Will sex affect my relationship with my best friend?
Q. So heres the situation: me[im male 18] and my best freind [female19] both virgins. best freinds for 4 years before we dated. been going out for nearly a year now. We are both close to ready to having sex. I want to do what i need t...
A. 27 December 2009: Hi..... just to say, my best freind is also my GIRLFREIND, incase this isnt clear. thanks ... (read in full...)
I'm not sexually attracted to my boyfriend, and I like the new guy, or is it just a crush?
Q. I have been together with my boyfriend for just over a year now. Its been great - we've never argued, had any problems and we've got on really well. There's just a few personal issues I have. Firstly, we haven't yet had sex. In fact, we haven't ...
A. 27 December 2009: Never leave the one you Love for the one you like, because the one you like will leave you for the one they love.... (read in full...)
I'm not sexually attracted to my boyfriend, and I like the new guy, or is it just a crush?
Q. I have been together with my boyfriend for just over a year now. Its been great - we've never argued, had any problems and we've got on really well. There's just a few personal issues I have. Firstly, we haven't yet had sex. In fact, we haven't ...
A. 27 December 2009: Never leave the one you Love for the one you like, because the one you like will leave you for the one they love.... (read in full...)
How can I go out clubbing if I'm underage?
Q. ok so heres my story. My girlfreind/also my best freind is 19 on the 13th of december, and im 18 4 days later she is having her birthday party going out clubbing, as you know you have to be 18 to get into a club..... i cant miss my girl...
A. 12 November 2009: Hey as ive just said, i cant change the date, its clubbing on her birthday.. can somebody give me a suggestion that answers the question, thankyou.... (read in full...)
How can I go out clubbing if I'm underage?
Q. ok so heres my story. My girlfreind/also my best freind is 19 on the 13th of december, and im 18 4 days later she is having her birthday party going out clubbing, as you know you have to be 18 to get into a club..... i cant miss my girl...
A. 12 November 2009: Just to verify, the date cant be changed, also I AM NOT GOING TO DRINK LOADS, 2 drinks at the most. i just want to be at her party... (read in full...)
He tells my friends very sweet things but never says them to my face
Q. ive recently been fwb with an ex. he lost my trust towards the end of our relationship and was a lying ass but some of my friends believe he has changed after this time, although i am still skeptical because ive always found it hard to trust people. ...
A. 1 February 2009: well he probably doesnt dare say it to yourface because well implying he wants to marry you.... is abit of a shockerrrrrr. lol. so just stick with him, if you feel your getting NO comments that are affectionate then tell him how you feel!... (read in full...)
Is it too much to ask?
Q. ive been with my boyfriend for about six months now. everythings good, we love each other very much and enjoy being together. our only problem is his ex girlfriend, i still feel she likes him, the signs are very obvious, shes said a few hurtful ...
A. 1 February 2009: hi. firstly you have to realise you decided to end ties with your ex, and you cant expect your boyfriend must end his relationship with his friends because his ex-gf is around. You said you trust your boyfriend but you don't trust him, whats your ... (read in full...)
Do I keep it a secret?
Q. ok so when i like people i like to keep it 2 myself or tell a few of my friends. but strangely enough i am starting to get some courage. so should i act on the courage and start letting the guys know that i like them or should i keep it to myself ...
A. 11 December 2008: well maybe see if they have something for you first. flirt abit? do the eye contact business ect. and if you think he may like you then you should tell him... why?
well if you asked him the only possible outcome is yes or no. if you get a no then... (read in full...)
I think my little sister is having sex. How should I handle this?
Q. I’m 20 male and have a 15 year old half sister who leaves with my Dad. I know she has had a bf for the last 4-5 months of which I didn’t think anything of it. The problem is, whilst I checking her social networking site for weird people and stuff...
A. 9 December 2008: well basically, if she is 16 she is legal to have sex...
you need to let her grow up, she wont thank you for interfering and you wont stop her either. at the end of the day its got nothing to do with you what she wants to do. you maybe be conc... (read in full...)
It looked like the condom split, and now I'm panicking!
Q. Hi Everyone! Right, i'm just looking for peace of mind really.... me and my BF of 4 years had sex this morning, with a condom... but when he pulled out it really looked as if it had split as there was a lot of excess liquid on it.. ordinarily ...
A. 15 November 2008: hi, well if you did the water test on the condom then dont worry, if water cant get out then , semen definately can not its too thick. if you are concerned still maybe you should see a pharmacist and they can give you the morning after pill, if you ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend shows my nude pictures to his friends, isn't this wrong?
Q. My boy friend used to be addicted to porn but now he doesnt havethe internet and is forever taking pictures of my bits. I wouldnt be to bothered but he shows his friends at i'm still young and i feel very uncomfortable but he says if i love him then ...
