My boyfriend still goes to the ex's house to let the dog out!!!
Q. Hello Aunts and Uncles. I'll make this short and to the point but would really appreciate a guys take if possible. My boyfriend (we have been living together for about a year) he still goes to his ex's house (when she's working and yes she is ...
A. 31 October 2009: Oh come on. Have a heart. Why should the mut suffer. I dont even like dogs. Partly because they are almost as much hassle as kids. I got stuck with my ex's stupid tomcat that drove me bonkers .... (read in full...)
Would this letter make her reconsider our relationship???
Q. Do you think the following letter would make the person it was sent to to reconsider our relationship: Hey, You are right nothing is more important than God or family. The pictures I have attached are of Alex. Alex moved in to the house that I l...
A. 31 October 2009: No offense but allthough everyone only posts their side of the story. Its usually possible to get a clue about whats been going down. But allthough that letter maybe from the heart. It says very little about whats happened. If you have a drink ... (read in full...)
Should privacy still be allowed even although you're married?
Q. My spouse and I are at odd ends! I want to know if it is wrong of me to not give my spouse my email password. I have been told time and again that when you are married your not allowed to have personal email's or anything that is not disclosed. My ...
A. 31 October 2009: Of course your entitled to privacy. Married or not. Though if your looking for an easy life just open a new account and spam yourself and show her that.
Say "LOOK. HAPPY NOW".
Having privacy is essential i think. But then so is a certain ... (read in full...)
I'm fat with no boobs, will anyone ever love me?
Q. hi. i am just curious about something.. im 17 years old, im quite short fo rmy age, about 5'3. im a size 14-16 in clothes, but i only come in at a B in bra size. is this weird? when i look in the mirror i get so depressed. i have the smallest boobs ...
A. 31 October 2009: Its true what marieclaire says about women in uk. You are UK "medium". Or cuddly. You have nothing to worry about. ... (read in full...)
If you can afford me 2
Q. This is for women to answer, since men can't know the answer, unless they got it from a woman already. A woman who used to be a prostitute (so I figure she was low self esteem), told me all men who pay for dates are paying for sex/relations...
A. 31 October 2009: I aint a woman but i can tell you one flaw in your question. If i ask a woman out for say "a meal". I would expect it to be my treat so i would expect to pay. If she wanted to go dutch or pay for it all herself I would have no problems with that.
... (read in full...)
I still don't know for sure whether he can make it or not... Help!
Q. I am dating a guy. I invited him for dinner. He accepted but told me he will only have time next week after an examination. The examination will be on Thursday. Shall I ask him again at which time and day he will able to after the examinat...
A. 30 October 2009: If a woman i was in a relationship with said i was the only guy she cared for it would be a great compliment. If she asked about what to wear in her own home..well i would wonder why she couldnt decide that foe herself.
Problem here is your not ... (read in full...)
Opinions gratefully received. Should we stay together for the sake of the kids?
Q. I met my fiance a few years ago after a divorce. I was working at a tattoo studio and was "making up" for all the fun I missed out on in High School and College (I had "saved" myself for marriage). When we met, it was her intention to hav...
A. 29 October 2009: Why dont you try and make it work. You have only selfish reasons for leaving. You just sound bored. You will do as you please but you have a responsibility to the child. ... (read in full...)
She tells me she needs me... but she's got a boyfriend! How do I handle this?
Q. help!!! there is this girl who has had one boyfriend all her high school career, they have been going at it for over 2 and a halve years, i started talking to her 8 months ago. i have relaized that im and absolutly 100% in love with this girl, and ...
A. 29 October 2009: Why do you think she will happy with just you ? Carry on seeing her if you want to but i wouldnt look for (or want) any commitment from her. Were all different but if your getting the milk for free why buy the cow.... (read in full...)
Virgin... or not a virgin???
Q. I have a question regarding my virginity. I am not really sure if I am still a virgin or not. My boyfriend and I tried to have sex but he couldn't get his whole penis inside, only a bit went it and it hurt me. He slowly tried to put it more inside ...
A. 29 October 2009: You are not a virgin even if your hymen is still intact.... (read in full...)
Do you think I stand a chance with her?
Q. I met this girl about a year and a half ago in college, and I asked her to eat lunch but we never got around to it till around last month. There was absolutely no planning involved...I saw her randomly one morning while I was waiting for class and ...
A. 28 October 2009: Well tell that you find her very attractive and fun to be with. Then say you have to be honest and tell her you have feelings for her and like her to much to pretend your happy to be just friends.
Give her some time to think about it. A few days... (read in full...)
In love with the father of my child! Could it be real even if I haven't seen him in a year?
