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... Send *ailglitter18 a private message | | | *ailglitter18's profile:I am a 19-year-old KID. Yes, I maintain that I'm still a kid, even though in my country, legally, I'm an adult. But I know that I still don't have all the answers.
I did, however, grow up with a mother who spoke freely about sex, and encouraged me to experiment (looking back, I wouldn't have been so encouraging if I had been her!!). I've been through my share of ups and downs- I've made mistakes, and broken hearts... I'd like to use this information to help others NOT do the things I did.
I've also done research on SEX!! Yes, sex. Because we all love it. I have studied a book called "What Your Mother Never Told You About S-E-X", and it's great- geared towards women of all kinds, who want to have FANTASTIC intercourse!! I used to have a hell of a time climaxing until my boyfriend and I read through parts of this book together. We both found things that we thought would be great for our intimacy, and we tried it out! Things like mints during fellatio, and things guys should do for us ladies - great stuff! :D
I am a Christian, by the way, I do believe in God and Jesus and the Rules in the Bible. But I also believe that there are different interpretations to it, and that God made us so we can LIVE life and have fun. :) |
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Was he offended by my comment?
Q. so unfortunately slept with my ex "i know shame on me, but it will not happen again" and after the sex he asked me how it was i said it was okay, i mean i was being honest it was not amazing or anything and he never asked me that before when we were ...
A. 15 October 2009: Hahaha, guys never want to hear "it was OK". They want to hear, "OMG", "Wow", "Fantastic", etc.
If he's a secure man, then it probably didn't bother him. If he's insecure (which is probably why he asked), then it may have just bothered him.
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The Doctor thought I could be pregnant, but the test came back negative. The symptoms are still here - what's going on?
Q. Hey all, A few weeks ago I went to my doctor because I was having pain in my right nipple. He told me I had a blocked nipple duct and gave me some antibiotics so I went on holiday and forgot about it. The blocked duct was fairly erect at...
A. 14 October 2009: Also remember that pregnancy hormone levels rise later for some women - so if these are early signs, you're sensitive to hormone fluctuations, and so on, then a urine test may still come up negative.... (read in full...)
I'm so worried, could I be pregnant?
Q. I am on birthcontrol but it's not the regular one it's called the mini pill, i'm very good with it, i also have kind of irregular periods. Me and my fiance have sex often and without condoms but he never "goes" inside me but i'm not sure if he still ...
A. 5 November 2008: Whether or not you're pregnant, it's important to see your OB-GYN. Missing periods like that, and strange bleeding patterns can be the sign of an infection. If untreated, STDs can lead to pelvic inflammatory disease. Get yourself checked... (read in full...)
My fiancee is not interested in having sex much any more, any ideas as to how to increase her interest?
Q. My fiance is not interested in sex much anymore. We have been together for 4 years now and currently only have sex about once a month. This has become a topic of discussion for the past few months and nothing has changed. When we have sex it is ...
A. 25 August 2008: Is she on the pill? The side effects of some birth control pills is lack of libido. Have her talk to her doctor, and if that might be the case, she could try switching brands.
Good luck!... (read in full...)
What's wrong with me? I want to argue with him!
Q. I'm in a great relationship, my partner couldn't be better for me, he treats me great he's not over protective...I could go on forever about how fabulous he is. Now a little back ground, my last relationship was very abusive mentally, physical...
A. 2 June 2008: I used to have panic attacks about people I loved dying. I went to a psychologist, and she gave me some great advice:
1. Remember, this is a panic attack. It will go away. Count to 30, breathe, and remind yourself that in 3 minutes' time, yo... (read in full...)
I am bothered by his best female friend to whom he tells everything... so I am having second thoughts about moving in together!
Q. My best friend of 17 years and I started dating 1 1/2 years ago and he has lots of female friends but one really bothers me because he seems to tell her everything he even calls her when I am in the shower to tell her about a disagreement we have ...
A. 2 June 2008: I wouldn't worry about it too much. Remember, he chose you. Everyone needs a friend they can confide in. Being the "significant other" makes you privy to a whole slew of information, but still, everyone needs a best friend to talk to. Whether ... (read in full...)
