wait around for him when he’s home with ...
A. 8 November 2010: He already told you he isn't going to leave his wife, which means he doesn't want to be with you.
He's just having sex with you. That is the extent of your affair.
I would let him be and my suggestion is to find a casual relationship wit... (read in full...)
I swallowed his cum but it burned my throat. Is this normal?
Q. Okay, the other day my boyfriend and I were having sex and he came inside of me, (Didn't use a condom-I'm on the shot.) and it burned really bad after. Then, I was giving my boyfriend a blowjob and I swallowed and it burned my throat (its the first ...
A. 8 November 2010: Go to the doctor. That doesn't sound right.... (read in full...)
Brother/sister sexual activivty???
Q. I was on this website earlier looking at the question do girls masturbate as much as boys/ was just curious but I stumbled on a story where a boy masturbated with his sister so I googled that and found a bunch of stories where brothers and sisters ...
A. 8 November 2010: Hmm...I think it's probably a weird fetish you stumbled upon and I am guessing a lot of it is fake stores for those who have fetishes.
The internet, when it comes to sex, is really not a reliable source as it is full of strange fetish things. ... (read in full...)
Would anyone else see this as nosey?
Q. so i had to go with my parents to visit neighbors because they invited us..i am in my mid twenties and pretty much come to the conclusion i don't like them because most of them in the family are very stuck up and judgemental. We went to be nice more ...
A. 8 November 2010: Asking what someone does for a living, and what they did before that, is a very typical question and I am surprised that you have not heard that before.
Even asking where it is located is pretty normal. I've heard that before.
I think you w... (read in full...)
Is it strange that me and my fiance don't shower together?
Q. My Cousin stayed the weekend with me and my Fiance recently and we had got done making Dinner and he went to take a Shower and my Cousin says 'your not gonna take a shower with him' and i say No 'Why and she says have you ever showered together, i ...
A. 8 November 2010: Most don't shower together on a regular basis. It's like a for fun thing. And if I did, I would NEVER do it while I had company. Sounds like your cousin is a bit of an exhibitionist or was just nosy and wanted to know your business.
It is fun, ... (read in full...)
Had sex with 2 different guys... who could be the father or could I be pregnant?
Q. Had sex with 2 different guys... who could be the father or could I be pregnant. I was on the depo shot for six months and once i was off i had heavy bleeding for a month none stop. Finally i my period regularize and my period stopped 5 days l...
A. 8 November 2010: Just saw the point of advice where someone says not to let him release in you if he doesn't want to wear a condom, you can still get pregnant from that men have pre-cum which is released and can contain sperm.
I just thought I'd let you know tha... (read in full...)
My 10 year old doesn't want to meet her long lost father!
Q. I had my daughter when I was 15 years old. I'm now 25 and she is a beautiful ten year old who is now in the sixth grade (she skipped a grade because she's a smart cookie!). Her father, unfortunately, decided not to be part of her life (or mine, f...
A. 7 November 2010: Well, it sounds like you may have villanized him to her eyes. While I don't agree with him walking out on you as it takes two people to make a baby, just by you saying he walked away to pursue his selfish goals gives me the impression you have made ... (read in full...)
Had sex with 2 different guys... who could be the father or could I be pregnant?
Q. Had sex with 2 different guys... who could be the father or could I be pregnant. I was on the depo shot for six months and once i was off i had heavy bleeding for a month none stop. Finally i my period regularize and my period stopped 5 days l...
A. 7 November 2010: If you're a week late, take a pregnancy test. If you are pregnant, either one of them could be the father since the dates are so close.
Why are you off the shot and having unprotected sex? It only takes one time to get pregnant. I hope for your... (read in full...)
Too shy to talk to him... Help!
Q. Ok so I like this guy... He's in band. I have no idea where to even start with him. Normally I go for the jocks and stuff and I know how to get pretty much any guy from that click. Now I'm not one of those girls that care about that stuff but this ...
A. 7 November 2010: Treat him how you would the others. Ask for his number, and don't be shy about it. Say you'd like to hang out. The absolute worst that can happen is him telling you no but then at least you know then not to worry about it further.
And if he sa... (read in full...)
How do I become more than your "nice guy" ?
Q. I will be 25 within the next couple months and have never had a girlfriend. I've kissed two girls and by some miracle lost my virginity a few years back, so I've had sex a total of one time in my life. I don't really go around broadcasting this ...
A. 5 November 2010: As a 25 year old, single American girl, I suppose the only thing I can suggest is getting out there. I've been put in the friends zone with several of my guy friends, even one I ended up sleeping with for five months I was still only a friend, ... (read in full...)
I rejected him, now I regret it! What can I do?
Q. Recently this boy I know added me on msn and starting speaking to me loads, like everytime I signed on he was there, speaking. Then I went on holiday and he was always messaging me and when I came back same thing again. I told my family and they ...
