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writes:I cheated on my boyfriend the other day, i told him what happened, now he wants me to think of a solution, but i don't have one, and his solution is to do the same thing to me, to make it even.what should i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2008): Getting even would maybe make him feel better, but it would wreck your relationship, and it would ruin the way you feel towards him too. Unless you want an open relationship where you both cheat on each other and accept it, then i would say to him not to do it and give him the reasons why you dont want him too. If he truly loves you or has any kind of respect or feelings towards you he would respect what you say to him and not do it. He shouldnt want to get even anyway. I think you should have a talk about how he is feeling and why he wants to do this, you also need to find out of hes going to forgive you for this, and make sure he doesnt use what you did against you so that he can get his own way in the future!
Good luck babes! x
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2008): Right. Straight out, you two are not in love. Is there any point in carrying on with the relationship? I suggest you just end it.
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reader, St Augustine  +, writes (24 September 2008):
The question is what do you want to do with yourself? Than with that relationship? Are you ready for the relationship? If you enjoy experimenting and trying out maybe you should leave this relationship. If not and you are sorry, and feel what you did is wrong maybe you should think about what is wrong with the relationship you have with your boyfriend. People don’t cheat just like that they do it when they feel insecure or bored.
Good luck
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reader, augony aunt  +, writes (24 September 2008):
well tell him i know that would be fair but that is just wrong so i am so sorry but it will have to be over this wont work it is a disaster waiting to happen please write back to me if yhuu have took my advice
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reader, lilgirly  +, writes (24 September 2008):
 i don't think that if he got even with you is the answer. and i know that it will ruin things..
and if he loves you i don't think that he would do it!
if i were you my soluton would be:tell him you're sorry and show him that you mean it,and promise him that you won't do it again..if he can't accept that well i think that it is over..because him hooking up with another woman isn't the right choice..
take care and good luck XXXX
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reader, TELLULAH +, writes (24 September 2008):
 Two wrongs dont make a right, do they? Of course thats not the solution, it could go round and round in circles.
If he loves you he wouldnt want to get even, there must be some other way you can make him see how sorry you are.
Why did you feel the need to cheat on him anyway??
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