Is my boyfriend lying to me? Can you use Facebook chat on your phone?
Q. Can you use the chatting part of facebook on your phone? My boyfriend has his wall hidden from me, i guess. i cant see it, just his photos. i asked him about it and he said it has something to do with the facebook app he has on his iphone. However,...
A. 18 April 2011: I use facebook chat on my phone :)... (read in full...)
I want to make the best of the situation with his kids
Q. So...my boyfriend has kids. Ta dah. I was made totally aware of this when we got together, and I wouldn't imagine wishing to alter that fact because I believe that what we have makes us what we are. (i.e. experiences rather than material...
A. 22 March 2011: Thanks, I suppose as long as I do everything I can to be loving, open and approachable.. not really much else I can do o_O
I do already work with kids of their age at youth groups and playschool but I think that's made me more worried... I only s... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's sister refers to me as his "mate" not girlfriend
Q. I've been with my boyfriend now for over 5 months (albeit in a round about way) and considering the various obstacles we've faced, it's going really well. I had previously met his sister and their mother, both of whom I get on really well with...
A. 12 March 2011: Thanks, I don't know.. I've since met more family who've been introduced to me the gf.. and the grandfather has even said my bf and I must go visit, have a drink and he's a spare room we can stay in (so clearly thinks of us as a couple)
I know it'... (read in full...)
After 4 years I finally met my LD girlfriend. Is it normal to feel weird?
Q. I've finally met my long distance girlfriend after 4 years of talking online and on the phone. We met online 4 years ago and despite the distance we have developed a passionate strong loving relationship and even planned on getting married. ...
A. 12 March 2011: How long did you meet for? It's bound to feel weird, on one hand you're meeting someone you know so well but have had no physical interaction with... but know all sorts of quirks about. On the other, it's almost like knowing all sorts of quirks ... (read in full...)
Men: would you be turned on or freaked out or something else by this?
Q. Hello lovely men of DearCupid :D How are we today? So, picture this... You wake up in the morning with a hard on only to find your girlfriend/mrs was already 'attending' to it... Reaction please? Would you be turned on? Freaked out? ...
A. 12 March 2011: Oh Wow... Totally! If I (or my other half I'd assume) woke to find full on intercourse going on while sleeping freaked out would not even begin to cover it!
Also, for double standards, I agree so much.. I'm all for equality :D
I'd totally b... (read in full...)
Men: would you be turned on or freaked out or something else by this?
Q. Hello lovely men of DearCupid :D How are we today? So, picture this... You wake up in the morning with a hard on only to find your girlfriend/mrs was already 'attending' to it... Reaction please? Would you be turned on? Freaked out? ...
A. 12 March 2011: I was getting at touching/foreplay leading to waking leading to sex :)
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Unhappy tired mom told "give me more sex and I'll be nicer"!
Q. iv been with my other half for 7 years now we have a 2 year old but i feel unhappy my partner works and i stay home with our kid i do all house work, cook and take our child out every day but if i ask my partner to sleep in same room as out kid so i ...
A. 11 March 2011: Why does he have to sleep in the same room as your child? So you don't have to share with him? Or because you have someone share with your child?...
Is him sharing your bed really so disturbing to your sleep?
Also, if one of you does share with y... (read in full...)
Men: would you be turned on or freaked out or something else by this?
Q. Hello lovely men of DearCupid :D How are we today? So, picture this... You wake up in the morning with a hard on only to find your girlfriend/mrs was already 'attending' to it... Reaction please? Would you be turned on? Freaked out? ...
A. 11 March 2011: Just to clarify...
I didn't mean... the gf/whatever having some secret sextime without you knowing..
I was more getting at... she's doing her thing, you wake up mid-'thing' and subesquently... you are then awake as she/you finishes
I a... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is going to prom with someone else!