Will he explode?
Q. What will happen if you stop giving a guy a hand job before he cums?...
A. 9 April 2008: No, Men will not explode, go blind, or anything else of the sort if you stop doing anything sexual to them. It may be uncomfortable for them (or outright hurt), but anyone who has been through puberty has been through worse (from what I hear, the ... (read in full...)
An on line test said I have severe depression. What can I do?
Q. hi i took one of those tests online to say whether i had depression or not. i have been feeling really bad for about 2 years or so. it suddenly got really bad. the test online, which came from a very reliable online doctors site, said i had majo...
A. 31 January 2008: I had the same problems when I was your age, and I have friends who had problems when they were your age. *I* was lucky- I managed. But it was so hard. I wish I had gone to a psychologist or psychiatrist for help. My friends went through it ... (read in full...)
I told her that the morning after pill is abortion, she hates me now, what should I do?
Q. Dear friends, I have been crying for a day now because of my best friend. I have known her for over 9 years now, and we've helped eachother so much. I moved in with her and her son from another state and lived with her for about 5 months and then...
A. 30 January 2008: I'm not sure what you could do in this case. Having your own beliefs and opinions is OK. But the issue here is that you seem to have expressed them in a rather judgmental way. Your friend also has the right to her own beliefs. She may not have ... (read in full...)
He is getting divorced, and still wants children, I cant give him this but we are so right together, I'm sure I can convince him we are meant to be if we move in together, that should work ?
Q. Dear Cupid. I need help. Okay here goes. I started going with this guy, and we've been together for 6 months now. He's married and is in the process of a divorce. He and his wife are no longer living together. He wants us to get a place together.At ...
A. 29 January 2008: Don't play too hard to get, cos you might just lose him. good luck. :)... (read in full...)
My vagina is too tight, sex is painful. How can I fix that?
Q. My ex recently told all my friends how "tight" I was. unfortunatly he's right. What can I do to stop being so tight? Sex is really painful, and its really starting to make me depressed....
A. 29 January 2008: Make sure you have lots of "warmup" before the sex! As you get into it, and relax, your vagina loosens a little and becomes wet with your body's natural lubricant. This makes sex a lot more fun! Also, if you're having TOO much sex, that can make ... (read in full...)
Info about birth contol pills, please.
Q. If I take a pregnancy test while on the pill, does it come back positive because of the hormones in your blood from the pill?? Or, can I take one and get an accurate reading?...
A. 29 January 2008: You should be able to get an accurate reading while on the pill. But if you ever think that you may be pregnant, see your doctor!! Tests there can be much more accurate.
http://www.pregnancy.org/article.php?sid=1197
Here is some more inform... (read in full...)
What is a good diet to loose weight?
Q. Hey My Boyfriend And I Have An 'Intimate' Relationship... However I Feel Self Consious About My Tummy. I Am Not OverWeight Like Loads But I Am Not A Szie 6 Either :( I Have Been Thinking About Going On A Diet Of Rice Crackers (( You Know The...
A. 29 January 2008: try eating fewer breads, pastas, chips and such. If you cut back on "junk foods" then it should be fairly easy for your body to maintain its NATURAL weight.
Natural is all you should strive to be. Feel good, don't worry about how you look. E... (read in full...)
An on line test said I have severe depression. What can I do?
Q. hi i took one of those tests online to say whether i had depression or not. i have been feeling really bad for about 2 years or so. it suddenly got really bad. the test online, which came from a very reliable online doctors site, said i had majo...
A. 29 January 2008: if you feel that you have depression, you should try to make an appointment with a psychiatrist. I suppose you can do this through your GP- ask for a referral. There are medicines out there that can help by increasing the natural level of hormones ... (read in full...)
He is getting divorced, and still wants children, I cant give him this but we are so right together, I'm sure I can convince him we are meant to be if we move in together, that should work ?
Q. Dear Cupid. I need help. Okay here goes. I started going with this guy, and we've been together for 6 months now. He's married and is in the process of a divorce. He and his wife are no longer living together. He wants us to get a place together.At ...