A. 12 November 2008: No your not being stupid, your body naked is a personal thing, and showing everyone is just wrong. also he is bullying you, he is using you to fuel his dirty habbits and gets a dirty thrill from showing you to everyone else. its derogatory. when he ... (read in full...)
What can I do to speed things up to the next step?
Q. Hi, I need a bit of help! I'm 27 And my boyfriend is 24. We've been together for more then 2 years now. I'm getting a bit depressed, cause he doesn't want to take the relationship to the next level! He says he's too young for that and I should have ...
A. 11 November 2008: hi, you cant speed things up, if you push somebody they will rebel, and in a relationship that means leaving you. you need to accept he is not ready for the next step and if you really love him, then wait till he is ready. take care... (read in full...)
How do I catch the guy I want?
Q. I'm in high school, and there is this guy I have really liked for a few months which is a big deal for me because I'm just starting to get over a long term relation ship, anyway this boy that I've started to like, I dont know what to really say any ...
A. 11 November 2008: i would say, now your single tell him how you feel again. get friendly with him, maybe he thinks you might not feel the same as you did before so doesnt want to ask you out . or maybe he isnt interested, if he isnt interested you must learn to let ... (read in full...)
Is he really shy or just not into me that much?
Q. I've been dating this guy for a month now... we're on date 7 lol! My problem is I'm not sure if he is just really shy or not into me that much. Now I am quite a shy person when it comes to guys and don't like to make the first move when we are ...
A. 11 November 2008: hey.
my guess is he is shy, he is not the sort to make the move, and he wants you to take control of the relationship. he probably doesnt know when to kiss, or when is the right moment for what. Teach him how to love, because its obvious he isnt... (read in full...)
My love for him burns bright.
Q. I've been in love with the same guy for about a year a half. At one point in time he liked me, and a lot, but he also liked another girl. He chose her over me, and I still don't know why to this day. But they broke up after six months, and I ...
A. 11 November 2008: well . it seems to me you love him alot, the only way to find out if this is unrequitted love is to ask him out, maybe he was only doing little flirts because they were only little messing about flirts meaning nothing. but the only way you will know ... (read in full...)
She is 19 and I am 57. I think she wants to go out with me. Is this wrong ?
Q. Hi Dear Cupid; I'am a sigle man with no attachments. About 2 months ago a young lady at the job would say hi every morning in a very appealing sexy kind Away, well in the begining I didn't put to much mind to it, she continue with her sexy hello and ...
A. 11 November 2008: hi, i personally think its a fling, she is just experimenting. just dont get your hopes up.
if she is interested in something she will tell you, if she isnt bothered about the age difference neither should you. just watch she isnt a gold digg... (read in full...)
How can I make him feel good during sex?
Q. me and my bf have been having sex (were both 16 and used protection) and im wondering how can i make him feel good during it. he plays with my chest alot (to be honest that turns me on like crazy..) and was wondering if i can do something for him it ...
A. 11 November 2008: well first your still young, is sex a good idea. not really, trying to feel grown up. but i suppose you wont take care of what i just said so wrapping your legs around them does really help. take care. be safe... (read in full...)
He looking up ex girlfriends on facebook on google
Q. Okay so I have been dating this guy for 2 1/2 years and man has it been rocky. The main problem with our past is his past relationships or fool arounds they have not gotten out of the picture part to his fault and part to the individuals who have ...
A. 11 November 2008: he sounds like abit of an idiot if you ask me. saying things like that to you. well its to make you jelous and to make you scared to leave him. dont listen to this, he is not treating you right. if i was you i would give it the cold shoulder now ... (read in full...)
Losing my virginity...
Q. I'm 18 and my boyfriend is 21, we've been going out for over 4 months and we are both still virgins. Tomorrow we've decided to go all the way but I'm scared it will hurt and that I won't know what to do can anyone help me please. I love him and it ...
A. 11 November 2008: well it will hurt the first time, but what can you do. its basically the choice between doing it or not. you could ask him to go fast the first time, and get it over with. i am not sure what else there is to do, it is a common fact it will hurt the ... (read in full...)
Can someone please help me...Am I depressed??
Q. I just really need some advice, i guess sometimes it's more helpful hearing advice from people i do not personally know. I'm not sure, but i think I am depressed. I know a doctor can only disgnose someone with depression, but how can one actually...
A. 2 November 2008: hi, if you repress emotion it doesnt go any where it builds up in your body, this is a known fact. so all the bad times in your life will just be there, this is probably what is causing the depression, the fact you have these things hindering you, ... (read in full...)
Poll Question: How was your first school relationship?
