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reader, rubyglasz  +, writes (29 December 2012):
I personally go for personality. Every time I go for looks the guys end up being total jerks. I suggest you go for a girl that already has a small crush on you. If you hang out with her you may see true beauty within. I finally came to my senses after a while and did this and now I absolutely love him. He is sweet, and kind. Hope this helps??.
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reader, poiuyt123 +, writes (26 November 2010):
Ok, you can throw all the percentages and ages out there that you want, but it all comes down to one fact. Looks mean EVERYTHING. Ya, if you dont have the right personality it will never last, but, if you dont pass that initial test of physical appearance, girls want NOTHING to do with you. Personality may keep them around, but if your not "hot" then girls dont give a rat's @*# about finding out your personality. If yo want to use percentages, then i'd say roughly 2-4% of girls are the exception to this, if not lower. Why do you think you never see the hot skinny blonde with the overweight nice guy? Because he could have the best personality in the world, but hes not good looking, so shell never care to find that out. Bottom line-- 98-96% of all WOMEN ARE SHALLOW. Try and debate it, but its nothing but the truth
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reader, Love_is_all_youu_need +, writes (17 February 2008):
 Intentionally I fall for guys who are good-looking, but as I get to know them more - I fall for their personality, which is alot more important! But I think as us girls get older, we dnt give a toss about what the guy looks like. The inside is more attractive!
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reader, Meh2163  +, writes (10 February 2008):
Ok, i may not be a girl, but i do understand their minds, and i'd say about 60% go for looks, unless their personality is really strong, such as sensative, nice, supportive, etc. Its very hard to distinguish who likes what type of guys.Sometimes its based on the girls personality, such as girly girls, punk, flashy, etc. I guess different situations bring couples together. Hope i helped a bit =PGood luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2008): hay
i go for personallity but if they have the looks then thats a bonus :P I go for lads who are kind, funny and knows how to treat a girl oh n who loves sports:P All girls go for mainly are personality, if they go for looks then thats just stupid!!
good luck
love
michelle,16,liverpool
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reader, lovehate +, writes (9 February 2008):
 Bit of both to be honest. I need a guy with a sense of humour as well....picky i know. X
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reader, nicole5178 +, writes (9 February 2008):
 I'm attracted initially to looks, but if there's no personality, there's no way I'd date him. I think if there's a strong personality, looks don't matter so much, but it's difficult to tell about the personality since you have to put so much effort into the person just to find out if their personality matches yours. So I'd say I prefer personality. Looks are a good bonus, though.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2008): I am attracted to looks and will forgive a lot if I find the man attractive.
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reader, hello1 +, writes (9 February 2008):
 Both really. If I'm not attracted to a person then I can't date them, it's as simple as that. But sometimes, you get to know a person more and you grow more attracted too them, I had that happen to me before.
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reader, baybee-x-sparkii +, writes (9 February 2008):
 personality then looks
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (9 February 2008):
 Looks will attract first but it will be personality which will get the girls in the final run.
You can read an article I wrote on this site;-
http://www.pinksuzie.com/2007/09/26/your-criteria-for-mrright-looks-or-manners/
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2008): Loving, fun personality complimented by looks. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2008): Definitely personality. My boyfriend of 3 years was chubby and awkward when I first started dating him, and I fell in love with him reguardless for his hilarious sense of humor and intelligent conversation.
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reader, LIERIN +, writes (9 February 2008):
 I think its the same like guys ... First its the looks usually ... and than after we get to know that person its personality .. but sometimes, personality comes before looks (in friendships .. or similar relationships that turn into something else)
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2008): Personality! Looks help, but its definitely the personality that makes all the difference.
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reader, theneedyone +, writes (9 February 2008):
As a teenage girl, the first thing I recognize is the looks. There is always that physical attraction that everyone searches for. Personally, looks are the first thing that catches my eye, but as I get older, there is WAY more behind the pretty face. Personality is what shines through in the end. And besides, as long as you have confidence and portray yourself as who you are, than you will def. stand out.
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reader, xoTrineyxo +, writes (9 February 2008):
 PERSONALITY!! Like really if i like a guy its becuase of his personality and its just a bonus if hes hot. and like sometimes i like a guy so much even if he isnt terribly good looking to me he is anywaygood luck xox
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reader, Ileana +, writes (9 February 2008):
 To be brutally honest its usually a bit of both. But i know full well that the saying Beauty is in the eye of the beholder is very true If you have an amazing personality a girl will love you no matter what you look like.Good luck kidIileyanaxxx
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reader, Dr Vendetta +, writes (8 February 2008):
 at your age? 16-17?Looks. because girls of that age are usually shallow. personality only counts when you're in your 30's.this is because women are after the hot bodied, good looking bad boys, who treat them like crap.so after a good 10-15 years of being shallow they realise that personality goes along way.Good luck.
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reader, AkasunaNoSasori +, writes (8 February 2008):
 Even though I'm a guy I hang out with a lot of girls and I can say that most girls are attracted to a guy's personality more than his looks. I don't think I look that good but I have a nice personality and people like me for that. Hope this helps!
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reader, mizz_A +, writes (8 February 2008):
 hmmmm as a girl personally I think, it depends what way you go about it some good looking people are arrogant (****) where as others are really nice and in any girl's book whereas a less good looking boy tends to be absolutely lovely but seems to get walked all over because they think they're lucky to have a girlfriend. I don't know what your situation is so can't really offer advice, just be a generally thoughtful guy and not arrogant but careful not to get walked on basically bit of both is nice :)depends on a girls opinion. Thanks. Hope it helps feel free to private message me :)
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reader, marmajuke +, writes (8 February 2008):
 Depends what the girl is like. most girls go for personality especially if you're funny, whereas others may just go for looks but they can be shallow! all girls are different! hope this helps a tad...
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