A. 28 October 2010: Talk to him about it, be honest, tell him you were nervous and didn't know what to say so you just said no, but you'd like to say yes now. You'd be surprised. He is ignoring you because he is hurt and feeling rejected.... (read in full...)
He says I try to control him!
Q. I try to control him, I have been hearing this a lot. We are broken up now but I want to work on this for myself even if WE still happen to get together. How do I manage that. I know it may do with trust but I dont know how to solve it. Also he used ...
A. 28 October 2010: Could you give some examples? This is really hard to judge when we don't know your behavior. Do you get upset when he hangs out with just his friends? Do you call him or text every second of every day? Do you tell him that what he's wearing ... (read in full...)
Is he just being sweet with me to get a leg over?
Q. Hello everyone, Ive met this really nice guy over plenty of fish we speak on the phone everyday have done for around maybe 2 months or coming up 2 it but weve never met but seem to get on he goes on about moving in and stuff and already ...
A. 28 October 2010: I can't believe that you want to talk to him when you've never met him and he's saying stuff like that. As someone who has been on POF and other dating websites, anytime a guy ever talked like that it totally freaked me out. I would say he is ... (read in full...)
5 days ago I said something to my boyfriend that I regret and he hasn't contacted me since
Q. A week last sunday I said something to my boyfriend which I really regret and I didnt mean. Everyone gets wound up sometimes and for me I blew and blurted it out. Well since then hes not spoken to me, ive text a few times, called and last night ...
A. 28 October 2010: Shania, I think you read her wrong, he got upset when she had to check to see if he'd still come around even if they couldn't have sex and asked her why she'd say such a thing.
You really hurt him, from the sound of it. I would be offended... (read in full...)
Could drinking interfere with the results of a pregnancy test?
Q. i think im pregnant because my period is over a week late. im 15 years old and very worried as the potential father is 21. i have had nearly every other sign so i took a pregnancy test today and it was negative but i was drinking last night and ...
A. 28 October 2010: My question to you is why are you drinking when you think you may be pregnant?
I would go to a doctor and get a blood test if you are really afraid. That will be more accurate.... (read in full...)
He wants to "catch" me with another woman, but I don't want any part of it! will I lose him?
Q. I have a bit of a problem at the moment. Me and my partner have been together for thirteen years or so now and we have a really good relationship. I mean sex is not always regular due to having three children and both or us working, but he has a ...
A. 24 October 2010: If you don't want to do it. Don't. My sister brought in another woman for her husbands fantasy to please him and it ended up causing problems in their marriage which, research shows, is more often than not the case.
I can guarantee you that if ... (read in full...)
I want to ask him if we are a couple or FWB
Q. Ive been seeing my big brothers friend. At first my brother didnt know, but now its out in the open everyone knows. But now Im confused. We spend alot of time together. I see him almost everyday, he calls everyday, we text throughout the day. And I ...
A. 24 October 2010: Ok, here's the thing. For five months I was sort of seeing a friend of mine. We slept together, but we also hung out together, he paid for dinner and stuff a lot of the time, I saw him nearly every day, texted a lot, he called me on the phone, ... (read in full...)
He broke up, but I don't want to give him up!
Q. My bf and i had been going out for over 10 months. Everything was going ok untill the second day after he started his couse. The started fine. I sent him a text saying going college will make us hardly see eachother. I got a reply saing we need time ...
A. 9 October 2010: You are SO young. You'll fall in love with someone else. Stop and think about how he's treated you, you say it's happened before, do you want it to happen again? Do you DESERVE for it to happen again??? NO! NO! and NO!
Don't put up with his... (read in full...)
Why can't I keep friends?
Q. Going off what people tell me, I am a nice person. I am a genuine, trustworthy and kind. I'm not bitchy and I don't talk about people behind their backs I to am fun to be around. I seem to make people laugh even though I am not funny, I'm just ver...
A. 9 October 2010: There is nothing wrong with you, so please don't change how you treat people! The problem here, is that because you are so nice, there are people that are users that find and latch onto you.
My suggestion in finding real friends, and was somethin... (read in full...)
He doesn't want a girlfriend because "things are too crazy"
Q. I'm just wondering.i had a boyfriend,he always saying that he's so lucky for having me.that he want to share his life with me.but why?he broke up wth me,why is it?i thought he loves me,and it's breaking my heart.those promises.why?he said he decided ...
A. 9 October 2010: How long did you guys date? If it was brief (and I mean under a year) or after he just got out of a relationship, my guess is that it was a rebound and he said those things to be nice, but then changed his mind and decided not to further ... (read in full...)
He slept with a girl while we were broken up, is that cheating?
Q. I'm so confused with the situation I am in now with my boyfriend. I broke up with him in May because I felt that he was way too overprotective with me..that it always lead to arguments. He kept asking to come back and I always said to give it some ...
A. 9 October 2010: Some of these people who have responded sound like they've been hurt by idiots so here is my brief and honest opinion.