Q. Hey guys, I am sort of in a dilemma. I am in highschool and I have a girlfriend of about 6 months. We both really like each other, talk everyday, and just generally feel really relaxed and comfortable around each other. But now, as the time for prom ...
A. 4 March 2011: Why don't you think it's time to tell the parents?
You're 23ish... have been dating 6months... and you're acting like either little kiddies or people having an affair.
Hmm... (read in full...)
Male input please!
Q. Having read so many posts from blokes complaining about their girlfriends, wives etc never initiating sexual acts (be it oral, full intercourse or whatever) I realized I'm one of these women. I read one post that struck a chord - my boyfriend ini...
A. 27 February 2011: "my boyfriend initiating sex makes me feel desirable and wanted so why shouldn't that work both ways" Just to be clear -- do you desire and want your boyfriend?"
Yes of course! I've not wanted and desired someone as much as I do him. What I was ge... (read in full...)
Male input please!
Q. Having read so many posts from blokes complaining about their girlfriends, wives etc never initiating sexual acts (be it oral, full intercourse or whatever) I realized I'm one of these women. I read one post that struck a chord - my boyfriend ini...
A. 27 February 2011: Well that's what I realised - I don't think many women think of it like that.
I guess you assume that to initiate means to lead/dominate... I don't want to come on too strong etc, but I do want to show just how much I want him :)
Thanks for yo... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is going to prom with someone else!
Q. Hey guys, I am sort of in a dilemma. I am in highschool and I have a girlfriend of about 6 months. We both really like each other, talk everyday, and just generally feel really relaxed and comfortable around each other. But now, as the time for prom ...
A. 27 February 2011: You're 22-25 and have prom? Why don't they know about your relationship? I guess the real first step would be to formally ask your girlfriend to prom then go from there :) Assuming she accepts, maybe talk to her parents together abou... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's beautiful ex girlfriend who happens to resemble Mila Kunis!
Q. I have been with this guy for a bit over six months. I never cared about his past at first. He told me he was with a girl for around five years and had a nasty break up. Lately I keep thinking about their relationship. I have never even seen her...
A. 27 February 2011: She's his ex for a reason, same as you're his girlfriend for a reason. He doesn't want to be with her, he does want to be with you. No two people are ever going to be equally matched. One will have prettier eyes, the other will have the be... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's sister refers to me as his "mate" not girlfriend
Q. I've been with my boyfriend now for over 5 months (albeit in a round about way) and considering the various obstacles we've faced, it's going really well. I had previously met his sister and their mother, both of whom I get on really well with...
A. 26 February 2011: I know you're right and really no opinion matters but mine and his but it still stings. I guess what really jabbed it in was while he's been away I was sexually assaulted which I've only told her. Her concern was about the guy cheating on his ... (read in full...)
I've been so lonely since my boyfriend has been away I had phone sex with another guy!
Q. What have I done? My boyfriend has now been away since October and I miss him so much, and there's still 2 months left to go. I can't imagine being with anyone else but him. But I've done something horrific... I was on the phone to a very close ...
A. 1 February 2011: Serenity, I wish I could call him and talk to him every minute of the day. But he's in prison, so I can only talk to him when he has credit to call me. We kept our relationship secret to avoid problems so on our calls we act like friends so I really ... (read in full...)
My cruel and spiteful mother has left me with no self esteem...
Q. Having just turned 21, I've realised that there isn't a single year of my life so far that I can remember where I haven't hated my mother. From about the age of 10, she has repeatedly spewed hate and cruelty at me. Her favourite being to refer t...
A. 3 January 2011: Thank you for the replies. I've just had my GP refer me for councelling as I feel nothing will change in me until I see someone. I'm a little scared about sharing all this face to face with someone but I've got to try and fix it before its too ... (read in full...)
I took a girl's lost blackberry and everyone has found out and started abusing me on facebook!
Q. A few days after christmas my cousin had a house party and at this party i found a phone on the floor. I put it in my pocket, planning to keep it but when the party finished the girl who had lost the phone was in tears. But i didnt give it back. ...