Q. Do you believe in love at first sight,, well i did and it was with my ex who i was with for almost 2 and ahalf years. when we first got together i ended up moving in with him and his parents. moved out and ended up 8 months down the road i was ...
A. 28 October 2009: I would think you are on his mind. Though not in the way you would like to be. Try to do whats best for the child. ... (read in full...)
Should I persue this girl and our internet "relationship"?
Q. me and this girl I know have been in a sort of internet relationship for about 2 or 3 years. Well actually we were in one for about 5 months and then we lost contact. So I guess you can say it was over. This was in 2006-2007. Forward to may 2008 and ...
A. 28 October 2009: I don't talk as much? You never even seen me in person. You don't know what I'm like. You don't know what I do. You don't know ANYBODY on the internet. You don't love anybody on the internet either.
Well thats true.
. You never looked me ... (read in full...)
Does sex play a huge role in dating?
Q. How long do you wait for sex with a guy so he doesnt think you are a hoe or slut?...
A. 28 October 2009: There is nothing to gain by waiting months or weeks before making your first move on girl you are dating and hoping to have a relationship with. And i dont mean trying to steal sly grope or begging for sex or anything underhand. A guy can (or should ... (read in full...)
Is being a close friend a turnoff?
Q. I dont understand people sometimes they say they wont go out with someone because they see them as a close friend. But people usually say to have a good relationship friendship should be there. I dont understand why being a close friend is a turn ...
A. 27 October 2009: Havent you heard of the rule. "You dont f*** your friends". I lost my rule book. But i think most women draw a clear line between guys they like as friends and the type of guys they want to date. They are not even similar. Havent you ever wondered ... (read in full...)
Should I date someone better looking than me?
Q. should i date someone that is more better looking than me. could my insecurity cause the relationship...
A. 27 October 2009: Well i would have to go to the zoo to find a woman more ugly than me so i am forced to settle for good looking women. Ugly men just have to work a bit harder. They cant just rely on their good looks and some women appreciate that. I have never heard ... (read in full...)
What should I do and what am I doing wrong?
Q. i have been together with my girlfriend for 2 years and we lived together for 8 months and she recently told me that she wanted me to leave because she felt we should be apart for a while till we are more grown up. She just most recently told me ...
A. 27 October 2009: This is only my opinion but it sounds like she's met someone but isnt sure sure if its going to go anywhere. Who owns your home ? If it isnt in her name only i would agree to parting for a while but change the locks and pack her bags beforehand. She ... (read in full...)
How do I sweep him off his feet?
Q. the guy i love has loved a girl for 15 years,and he told me that he wants to forget her,and that he thinks that im the one who could make him do that..can anyone please tell me how?please can you help me think of something?i wanna sweep him off his ...
A. 27 October 2009: Maybe you should be thinking more about what happens when he no longer needs you for support. ... (read in full...)
Is an hour for sex too long?
Q. Sex with my fiance' usually lasts 45 min to an hour. She complains that it takes me too long, but i have "trained myself" to last like this, and now its difficult to have an orgasm in a hurry (less than 15 min). She complains about it, but I though...
A. 27 October 2009: Dont know about the women over there mate but they would only complain over here if they missed the begining of Eastenders or X Factor on tv.... (read in full...)
Was my boyfriend just trying something new or was I right to react the way I did?
Q. im 16 and my boyfriend is 19. we had been fighting lately and just got back together last night. i went over his house last night and we worked it out. so we were just sitting there watching tv, him on the couch and me in the chair next to ...
A. 26 October 2009: you believe u know what it is like? i guarantee you do not.
How would you know ? You had to ask here if you had been raped so doubt if you would know if i had.
do not make assumptions. i described in this post what had happened, advice... (read in full...)
Was my boyfriend just trying something new or was I right to react the way I did?
Q. im 16 and my boyfriend is 19. we had been fighting lately and just got back together last night. i went over his house last night and we worked it out. so we were just sitting there watching tv, him on the couch and me in the chair next to ...
A. 26 October 2009: You dont understand how easy it is to spot a drama queen either. What you descibed was rape. I answered accordingly. But that doesnt mean i believed you were actually raped. Women who falsly claim to have bean raped are nothing but a menace. Many ... (read in full...)
Russian brides? Con artists?
Q. Hello Here is my story about Russian Brides and would like to see if anyone can help me out I am 19 and in Feburary 2009 my father passed away at the age of 63. In 2006 he met a woman named Viktoria from Tibilsi Georgia, in Febuary 2006 on...
A. 26 October 2009: The law sucks. I have heard off private investigators out there who will check womens backgrounds due to so many guys getting shafted by these women. But Russia runs on corruption and they will want cash upfront.