It is NOT cheating. You broke up with him, gave him permission more or less to do whatever he wanted. These girls, were mos... (read in full...)
Why haven't I heard back from him? I made it clear it was just casual.
Q. A few months ago I slept with a guy in another state that I had just met. He is a family friend of the friend I was visiting the state with. He had literally JUST broken up with his girlfriend, so I wrote it off when I saw him two weeks later and ...
A. 9 October 2010: So, just wanted to say, after a few weeks, he contacted me last night. He honestly must just have been busy. Thanks for all your answers and advice, I truly appreciate it.... (read in full...)
I'm messing around with a 29 year old and he doesn't know that I"m only 17
Q. basically a few months back i met this guy we kissed, then after i found out he was 29 years old and i was only 16 years old. i stopped texting him because i knew it was wrong. but now.... I need your help again!! I was out downtown with ...
A. 28 September 2010: Cerberus is right. He's totally playing you. All of that information/advice is the most sound I've heard yet and it's coming from a man!... (read in full...)
I'm struggling to accept this relationship because of her passionate kiss with another man before she met me!
Q. Hi All, My mind is in total confusion. So please Can any one help regarding this. One girl is in love with me. Even me also just started loving her. Actually she was loving a another guy before in college days. They were friends from 8 months an...
A. 28 September 2010: Many people have relationships before others. That is a fact. You area really being too hung up on this past relationship.... (read in full...)
I cheated on him with his brother, then he found a new girlfriend but came back to me.....and now he it seems he is cheating on me with his ex! Where does this leave me?
Q. Dearcupid,i had a lover of one year and i cheated on him with his brother and he dump me,after a year i found that he has a girlfriend of nine moths,they had a misundrstood and she dumped him,and i startd dating him again.they have been separated ...
A. 28 September 2010: I'd say it's done. He probably went back to you because you were there. You broke his heart, you slept with his brother. That's the worst thing a woman can do. The fact that you have heard he is back with her is all indication that he still ... (read in full...)
Why would she want to talk to a guy who stood her up twice?
Q. Here's the story: 19yr girl meets 41yr old man as a virgin. She goes on a date with him to try and forget 33yr old guy who enchants and frustrates her. 41yr old and her kiss for an hr straight. But then, he asks for a 2nd date and stands her up. So, ...
A. 28 September 2010: She should ignore him, it's been too long. She apparently seems angry and hurt still by the situation, so I am wondering just how much she actually is enjoying her time with the 33 year old.
If you can't be calm after a year, then what is going... (read in full...)
I thought he was my dearest friend and lover..and he threw away 22 years
Q. I don't even know where to start and yet feel better just by starting. This man is or rather I thought that we were the best of friends and that we would see each other through any and everything. We have been friends over 22years or at least that's ...
A. 28 September 2010: Now, is he still living with you or has he moved out, and is he just wanting sex from you, or does he still want to be your boyfriend for lack of a better term?
I think, because things are so difficult, it is hard to get married, especial... (read in full...)
Why haven't I heard back from him? I made it clear it was just casual.
Q. A few months ago I slept with a guy in another state that I had just met. He is a family friend of the friend I was visiting the state with. He had literally JUST broken up with his girlfriend, so I wrote it off when I saw him two weeks later and ...
A. 27 September 2010: Wow, I didn't realize how complicated the situation was. Everyone is asking questions! My point is, he responded to my invite, does it sound like a nice way to turn me down even though I do know as a fact he is busy at work, or is he truly ... (read in full...)
I'm messing around with a 29 year old and he doesn't know that I"m only 17
Q. basically a few months back i met this guy we kissed, then after i found out he was 29 years old and i was only 16 years old. i stopped texting him because i knew it was wrong. but now.... I need your help again!! I was out downtown with ...
A. 26 September 2010: You NEED to be honest with this guy! Even though you consented he could be arrested and put in jail and on the sex offenders list for this if anyone found out and wanted to press charges for you, even if you didn't want them to.
This is very ser... (read in full...)
Why haven't I heard back from him? I made it clear it was just casual.
Q. A few months ago I slept with a guy in another state that I had just met. He is a family friend of the friend I was visiting the state with. He had literally JUST broken up with his girlfriend, so I wrote it off when I saw him two weeks later and ...
A. 26 September 2010: Ok, so there seems to be confusion about how clear I was, and what I wanted, so here is what I first sent him: "I have this idea, and it's a little crazy but I think it could be fun. I had a good time with you back in July on my first visit to O... (read in full...)
Why haven't I heard back from him? I made it clear it was just casual.
Q. A few months ago I slept with a guy in another state that I had just met. He is a family friend of the friend I was visiting the state with. He had literally JUST broken up with his girlfriend, so I wrote it off when I saw him two weeks later and ...
A. 26 September 2010: @fishdish When I put the offer out there, I told him I knew it was a far drive for just some tail but that I thought it would be fun to go to some bars or something interesting, and then also have lots of good sex. I was very blunt. Since we ... (read in full...)
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