A. 2 January 2011: Don't steal stuff :) karma's a bitch huh? You're gonna have to just face the music and deal with it. Eventually something equally gossip worthy will occur and you'll be dome with :) next time, give it back lile a good person, kay?... (read in full...)
Is it possible to induce lactation?
Q. I am a 59 year old woman who is in a serious relationship and both my partner and I want me to lactate,is that possible and how would we start the procedure please....
A. 2 January 2011: It's possible :) as far as I am aware though, it requires incredibly regular nipple stimulation - i.e 'suckling'. It triggers an increase in the milk-producing hormone and after a lot of 'work' (but you can hardly call it work ;P..) you should ... (read in full...)
Is he just lying to me to make me feel better about my skills?
Q. So here it is, sorry if it comes across as a bit graphic but it seems better to be clear about what I'm asking. I've been with my boyfriend for about 3months and in general the sex is great. He's only my second sexual partner and there was over a...
A. 28 November 2010: Thanks, I just wanted to say I haven't been nagging about it lol, it just came up in conversation one night.. he brought it up not me (feeling nervous about finishing in my mouth) and part of me had been thinking that I was rubbish and he was just ... (read in full...)
Is he secretly bisexual? Perhaps in denial?
Q. A guy I started dating revealed that he had a sexual encounter with another guy when he was younger (in his teens). He says that he was just really sexual and wanted to have sex, didn't care with whom, and so he slept with that guy but that he's ...
A. 28 November 2010: To tell you about this sexual encounter he either feels that it's no big deal, that he's comfortable enough with you to share it or both.
A lot of people experience new feelings and such during that period of life where they are becoming an 'adul... (read in full...)
I know I don't want a baby right now... so why do I keep thinking of them???
Q. So, babies! To start at the beginning (obvious, right?) I didn't have the most amazing childhood, and my parents didn't have the most amazing marriage (I know no one has things perfect but I would have at least wished for 'average') Be...
A. 27 November 2010: I apologise for being a bit harsh in my reply but it really does seem like you were aiming to imply I had no goal in my life other than to get a baby, secretly if need be. I assure you this isn't true. Also on your point of contraception, I'm not ... (read in full...)
I know I don't want a baby right now... so why do I keep thinking of them???
Q. So, babies! To start at the beginning (obvious, right?) I didn't have the most amazing childhood, and my parents didn't have the most amazing marriage (I know no one has things perfect but I would have at least wished for 'average') Be...
A. 26 November 2010: Wow, did you actually read my question? Because it really doesn't seem like it.
And as for wanting to be loved after a tragic childhood, the opposite is actually true. Being a mother terrifies me.
I'm sorry to hear you are so saddened by ... (read in full...)
Do I wait another 5 months on him???
Q. As I've said in another question, I've been with my current boyfriend for about 3 months now. Like quite a lot of people I'd assume, he's been in his fair share of trouble. About 6 months ago he finished a 12 month prison sentence, and ha...
A. 21 November 2010: Just thought I should add that he's not back inside because he keeps offending and will therefore be back inside on many occasion.
His original time was for something he didn't do. There was no evidence and word against word went the wrong wa... (read in full...)
Is it normal to not have a girlfriend at the age of 16?
Q. I am 16 years old and I don't have a girlfriend, yet. I've never had girlfriend before in my entire life. People (primarily my peers) have told me that not having a girlfriend at my age is sad and pathetic. I remember one guy on my football would ...
A. 20 November 2010: I had my first relationship at 16, and even then it was only because I got asked out and felt like it was something I should do to be 'normal' - not a good plan! It lasted a few weeks, I tagged along like a lost puppy and she ditched me for her ex ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend won't let me finish in her mouth!
Q. My girlfriend won't let me finish in her mouth. She is grossed out by semen. How do I get her to open up to the idea. She also does not want to experiment with taking it up the butt even though she did it with someone else previously. Is it disre...
