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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:so unfortunately slept with my ex "i know shame on me, but it will not happen again" and after the sex he asked me how it was i said it was okay, i mean i was being honest it was not amazing or anything and he never asked me that before when we were together, why do u think he would ask that all of a sudden? and do u think he was offended by my "ok" comment?Guys i would love to hear your honest response!
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reader, nailglitter18  +, writes (15 October 2009):
 Hahaha, guys never want to hear "it was OK". They want to hear, "OMG", "Wow", "Fantastic", etc.
If he's a secure man, then it probably didn't bother him. If he's insecure (which is probably why he asked), then it may have just bothered him.
It's all in the body language post-comment. Did he seem to be acting weird?
My advice: Sometimes honesty is NOT the best policy. "Pretty good" is similar to "OK", just sounds a long more positive. Or come uup with creative ways to deflect the situation, like, "gee, I dunno, let's try again!"
I'm just addressing the sex situation here, not the ex-boyfriend one :)
Good luck
x glitter
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