A. 29 January 2008: I would say give it a try- because it's worth it, at the end of the day. When he's ready, he'll talk. But he needs to realize that communication is key in cases like this. There are many options out there, you're right! Something like this doesn't ... (read in full...)
Whats going on through his head?
Q. Hey i have to talk to someone or im either going to cry or scream or do something stupid. Argh so here goes. First off Im going to tell u the story of how 4 and a half months of my life get flushed down the toilet in a single weekend, my ...
A. 28 January 2008: A friend of mine was just put through this today... I don't understand how some men do that kind of thing!
be strong... But you do deserve to know why he ended it: you shouldn't be picking apart who you are. You're a great person. If there wa... (read in full...)
Pregnant and worried..that I may be having a miscarriage! Help!
Q. I'm just over 8 weeks pregnant. I've had alot of dischargey stuff since finding out I'm pregnant and read alot of women do. But today I noticed it's going a beige colour and I don't think this is normal and it's starting to worry me, could I be h...
A. 28 January 2008: I don't know about beige... Spotting can also occur during a normal pregnancy (that's light blood), but should be checked out if it happens (on principle).
Its always good to check in with a doctor, because they can do all sorts of neat tests. ... (read in full...)
Help me clarify this...Did I break up with him or did he break up with me?
Q. I know it doesn't matter now, but I just want to know if in fact I was the one who broke up with my ex fiance. The day I left his house (broke up with him) I asked him if he could start paying for his own toiletries b/c I couldn't afford paying for ...
A. 28 January 2008: Well, if you want to know who is tougher, it looks like you are it.
If you feel like it's time to move on, and you didn't like the relationship's tone, then good for you.
But you're out now- there's realllllllyyy no point in trying to s... (read in full...)
How do I get over the stupid things I did when I was depressed?
Q. A year ago I sunk into depression and had to take 6 months off college to recover. I'm sure other people who have suffered from depression would be able to relate when I say 'I wasn't myself'. During this time I did some incredibly stupid things, ...
A. 28 January 2008: Let me point out to you (as a psych student) that psychologists are "sworn to secrecy" from day one of school!! Anything that they are told in confidentiality, they are bound to keep to themselves (they can basically only tell if they feel like you ... (read in full...)
Stressed out because my army guy hardly contacts me!
Q. Im getting really stressed about my boyfriend of two years. He is in the army and been real busy at work recently but have hardly had any contact with him for a week. Last sunday he said he couldn't wait to see me again and called me sexy but hardly ...
A. 28 January 2008: Military relationships suck. (I was in one- he's out now though) Sometimes (especially when it comes to initial training- if that's what you're talking about) you have to put up with grumpy, sleep-deprived, sore, and homesick soldiers.
Somet... (read in full...)
I need help before ruining my relationship
Q. I need help before I ruin my relationship!My girlfriend has lived life to the fullest and I've done nothing.This makes me so jealous that I won't even let her tell me anymore about her past.I also get very jealous of the comments she gets on her ...
A. 27 January 2008: Yes, I agree with peoriaman. From a woman's point of view: YOU have her now. you have her loyalty, and her feelings. You have HER.
Jealousy is one thing, but acting on it is another. You might want to bring this up in some of your sessions... (read in full...)
Whats going on through his head?
Q. Hey i have to talk to someone or im either going to cry or scream or do something stupid. Argh so here goes. First off Im going to tell u the story of how 4 and a half months of my life get flushed down the toilet in a single weekend, my ...
A. 27 January 2008: Forget texting. Forget phone calls. You need to see his face. Frankly, at this point, I wouldn't get sad, but really, really mad.
I would go to his house and knock on his door. Then, before I yelled at him like an idiot (err, yeah, I tend to ... (read in full...)
My teacher said he wouldn't say no?
Q. Well there are loads of questions about teachers n students but hey here goes! Well on friday nyt just gone i was out with my best friend and we was in this pub and all the teachers were out drunk! There was this one that i really liked and he wa...