I doubt its worth... (read in full...)
How should I handle her being upset with me?
Q. Hey ive been seeing this woman for a little less than 2 months now and i am really into her. she has a kid and is 3 years older than i am. We are not official yet because she basically wants to make sure i am the right guy. we work togeth...
A. 26 October 2009: You problem your talking when you should be listening.... (read in full...)
She's unsure and doesn't want to try in case it ruins what we have, should I move on or keep trying?
Q. I've been really close with this girl, i met her about 5 months ago now. Since we met i've always had that sort of feeling for her and i think she had it for me too. About a month ago i couldn't stand it any longer so i sent her an email telling her ...
A. 26 October 2009: What do you think will piss you off the most. Me. Or seeing a string of girls you fancy going out with other blokes.
Its your call. Makes no odds to me. ... (read in full...)
Surely he must be really into me if he doesn't mind that I had a baby with someone else?
Q. there is this guy i know for about 5yrs we dated at one point in time, prior to that we were friends so we had known each other on that level before we became intimate, however we broke up, we both were seeing other people, we then met again about a ...
A. 26 October 2009: Well when i was single and had no ties. And by that i mean no children. I had my best relationships on the rebound. Which as everybody knows is not supposed to work. But for me it did. I did go out with one girl for a few years who had a 3 year old ... (read in full...)
Surely he must be really into me if he doesn't mind that I had a baby with someone else?
Q. there is this guy i know for about 5yrs we dated at one point in time, prior to that we were friends so we had known each other on that level before we became intimate, however we broke up, we both were seeing other people, we then met again about a ...
A. 26 October 2009: Ok. You know him well but obviously you dont trust him. Or you wouldnt need to ask anybody. You also have a baby. I think you should forget this guy.... (read in full...)
How should I handle her being upset with me?
Q. Hey ive been seeing this woman for a little less than 2 months now and i am really into her. she has a kid and is 3 years older than i am. We are not official yet because she basically wants to make sure i am the right guy. we work togeth...
A. 26 October 2009: i feel like everything will be fine but want to make sure im doing the right thing and taking her word that everything is ok
Nope. I think if you cant be more discreet your going to end up working the opposite shift and single. Her job may be m... (read in full...)
Surely he must be really into me if he doesn't mind that I had a baby with someone else?
Q. there is this guy i know for about 5yrs we dated at one point in time, prior to that we were friends so we had known each other on that level before we became intimate, however we broke up, we both were seeing other people, we then met again about a ...
A. 26 October 2009: So you only want us to read his mind ? ... (read in full...)
Was my boyfriend just trying something new or was I right to react the way I did?
Q. im 16 and my boyfriend is 19. we had been fighting lately and just got back together last night. i went over his house last night and we worked it out. so we were just sitting there watching tv, him on the couch and me in the chair next to ...
A. 26 October 2009: Hun i aint dumb. I said you described a rape. And you did. ... (read in full...)
I like my sister in law in a sexual way! Please help!
Q. this is about my sister in law. we are quite friendly. we used to talk many things and are free to talk anything. first place i love her as my sister and i have respect for her. she is elder to my wife and me. many times i saw that she kind of expos...
A. 26 October 2009: I know you are from a different culture and have seen the sites that cater for these kind of storys.
Dont bite folk. Its just a kid.... (read in full...)
She's unsure and doesn't want to try in case it ruins what we have, should I move on or keep trying?
Q. I've been really close with this girl, i met her about 5 months ago now. Since we met i've always had that sort of feeling for her and i think she had it for me too. About a month ago i couldn't stand it any longer so i sent her an email telling her ...
A. 25 October 2009: Oh lord..I'm being dissed by 17 yr old boy. My life is over. I will never hold my head up high again. Lol.
I'm not you momma ok. And if i was being being a twat i would make you cry. If this is hissing fit is how you allways act when you dont hea... (read in full...)
Desperate to start a family! Am I rushing things?
Q. Hey im 20 years old and im desperate to start a familly i am in a serious relationship and living with my partner we get on amazingly and have been together for 2 years the only problem is i told him how i felt and all he said is hes not re...
A. 25 October 2009: That wasnt wise. I cant speak for him. Only think back to how i would have felt. I was in a similar situation but not engaged. She wanted to get married in a few years. Eventually she left me and it hurt at the time. But it was for the best.
I ho... (read in full...)
Sex with cousin?
Q. i need some help am confused, i dunno if i love my cousion, we have not had sex yet but we've come close quite a few times,we've kissed and pleasured each other, this has been happening for a number of years this started when i was about 11 and she ...