A. 20 November 2010: Hmm, I'm kinda torn between saying YES and NO.
Here's why -
Yes, it's disrespectful to push your partner to do things they are 100% against. They have clearly made their decision and forcing the issue is going to do nothing but cause fricti... (read in full...)
Cumshots! Outrageous???
Q. I have heard that one of the latest things in porn is to have multiple oral cumshots. I've heard that some of the women have had up to 20 or more men cum in their mouth and pretty much mad to swallow all of it. How can any woman like that? Do any ...
A. 20 November 2010: I'm pretty much of the opinion that porn is a very exaggerated version of sexual acts of the 'everyday' variety.
It's been designed as an extreme escape I guess. I think in a way, women in porn are meant to be pushing the limits of what real lif... (read in full...)
Is he just being a nice mate? I'm too scared of being rejected to ask him directly about it!
Q. ok so...first things first...I suck at relationships of anysort.. I'm useless at knowing whether people like or 'like' or are teasing :p *sigh* So here goes, there's a guy on my course who is a super friend.. But I've started to like him more th...
A. 4 March 2010: thanks for the replies :)
I guess I'm just being daft. I wouldn't really be here if I didn't already get a hint of him liking me too. I'm pretty shy, as is he and I'm not confident to go up to him and hug him when with a group of people..
I've... (read in full...)
He didn't want to be with me because of distance, but now has a long distance girlfriend!!
Q. I started talking to this guy on the internet a few years ago and we've gotten really close, though we've not met in person. We've always flirted etc but lately we just got closer and shared how we really feel for each other. However, he said...
A. 23 December 2009: Denise32, you're right.
In a totally irrational way, I'm hurt that he has a gf even though I have no real right to be. But more so, I'm angry at myself for chickening out and not doing something before it's too late.
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We've been in c... (read in full...)
I am worried how my being overweight will affect my relationships in the future. What can I do to increase my chances?
Q. I have posted questions previously about how I worry about how my appearance will affect my relationships in the future. Quick reminder - I am nineteen years old, six foot dark hair blue eyes. My close female friends say I'm sweet and kind and lov...
A. 22 December 2009: Somewhat like you I've always worried about how my appearance will affect relationships due to being overweight - although I think that's more due to my being stubborn that no one likes a fat girl lol
However, I don't believe there is ANYONE w... (read in full...)
He didn't want to be with me because of distance, but now has a long distance girlfriend!!
Q. I started talking to this guy on the internet a few years ago and we've gotten really close, though we've not met in person. We've always flirted etc but lately we just got closer and shared how we really feel for each other. However, he said...
A. 22 December 2009: I don't know, I'm worried I ruined any chances we had by being so darn stubborn in my belief he'd be disappointed in my appearance..so now he's moved on.
Thing is, I've never felt for anyone like I do for him and it's a hard thing to get over. I ... (read in full...)
He didn't want to be with me because of distance, but now has a long distance girlfriend!!
Q. I started talking to this guy on the internet a few years ago and we've gotten really close, though we've not met in person. We've always flirted etc but lately we just got closer and shared how we really feel for each other. However, he said...
A. 22 December 2009: I don't know, I'm worried I ruined any chances we had by being so darn stubborn in my belief he'd be disappointed in my appearance..so now he's moved on.
Thing is, I've never felt for anyone like I do for him and it's a hard thing to get over. I ... (read in full...)
How can I make my wife swallow?
Q. Ladies, I'm a married man of 2 years, and my wife is still not sure that she wants to swallow while performing oral sex. It creates a kind of vicious circle for me in a sense that I have a hard time "finishing" because the thought of her n...
A. 22 December 2009: has she never swallowed and is just assuming, or has she before and hated it? If it's the second, then you're stumped :)
Personally, I enjoy the taste and never considered not swallowing. I'd be a bit put out if it was the other way round :)
If... (read in full...)
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