Q. Just a short Poll question: When was your first high school relationship, how long did it last? Just want to know because i'm 16, and i've always been single, haven't experienced ANYTHING with a guy, no kissing, nothing! The furthest i've gone...
A. 2 November 2008: i would think great because ive never had a relationship either. and we could just be ourselves be natural and can share those first experiences together being sooo special. i guess it must come natural e.g. kissing or what ever because its just a ... (read in full...)
How Can I Change So He Doesn't Take It Out On Me?
Q. ok how do i change myself and not make my fiancee mad to where he takes his anger out on me and how do i change myself to be a better person so we dont break...
A. 2 November 2008: heya hun.
you havent got to change. you changing wont stop him taking his anger out on you. he needs to find another release. e.g. maybe sports, music, drawing what ever. but you can not change in a way to stop him taking the anger out on him. make... (read in full...)
Why are my friends so mean to me?
Q. Hello people of this earth! I need desprate help with my friends. I love my friends with all my heart, but sometimes I honest to God just want to die. Well, I'm not the most popular girl in school. I am actually considered nerd, geek, wierdo, freak, ...
A. 30 October 2008: heya hun. i know what your going through. i used to get this ABUSE all the time. its horrible, its cruel and there is no need for it. your REAL friends wouldnt do this, i can tell you because i have moved on from these abusive people and now i have ... (read in full...)
Doctor Troubles
Q. For the last 3 weeks ish I have been feeling so depressed and my mum booked me an appointment for the doctors tomorrow but she can't come with me and I'm scared that the doctor will think I am overreacting because I'm on my own and not take it ...
A. 30 October 2008: hi. dont worry hun.
the doctor is there to help you out, he will know is something is up or not and he/she will be able to help you, he/sge knows what he/she is doing and they will be able to give you the best help and support possible as they are ... (read in full...)
Can my mom have him arrested for statutory rape?
Q. Okay I seriously need to know the answer to this question. Im 16 and my boyfriend is 19 and we've been dating for about 3 months. My mom is accusing us of having sex and is threatening to get him for statutory rape. He told me that she it's ...
A. 26 October 2008: in the united kingdom then yes this is VERY possible but i dont know for america, however dont see how your mom can do anything if you decide not to take any action. its got nothing to do with her. well i suppose it has because she is concerne... (read in full...)
We had sex and then we broke up! Can I really be put in jail because of this?
Q. Ok, I was dating this girl for over a year, and we had sex a few months ago. Just recently (last night) we broke up, I do love and care about her, I just felt like the relationship was far too serious, and I did not want to be in anymore. After we ...
A. 25 October 2008: hi unfortunatly you can be put in jail for statutory rape whether she consented to it or not. ... (read in full...)
I think I'll let him use me for sex as I like him so much.
Q. I've known this guy now for about a year, we met at a friend's birthday party and I fancied the pants off of him! He told me he liked me too, we ended up kissing, dancing etc.. but we didn't see each other again until June, she had another party and ...
A. 25 October 2008: hi. you shouldnt let this kid use you for sex. you said you went for a walk in the park and you told him and he said he did have feelings for you. let me tell you now if i told a girl i just wanted to have sex with her and then she said she did... (read in full...)
Is it true my friend wont find peace with God after committing suicide?
Q. Good day to all, A girl I know commited suicide. To be honest I am not so upset about the suicide itself or even her death. She had a really really awful life and alot of bad things happen her entire life-from the day she was born. When I f...
A. 31 August 2008: hi firstly. the bible doesnt condem suicide!
also
hi i have an important passage from the bible to show she is forgiven: isiah 43:25 .
i even i. am he that blotteth out thy transgressions for mine own sake,and will not remember thy sins.
this ... (read in full...)
How can I explain my church to my parents - they say it's evil!
Q. hi i am an apostolic christian and my parents dont understand about this type of church. the fact we call on the holy ghost ect, we have tried to explain to her about the holy ghost and that i might speak in toungues but she thinks its evil and wont ...
A. 4 August 2008: the apostolic church was set up by the apostles. e.g. paul.when jesus was around not last century. it was revived last century. please do not comment again if you are going to tell me when it was founded. thankyou for advice... (read in full...)
How can I explain my church to my parents - they say it's evil!
Q. hi i am an apostolic christian and my parents dont understand about this type of church. the fact we call on the holy ghost ect, we have tried to explain to her about the holy ghost and that i might speak in toungues but she thinks its evil and wont ...
A. 2 August 2008: the update is that. i would like to confirm. to older sister than its not a new religion. but it is actually the oldest form of christianity in the world . set up in the 1st century by jesus.
thankyou all for your advise tho... (read in full...)