A. 27 January 2008: well, I myself say that flirting is the key.
Im not sure about rules, really, and I wouldn't put the cart before the horse. Give him a wink next time you see him walking by, or just a friendly smile to let him know that you meant what you said... (read in full...)
What wome love to hear during sex?
Q. Men love to hear women moaning, shouting and complimenting his tool and how good he is performing...what about women? What do they like to hear while making sex? What things turn her on more and make her cum faster? Need to read women's replies ...
A. 27 January 2008: I like to see my guy enjoying himself. Usually the look on his face speaks for itself!! :P
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What should I do for the best.
Q. Hi, I have been with my partner Julie for seven years and we have a son aged five. We have been very happy for most of the times but the last 6 weeks have been hell. Julie started drinking heavily just before xmas. Her attitude towards h...
A. 27 January 2008: In a case like this, your son is your first and foremost priority. Make sure he's safe.
I think your partner might be insecure for some reason, hence the comment that you "don't love her". Were there any sudden changes in your lives around t... (read in full...)
Boy troubled, sex involved...:(
Q. I was going out with this boy for about a year... it was great but ended we never did get that close, sexually wise, only a bit of foreplay.. Since weve broken up ( about a year later ) we cant keep our hands of eachother.. We know theres somethin...
A. 27 January 2008: I agree with cd206 on this one. I know it's not something any of us wants to hear. A very good friend of mine is going through the exact same thing, and she got the same advice.
It might be hard, it might be easy. But you have to take the stan... (read in full...)
He wants to break-up and for us to experience other people but I have given all my heart to him.
Q. My boyfriend and I met each other about 5 months ago. In the time we have been with each other we have fallen deeply in love and have spent every free moment possible with one another. I truly and honestly believe that he is the one -- I had never ...
A. 27 January 2008: You go, girl... Be strong. give him the space he needs. I know it's hard, what you're going through. Do point out to him that it's not really fair to you, either, the way he's doing this. It makes it hard to let go. A clean break is always ... (read in full...)
Want to give it a shot
Q. Okay, so I've known this guy all my life. Our parents were good friends but then when we started our different schools we never saw each other. Our parents sent each other christmas cards but we never met up as families. We didn't really know each ...
A. 27 January 2008: It IS possible to be friends after a relationship, although it can be hard at first. I dated my best friend, and it was kind of an odd breakup... When we first broke up we had to draw strict lines at touching and stuff, until we were both OK on our ... (read in full...)
What is my problem
Q. I need to know if this is normal and what i should do about it? Im 28 and live with my dad and up until about 6 months ago my pretty serious boyfriend of like 5+ years lived 1.5 miles away. I would spend the night there every night. Then he got a ...
A. 26 January 2008: Are you feeling like this because you're missing him? You can usually tell, because the feeling gets more intense when you think about him.
I felt like that too when I first had to face the long distance relationship that I'm in now. If it gets ... (read in full...)
I feel she only needs me as a dad for the kids now, and I'm doubtful of her love. Should I give up so easily?
Q. Hey guys. My problem is I don't think my fiannce loves me anymore, we have been having problems since before christmas and it just seems like we are going round in circles. She used to tell me everthing any problems she had. I love her so much...
A. 26 January 2008: part of love and part of life is routine. Cinderella found her prince charming- but what happened after the happily ever after?
My mom likes to say that Cinderella got fat, the Prince went bald, and they occasionally got reallly tired of each oth... (read in full...)
We started dating and now he is acting weird...what can I do to keep him??
Q. I met this guy in college. One day he asked me for a walk and he showed me around the campus and then we kissed. After that we started dating but he started to act realy weird. He doesn't call me and he doesnt want anyone to know about us and he s...
A. 25 January 2008: You really like him, but he's just not that into you! you're worth more than that. Find someone who wants the whole world to know he's with you- someone who would hold your hand in public, and not be afraid to be in a relationship with you.
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We love each other, but are on opposite sides of the earth. Can this love be true, and is this worth pursuing?
Q. I live in the United States and have been in a relationship with a girl from the Philippines. We have known each other for over two years now and have often expressed how much we love and appreciate each other through mainly IM and email, and on a ...
