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“Because awkwardness, at its core, is all about believing that everyone else knows exactly how to navigate a social situation, and you're the only one who hasn't figured it out yet.” – Daniel O’Brien

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"Be Yourself" is Pointless Advice

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27 August 2011: Let's leave aside for now the fact that philosophers have pondered for millennia what the "self" actually is. Not going to get into that, most of those men were a lot brighter than I am (okay, all of them were, but that's not the point). Inst...

How to be Attractive, a Beginner's Guide for Men

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2 August 2011: This is mostly a repost of some advice I posted a while back; Cerberus seemed to like it, and Tisha suggested posting it as an article. Things have been expanded on or reworded a bit. Note that the title is not "How to get a girl," or "How t...

Marriage - why should any man bother?

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23 July 2010: Women… why should any guy propose marriage? Full disclosure: I have never been married, but several family members and friends have been hurt by divorce, and I know of only a handful of happy marriages over one year old. My feelings for the...

Please put my mind at rest!

Q.   Okay, so my girlfriend and i were messing around. we don't believe in having sex, however the other day she gave me a handjob... and i got some on my fingers... about ten minutes later i touched her vagina.. Am i safe? Is she pregnant?...

A.   1 June 2010: Your odds are pretty good that she's not preggers. Still might want to take a morning-after pill, though. Be warned that the pill is going to screw with her hormones, so expect crankiness and odd behavior. Let that be a lesson to be more car... (read in full...)

What is he thinking in his mind??? I'm so confused!

Q.   i was seeing a guy for 5 months, he text me every day from his holiday he and every day morning and night whilst he was away he decided to tell me he had fallen in love with me and when i asked why he said he felt something was missing and that was ...

A.   1 June 2010: Assume, for the sake of this post, that he is single. If not, you are the mistress, and must deal with that seperately. Love is very difficult for guys to express. It is vulnerability. The hardest part is not saying it, but dealing with the... (read in full...)

How can I make my relationship with my boyfriend better?

Q.   My boyfriend and i have been dating for about a year, and we still love each other every much. i am sure of that. it's just we're both busy, and stuff with our work. and i want a little more "fun" in our realtionship, like we used to have. there ...

A.   1 June 2010: Get his imagination going, and get him to take charge. Tell you you'll have a "special surprise" for him, but you want to save it for a special night. He'll plan something. Meanwhile, you need to buy some lingerie and what an instruct... (read in full...)

How can I win over his mother?

Q.   Hi, I am 26 and my boyfriend is 31. He's Muslim and I'm Christian. I am learning Arabic and plan to convert to Islam. We have been together for over a year. We have been seriously discussing marriage recently. He plans to introduce me to ...

A.   1 June 2010: Stick to your principals. Is your religion really one of them? Are you really a Christian, or are you just "spiritual, with a Christian-ish style"? If the latter, then don't bother converting, because you won't care then, either. If the form... (read in full...)

Is it true blowjobs taste awful?

Q.   My gf wont give me one because she says they taste awful, but could it just be because of the guy she was with before? She said he had hygiene issues so I was wondering if that could be it. Is there anything that could make it less disgusting if ...

A.   1 June 2010: Semen tastes better if you avoid caffeine, alcohol, and tobacco for a few days beforehand. Also make sure to wash *and* trim your pubes. Blowjobs are an important part of a healthy sex life (for that matter, so is going down on her). People l... (read in full...)

Retroactive Jealousy: how do I overcome it?

Q.   Right, so I am not even really sure how to start this. Basically, I suffer from what many other men (and few women) seem to suffer from as well. Retroactive Jealousy, or "her past"... Its horrible, its utterly disturbing and self destructive. I have ...

A.   1 June 2010: Retroactive jealousy is an entireley justified feeling born of your evolutionary past. Basically, it's your caveman brain's way of avoiding paternity uncertainty - that is, your way of avoiding women who might cuckold you, preventing your genes ... (read in full...)

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