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writes:me and my girl have been dateing for 2 years now but people keep telling me she is cheating on me and she gos to college so she nevver has time for me i dont know if i should belleve them and brake up with her or to just dropp it what should i do Reply to this Question
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reader, oh_anthony +, writes (28 September 2008):
i have been around the block in all sorts of situations, and you do not ever listen to any of your friends, nor hers. you have to go right to the source. is she lookin at you the way she use to? does she cling to you? cuddle with you? if she seems distant and what not it is a possible chance she might be or feelings just changed. but you do not want to just say she cheated and break up with her. you do want to talk to her about how you feel and lay it all out on the table. she needs to know what is exactly going on in your head. her first reaction may be upsetting, but she will get over that, and know that you are only doing it because you love her. if it is true love, you will get through anything
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reader, lilgirly  +, writes (28 September 2008):
 first of all in many relationships people tend to like breaking couples apart..so you can't beleive everything you've been told!you have to see for yourself if she's cheating and not blame her about something she might've not done..talk to her.. communication is always the key for a healthy relation..she might get upset and angry.but tell her what you're going through..don't place blame!!
good luck hun take care XXXX
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2008): Hey lool if I was you I would bring it up casually like can we make some time to chat. Ask her say I have been told by some people that are cheating on me and I just wanted you to tell me the truth I believe you no matter what. I just want us to spend time together.
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