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male
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hi guys. Just need some advice about something that is slightly confused me.Last weekend I met this really sexy lady at a club where I work as a bouncer. The story was that This woman was outside the club with her friend (woman.) looking to grab a taxi home, but was approached by these two other guys who tried to chat them up. As they were talking the sexy one caught me looking at her so she came over to me in an attempt to get away from the other guys. She told me she was on a night out as it was her birthday and wasn't interested in the guys who was trying to chat her and her friend up. But just wanted to get a taxi home.This woman was hot. Tall, blond and curves in all the right places. I really fancied her. So I invited her and her friend into the club for a drink. We started talking and I found out she was single and that she fancied the bodybuilding type of guy but who was down to earth and not have a massive ego. My eyes lit up as I'm a bodybuilder and I do enjoy a good laugh and I'm not in love with myself. So being a bit flirty/cheeky I asked her if she fancied me, which she replied she did. Anyhow we talked for the rest of the night and shared a kiss and we exchanged phone numbers. She asked me to keep in touch which I promised I would.Anyway the confusing bit for me not is that I've texted her a few times asking if she is ok,how is your day doing etc. Just general stuff. But she hasn't yet repied to any of my texts!!!. I don't want to keep texting her if she isn't going to bother replying to any of them cause I don't want to freak her out.What should I do?. Should I stop texing her and wait until she texts me or should I just delete her number and forget about her. I want to show her I'm interested but don't want to come across as a needy or stalker type of person. What should I do???????.
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (9 November 2010):
 If she was drunk that night, seeing as it was her birthday that could be a factor, then it's possible she doesn't recall who you are..or even the number that's texting her. (This has happened to me) Send her one more text explaining who you are, then give her about 3 days. No response, then she was just out to get a free drink for herself and her friend.
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reader, mizz.butterflies +, writes (8 November 2010):
 thats why its better to CALL or leave VOICE MAIL.
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female
reader, Honeypie +, writes (8 November 2010):
 Maybe send her 1 more text telling her you found her very beautiful, but that you have no intentions of being a stalker, so if she is interested contact you. Maybe go out for a cup of coffee/lunch..
Leave the ball in her court in a way that there can be no mistake about it.
If she doesn't... her loss.
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reader, RennieGeek +, writes (8 November 2010):
Don't text her anymore. Let her get back to you if she wants. One or two texts with no reply is good enough. It will start looking demanding and creepy after that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2010): Was this woman drunk that night? It could have just been a heat of the moment thing on her part. A lot of people flirt with the opposite sex when on a night out, exchange numbers etc... She might have fancied you then again she might just have been having a good time that night and was just being friendly. If she's not replying to your texts then maybe she wasn't as interested as it appeared.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2010): Stop texting her. I think she's had second thoughts about you.
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