A. 25 January 2008: I've had one relationship that was purely over the internet, and although we didn't have the physical contact that most people have, I wouldn't ever hesitate to call it a relationship. It's even harder this way, which is why I think it counts ... (read in full...)
He wants to break-up and for us to experience other people but I have given all my heart to him.
Q. My boyfriend and I met each other about 5 months ago. In the time we have been with each other we have fallen deeply in love and have spent every free moment possible with one another. I truly and honestly believe that he is the one -- I had never ...
A. 25 January 2008: I hate to say this, I really do... but the more you call him at this point, the more frustrating it will be. I would back off a little, and see what happens. Wait a little while- next time you call him, ask him how he's doing, and don't bring up ... (read in full...)
Does she just want to move in for sex??
Q. I have been having sex with my girl friend for last 3 months. We both love lot of sex and we both get it..but since recently my gf is asking me if she can stay with me living together...but im worried is this just because of sex or does she needs me ...
A. 25 January 2008: I think Uncle Phil is being a little cynical and squaring all women away in the same little box.... I loved the picture he portrayed though! Haha...
Well, Women do tend to get a little overbearing sometimes... But that's only because we reeealll... (read in full...)
He wants to break-up and for us to experience other people but I have given all my heart to him.
Q. My boyfriend and I met each other about 5 months ago. In the time we have been with each other we have fallen deeply in love and have spent every free moment possible with one another. I truly and honestly believe that he is the one -- I had never ...
A. 25 January 2008: the best you can do right now, is pick yourself up, and start fresh. Hanging out with friends, going to a few parties - it doesn't mean you're ruining the possibility of a future with your beloved. But be realistic- he's lost and confused, wh... (read in full...)
What can we do about this guy?
Q. I have a girlfriend whom we've made a committment to get married soon but she has told me that another guy who approached her recently doesn't want to hear that she has been already booked,he wants everything by force,what can we do to this guy....
A. 31 October 2007: I agree with rcn: call the police! That guy sounds a little wacko.... (read in full...)
I'm going away with my classmate, he fancies me, and me him, but he has a girlfriend, what do I do!
Q. I have recently started at college and i am really loving it. In one of my classes their is a lad, i have always found him attractive but he has a gf so i never went through with anything. He always compliments me on how good looking i am (wh...
A. 31 October 2007: It sounds like he's playing you. Do you respect his girlfriend? If she doesn't go to that school, then chances are, they have a distance relationship. Distance is hard enough without temptation. If he says he loves his girlfriend, then back off ... (read in full...)
She says I need to open up more, my mum says its a modern thing, who's right?
Q. I've had a woman say she NEEDS me to open up more. She says its a need not a want. And needs intimate details, to exchange with her friends.She's had a couple of failed relationships. I'm a bit unsure about this, so asked my MUM. She said i'm a so...
A. 31 October 2007: Do what you are comfortable with. Frankly, if your girlfriend only wants intimate thoughts to share with her friends... I'd question that!! Intimate is just that - it should be between two people. I wouldn't want my sig fig blabbering my innermost ... (read in full...)
How can I get him back?
Q. hii, iam sarah, well i just broke up with my fiancie from about 3 months and i still love him and iam trying to get him back but the problem i feel iam not doing well in this, i really need a way to get him back becoz i cant stop thinking about him ...
A. 30 October 2007: First you need to sit down and ask yourself why you broke up with him in the first place. It's one thing to think about it, but completely another to open your mouth and begin forming those words.
We all know the grass is greener on the other si... (read in full...)
Bar verses Christianity
Q. Me I'm a Christian, my brother is not saved, I do respect him since he is like our earthly father. We usually spent time together and whenever he goes out to town to drink he makes sure I accompany him. At the bar he takes the beer as I take the ...
A. 30 October 2007: I'd say no. I don't think it's wrong for you to drink as a Christian either. Even Jesus drank wine!! One of His miracles was turning water into wine!
I am a Christian and I go to bars, I dance, and I drink. I believe that I am still a moral pe... (read in full...)
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