How will he react if I stop having sex with him?
Q. I really like this guy who basically just used me for sex. I wanted to date him but he saw our relationship as "friends with benefits" He said he cared about me and I think he kinda did, he just didnt want a relationship. He did boyfriend stuff with ...
A. 27 July 2008: hey.
firstly how can you like a guy who is using you as a thing? well sex between a couple creates a chemical bond, sort of like the emotional version of marriage. wether you want it to or not, this is what usually happens. So if you have this bond... (read in full...)
I'm healthy, but I still get horrible spots!
Q. im very healthy. im super fit. i eat well and look after my body yet i still suffer from spots and now i have had two boils on my back. why is this ? i dont understand thanks chris...
A. 16 July 2008: yeah i drink lots of water. have been to doctor many times. they are useless... (read in full...)
Is it better to stay in his life or give him space?
Q. My boyfriend has issues trusting people. I know everyone in his past has hurt him, but he never talks about it. Also, the girl he was engaged to before just left him for no reason. I want him to be able to trust me, but when I try to talk to him he ...
A. 15 July 2008: hey hun.
dont give up just because of that. i know it must be difficult for you because you havent done anything wrong, right?
well you could wait for him to open up to you in your own time. maybe thats the best option. let the trust build. i... (read in full...)
How do I fix my scruffy husband?
Q. My husband's choice of clothing has got scruffier and scruffier and I find it embarrassing being out and about with him. As well as that, he doesn't change with the seasons any more as he used to, but wears long sleeved shirt, trousers, thick socks, ...
A. 15 July 2008: hey.
first you need to understand why is he covering himself up?
maybe its insecurities over his body?
maybe he is cold lol
the reason he wont wear new striking this seasons clothes? maybe he doesnt like attention but doesnt realise this way... (read in full...)
What pet names can you call a guy?
Q. A guy calls you 'baby, huni, sexy.' But what can you call a guy? ...
A. 15 July 2008: hi .
in public men dont like that sort of thing.
but babe is a nice thing to call him.
sexy is what you would say only when your in a horny mood because thats what it comes across as.
you can call him hun if you want . but not hunny
love an... (read in full...)
Am I psychic?
Q. Heyy ! Im getting rather freaked out . I think i have physic ablilities. This has only happened twice but it only begun recently. First Occasion: I had a dream about a man in a bear suit in some toilets , the day later the exact same bear outfit +...
A. 15 July 2008: hey. im only 16. im a psychic too! why are you freaked out ? well i can see why. i was scared when i saw spirits for the first time .it all started when i was about 14. when i had dreams like you. and things like i knew who was ringing the phone be... (read in full...)
Are these signs of immaturity that he'll grow out of?
Q. I've been dating a 6 years younger guy. He is 25, a typical American cool guy who's life is about gym and clubbing on the weekends, very social, fun to hang out with but sometimes annoyingly immature! He is a good looking guy with a nice bod...
A. 26 May 2008: Heya hun x.
this sort of relationship is one which develops into a controlled relationship. He will slowly work into your head and get you into a trap.
he is bullying you.
your shrinking so that others can shine does not serve the world but yo... (read in full...)
She still swears nothing more than kissing ever happened what do YOU think?
Q. About 2 years ago my girlfriend started a relationship with her ex for about 2 months behind my back (we had been together for 3 years at the time). They had been in an online relationship for years before we were together and talked frequently on ...
A. 30 April 2008: hi.
i dont want you to think because i am a psychic i will instantly be correct but i see that the pair had a strong emotional bond? freinds or lovers i dont know. but i also see the picture of deciet, this means that she may have been deci... (read in full...)
My husband doesn't pay me compliments because, he says, I don't accept them. I feel ignored and unattractive.
Q. My husband and I have been married 10yerars and have beautiful children. I get upset because my husband never compliments me...ever....yet he often has eyes for other women when we are out and enjoys looking at the women in porn....I have told him I ...
A. 13 April 2008: hi. i am only a teenage boy but i know this is NOT right and Not acceptable. what you are saying is not pathetic. i understand thoes few words can mean sooo much.maybe he needs to be put right now before it does any more damadge.also have you ... (read in full...)
I have to be whipped and shed blood for my country to consider me a "woman". I'm scared!
Q. In my country a girl must be whipped and shed blood for there to be a good harvest. If we flinch we dissapoint our clan. We then also aren't considered women... just girls. If I succeed I get a husbund. But I'm scared. Do you have advice?...
A. 13 April 2008: Give up this life ! is it right that to be ruled by a man , which is probably the way your marriage will run you must be tortured ? whipping is a brutal form of punishment not a Test !! if i was you i would find a nuns convent and live a life with ... (read in full...)
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