A. 25 October 2009: It depends on if your cousin wants to really. Then you deal with the rest of your familly. ... (read in full...)
She's unsure and doesn't want to try in case it ruins what we have, should I move on or keep trying?
Q. I've been really close with this girl, i met her about 5 months ago now. Since we met i've always had that sort of feeling for her and i think she had it for me too. About a month ago i couldn't stand it any longer so i sent her an email telling her ...
A. 25 October 2009: You could ask for a date. But you are afraid of that so..Have you tried voodoo ?
Or you could fake a heart attack near her. When she visits you in hospital dont run away. She must like you. Phone her friends and ask them. No ..that wont work.
... (read in full...)
Was my boyfriend just trying something new or was I right to react the way I did?
Q. im 16 and my boyfriend is 19. we had been fighting lately and just got back together last night. i went over his house last night and we worked it out. so we were just sitting there watching tv, him on the couch and me in the chair next to ...
A. 25 October 2009: You described a rape. But then said
"i am uncomfortable now and i feel it will be weird to have sex with him again..."
Which gives the impression that you havent considered reporting it. You do women an injustice. I wonder how many more will let... (read in full...)
I asked him to delete me; is that it?
Q. i need some advice please. i recently come into contact with my ex after 4 years of not talking- i discovered he got married. ive always felt bad for the way we split even though it was both our faults. i was feeling low one night and sent an email...
A. 25 October 2009: You cannot delete an ex. I have tried it. It didnt work.
So are you going to ask a question or is that it ?... (read in full...)
She's unsure and doesn't want to try in case it ruins what we have, should I move on or keep trying?
Q. I've been really close with this girl, i met her about 5 months ago now. Since we met i've always had that sort of feeling for her and i think she had it for me too. About a month ago i couldn't stand it any longer so i sent her an email telling her ...
A. 25 October 2009: What exactly do you mean by "keep" trying ?
You should start trying.
I wouldnt send her no letter. She will get over you.
Trust me. You could scare her.... (read in full...)
Surely he must be really into me if he doesn't mind that I had a baby with someone else?
Q. there is this guy i know for about 5yrs we dated at one point in time, prior to that we were friends so we had known each other on that level before we became intimate, however we broke up, we both were seeing other people, we then met again about a ...
A. 25 October 2009: Sorry but i havent understood a single thing you have posted. ... (read in full...)
Surely he must be really into me if he doesn't mind that I had a baby with someone else?
Q. there is this guy i know for about 5yrs we dated at one point in time, prior to that we were friends so we had known each other on that level before we became intimate, however we broke up, we both were seeing other people, we then met again about a ...
A. 25 October 2009: Thats as clear as mud then. ... (read in full...)
What are healthy boundaries when dealing with a Narcissist?
Q. A friend introduced me to the term "Narcissistic Personality Disorder" and boy did it open my eyes. My father has been an INTENSE narcissistic, an especially sly one, ever since I can remember.. and until recently I thought he just had issues and ...
A. 25 October 2009: Your dad may have all those faults but you have turned out to be a very bright and considerate young woman. So somebody must have done something right.
And if i were him and i read you were looking for a substitute father i would be hear... (read in full...)
I only touched it twice and he came right away! Is this normal?
Q. I have very little experience when it comes to guys, but me a this guy were french kissing and his hands were everywhere and I could feel he was exteremely turned on, next thing he had his pants down and put my hand on his penis and I only touched ...
A. 24 October 2009: Thats very hairtrigger. Normal for a boy under 18 if its his first time. Let him have one practice shot. He wont be quite as sensitive second time. Your 22. ggg pardon me. ... (read in full...)
Russian brides? Con artists?
Q. Hello Here is my story about Russian Brides and would like to see if anyone can help me out I am 19 and in Feburary 2009 my father passed away at the age of 63. In 2006 he met a woman named Viktoria from Tibilsi Georgia, in Febuary 2006 on...
A. 24 October 2009: I dont know much about contesting a will but one thing that may be in your favour(may)is the mariage was quite short. If i were you i would read everything i could find on the net on the subject. See if its possible to freeze any of your dads assets ... (read in full...)
She's unsure and doesn't want to try in case it ruins what we have, should I move on or keep trying?
Q. I've been really close with this girl, i met her about 5 months ago now. Since we met i've always had that sort of feeling for her and i think she had it for me too. About a month ago i couldn't stand it any longer so i sent her an email telling her ...
A. 24 October 2009: You said.. Then about 2 weeks ago she wrote me a letter saying that she'd been really stupid and that she wanted to be in a relationship and that she had feelings for me. So i considered asking her out cos we both felt the same way. Look aga... (read in full...)
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